<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430</id><updated>2011-07-08T08:01:09.072-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Age of Enlightenment</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default?start-index=101&amp;max-results=100'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>461</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-4474530789416150775</id><published>2009-10-02T13:04:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-02T13:04:23.463-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Imagine Jesus' Children Reporting Directly to God</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Now what if, Jesus actually had a son, and his son followed the Old Testament rule of being fruitful and multiply. Each one of Jesus' kids had at least 10 kids and by now there's thousands of his descendants all over the world and these guys are watching everything that's going on around them and reporting everything directly to God.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Imagine this, every one of his kids have down syndrome, are handicapped, blind, deaf, homeless, homosexuals and the worst of all, atheists. They have been strategically positioned all over the world to gather information on how, Christians actually treat other people.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Every time that a homeless person has asked you for spare change and you haven't given them anything, this would count as one black mark against you, on the great chalkboard at Judgment Day.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Every sign you held up, rejecting gay marriage or abortion, would count as five black marks. Each one of these people or any other person, who you had intentionally hurt their feelings, would be 15 black marks.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Every time that you lied to another Christian, this would be 50 black marks. If a Christian lied to a nonbeliever, especially when trying to convince them that the Bible is the written Word of God, this would be 150 black marks.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Jesus' children would be reporting directly to him on a daily basis, through the use of the Internet, God's Internet that is. Every Christian who thought they were doing the Lord's work, could actually be in grave danger.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You only get a thousand black marks and if you're 150 black mark short of entering heaven, you will have plenty of time, as you burn in eternal lake of fire, forever. Think about it, the next time that you lie to someone, refuse generosity, or try to convince someone that the Bible is actually the written word of God.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You are free to copy this article to your site as long as you include the following resource information with an active link to my site:&lt;br&gt; Greg Vanden Berge is a published author, internet marketing expert, motivational inspiration to millions of people all over the world and is sharing some of his wisdom with experts in the fields of writing,marketing, and personal development. Check out one of his recommended books, &lt;a target="_new" href="http://spiritualbooks4u.com/arnold_patent.htm"&gt;You Can Have It All&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg is currently working on a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/articles.htm"&gt;self help library&lt;/a&gt; filled with great subjects on a wide array of topics, like religion, self help and spiritual changes in the world. His views on religious freedom are slowly changing the way people think about institutional religion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thanks for reading my articles&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-4474530789416150775?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/4474530789416150775/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=4474530789416150775' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4474530789416150775'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4474530789416150775'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/10/imagine-jesus-children-reporting.html' title='Imagine Jesus&apos; Children Reporting Directly to God'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-5085141207013098139</id><published>2009-10-02T01:55:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-02T01:55:25.730-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Mysteries of the Bible - Advanced Bible Study Techniques</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Have you ever wanted to really know what the mysteries of the Bible really are? Was Jesus more important than God? Why were the Jewish people considered to be the chosen ones, even though they don't get to go to heaven, because they don't believe that Jesus Christ was their Lord and Savior? I would like to help you solve some of the mysteries of the Bible.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Whether you're a Jewish or believe in Christianity, each if you share an interest in the Holy Scripture. Jewish people obviously don't believe that Jesus was the Messiah and are still waiting for their Messiah to come and free them. Christians obviously believe that Jesus of Nazareth was the true Messiah and fulfilled all the prophecies.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;One of the mysteries of the Bible that I would like to share with you, is that your actually going to need to read the Bible to find them. The biggest mystery of the Bible is actually reading it. You don't need to read the entire Bible, to figure out, what it's actually saying.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Start reading certain sections that interest you. Two of the most read books in the Bible are the books of Genesis, which is the first book in the Old Testament and the book of revelations, which is the last book in the New Testament. Both of these books are extremely popular reads.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The book of Genesis is about the beginning and the book of revelations is about the end of times and this seems to be the biggest interest for Christians. In other words, you're not going to be able to find the mysteries, within the Bible if you don't at least start to read some of it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You are free to copy this article to your site as long as you include the following resource information with an active link to my site:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If You're a Christian Woman, You Had Better Watch This Video on &lt;a target="_new" href="http://didgodactuallysaythat.spiritualbooks4u.com/videos/can_women_speak_inside_of_church.htm"&gt;Problems With Women Speaking&lt;/a&gt; in church. Are women really allowed to speak inside the church, you won't believe what you're about to see.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is a published author, internet marketing expert, motivational inspiration to millions of people all over the world and is sharing some of his wisdom with experts in the fields of writing,marketing, and personal development. Check out one of his recommended books, &lt;a target="_new" href="http://spiritualbooks4u.com/arnold_patent.htm"&gt;You Can Have It All&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thanks&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-5085141207013098139?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/5085141207013098139/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=5085141207013098139' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5085141207013098139'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5085141207013098139'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/10/mysteries-of-bible-advanced-bible-study.html' title='Mysteries of the Bible - Advanced Bible Study Techniques'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-1048535983918046746</id><published>2009-10-01T14:26:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-01T14:26:57.844-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Properly Exercising Faith - People Who Represent Christianity</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;It's your responsibility as a Christian to properly exercise your faith and to express your opinions as such. If you don't know something for a fact, you are obligated to seek and gather more information about these so-called facts.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;With this said, if you hear a Bible verse quoted to you by someone and you don't necessarily understand 100% of what they are saying or you think that they might be twisting around the Scripture, it's your obligation to find out, the truth and nothing but the truth.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Let me give you an example of how to properly exercise your faith. An atheist walks up to you and asks you why you believe in God, you reply," Because it says so in the Bible." Wrong.., wrong answer. Because it says so in the Bible, isn't what I would consider a good answer. It's what I would consider to be a controlled Christian answer, simple but untrue.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The minute that you start referring to things in the Bible and you don't really understand what it is that you're talking about, you're not doing Christianity any favors. The minute that you listen to another person quote out of the Bible and start repeating, what it is that they were saying, without clearly understanding the truth, you're simply spreading rumors.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Think about this, the next time that you tell someone something that you heard, just because you hear something three times, doesn't make it a fact. I would like to tell you a little secret, so pay attention, simply because someone within your religious community, who others look up to, say something that sounds believable, don't start spreading rumors, find out for yourself, if it's actually true.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://didgodactuallysaythat.spiritualbooks4u.com/"&gt;Christian Bible Problems&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You are free to copy this article to your site as long as you include the following resource information with an active link to my site:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is a published author and a inspiration to millions of people. He has been involved in religious research for almost 30 years, and his influence in the Christian community is growing. The Holy Bible, is the core to Christian beliefs and most Christians don't even question it. Was the Bible actually written by men?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;His newest book," Did God Actually Say That?" Was written specifically for Christians who are interested in gaining additional knowledge about the Bible. This book provides Christians with advanced biblical knowledge, answer some tough questions and should be read by every faithful follower of Christ.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://didgodactuallysaythat.spiritualbooks4u.com/videos/who_said_the_bible_was_easy.htm"&gt;Understanding the Bible&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-1048535983918046746?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/1048535983918046746/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=1048535983918046746' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1048535983918046746'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1048535983918046746'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/10/properly-exercising-faith-people-who.html' title='Properly Exercising Faith - People Who Represent Christianity'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-7115647859725183643</id><published>2009-09-15T00:22:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-15T00:22:58.120-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Helping You Recover From Grief and Loss</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Journaling is about empowerment through self-awareness. It is a process by which you meet your needs for emotional and spiritual cleansing. Journaling removes the cobwebs from your thought processes by recording the ideas, feelings and emotions that are currently distracting to you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This process is about balance. Journaling gives you access to your inner thoughts and feelings, and removes them from the cluttered storehouse of your unconscious. Then, you can clearly see where you are going from day to day, what you are thinking and what you need to focus on as your growth unfolds.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The world opens up to you when you start journaling because your unconscious receives the message that you are ready to receive information from your inner world.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Self-empowerment through self-knowledge is about entering your world of unconscious activity where you have stored past traumas, hurt feelings and any un-examined life events. When you are open to this process, you will discover much about yourself that has heretofore remained hidden.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Journaling is not a short cut to creative writing, as some would have you believe. It is simply an access point to your inner life where valuable information about who and what you are can be uncovered.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Disregard any other ideas you may have about journaling, especially those that suggest you have to write creatively and with purpose. This is not the case. Journaling is about self-revelation. You are bringing your unconscious self to conscious awareness. Only by knowing what you believe in, and then acting on that information, can you make choices for the better.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The conditioning you received in your early years is still active, even if it no longer rises to conscious awareness. That's what repeating patterns of behavior are all about. We are being driven by some part of us that believes in unquestioned and outdated ideas. Once you see these patterns, and the ideas that drive them, you can interrupt your automatic responses and make new choices.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Prepare yourself for a rough ride, at times, as your unconscious protector-controller tries to steer you away from recognizing this inner activity. This part of you has a big investment in remaining hidden and will resist your pursuit of self-honesty and increased awareness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In the end you will acquire what you want, because your submerged self wants to come forward and enjoy the same level of freedom you desire.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The old guard, the protector-controller, will put up resistance because it is about to lose its job. Successful journaling requires you listen to all the voices within, including this one. So when that part is active, put it on the page.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Your resistance will hiss and snarl at times of change, so let it do so in your journal. You will see this happen time and time again. It's a struggle, after all, for every part of you. When you choose to make a change for the better, it upsets the old inner balance. Let the resistance have its say in your journal. Only then can you set it aside and resume your forward motion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Once you begin this process and engage in it regularly, your journaling will become self-activating. Whenever something inside you clamors for attention, you will find yourself reaching for the journal to let it out. Whatever needs attention, put it on the page - good, bad or indifferent. Do not edit or deny what is begging for attention. You will learn that these so-called "negative" parts of you are just scared. Once those feelings are out, you will immediately calm down.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Journaling is a very powerful process of self-communication. It will activate itself time and again as you become accustomed to using it. Begin simply by recording your feelings. Let your inner self tell you what is going on inside. Ask yourself feeling questions, mainly, because we are all capable of rationalizing our thoughts and feelings rather than experiencing them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When you ask feeling questions, listen for feeling answers and write them down. Your protector-controller will try and dissuade you from going too deep. Feeling questions help you sidetrack that resistance.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"How do I feel about . . . .?" will help you reach the center of any difficulty while bypassing the defenses to awareness of your interior life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You will discover things about yourself that are truly amazing, secrets you've never revealed to anyone. You will uncover regrets you have had about past experiences, hopes you hold for your future and secret desires that you have never acknowledged. This is your chance to do all that adventurous excavating while clearing your emotional and feeling centre of psychological debris.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This will be a time of great learning accompanied by great frustration. It is all part of the package. Journaling brings out everything and that is always to your benefit.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do not give up on your recording practices just because things have calmed down. Your journaling sessions will become smoother as time marches on, and you'll be better equipped, in terms of emotional and spiritual strength, to handle each and every crisis that comes your way.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Journaling takes you to the Well of Wisdom from where all answers emerge. Eventually, you will find yourself confronted with the deity that is you, your own holy soul. This encounter will reveal much about who you are and help you secure that connection with your Higher Self.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In time, you will trust that connection so completely that you will begin to access it often, especially when big decisions are at stake. At this point, you will see yourself as a co-creator with your God Source and happily utilize that guidance for every aspect of your life. That is the power of journaling. It puts you in touch with your essential self, which puts you in touch with your Source. We are part of a Divine Matrix and we are all enriched by this connection.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Let Journaling be Your Friend from this point forward.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Maurice Turmel holds a PhD in Counseling Psychology. He was a practicing therapist for nearly 25 years providing counseling and therapy to individuals, groups, organizations and families. He is the author of "The Voice - A Metaphor for Personal Development"; "Mythical Times - Exploring Life, Love &amp; Purpose"; and "How to Cope with Grief and Loss - Support, Guidance and Direction for Your Healing Journey". He has been a guest on numerous regional television and radio talk shows and hosts his own radio shows on live365.com/drmauriceturmel and on BlogTalkRadio.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Email: &lt;a href="mailto:drmoe2000@gmail.com"&gt;drmoe2000@gmail.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt; Websites: &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.howtocopewithgriefandloss.com"&gt;http://www.howtocopewithgriefandloss.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-7115647859725183643?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/7115647859725183643/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=7115647859725183643' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7115647859725183643'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7115647859725183643'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/helping-you-recover-from-grief-and-loss.html' title='Helping You Recover From Grief and Loss'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-2690631390253642183</id><published>2009-09-14T11:20:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-14T11:20:26.205-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Wishing For Riches - Self Help Tips</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Anybody can wish for riches, and most people do, but only a few know that a definite plan, plus a burning desire for wealth, are the only dependable means of accumulating wealth.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This statement is at the beginning of Chapter 13 from the book "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are so many different methods, from so many different people, but most people don't know where to start, or plan their way to success.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have heard some people mention the hardest part is actually starting, while others say you have to start somewhere, anywhere but start. Starting is usually the hardest part for most people, they get defeated by their own beliefs and of course never even start.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Fear of failure and fear of success, seem to be at the top of the list when thinking about starting a business. It's always been hard to imagine people being afraid to succeed, when this is what they seem to desire the most.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Wishing for riches can motivate you to start, thinking about the many different ways to succeed can motivate you to plan. A burning dire to succeed well often motivate you to start and create a plan eventually.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The key to creating wealth is developing habits and good daily habits performed over a lifetime, most of the time, will lead you to wealth beyond your wildest dream's. Sometimes this wealth is going to have nothing to do with money.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://spiritualbooks4u.com"&gt;Get some books&lt;/a&gt;, talk to some people, watch some biographies about successful people throughout history, find out what they did and start paving your own trail. But you're going to have to start somewhere.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is a published author, internet marketing expert, motivational inspiration to millions of people all over the world and is sharing some of his wisdom with experts in the fields of writing, marketing and personal development.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg is currently working on a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/gregs_videos.htm"&gt;video library&lt;/a&gt; filled with great movies on a wide array of topics, like religion, self help and spiritual changes in the world.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-2690631390253642183?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/2690631390253642183/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=2690631390253642183' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2690631390253642183'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2690631390253642183'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/wishing-for-riches-self-help-tips.html' title='Wishing For Riches - Self Help Tips'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-8475357553716862703</id><published>2009-09-13T21:56:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-13T21:56:58.049-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Organic Food Coupons</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;All-organic meals may come as more expensive than a regular protein-carbohydrate combo one. And yes, it's more difficult to find fiber-rich and organic foods sold at lesser prices. But with organic food coupons, you can enjoy a considerable amount of savings. Quite a few manufacturers are open-minded about giving out coupons as they are still soliciting ample resources to cater to the market's escalating needs. If you are bold enough to communicate with the bigwigs of sellers and re-sellers, there is a greater possibility of acquiring coupons from them. How much more when they learn that you are a die-hard fanatic of organic foods?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Other consumers believe that acquiring some organic food coupons would entail more efforts. At present times, the trend of qualifying organic foods as part of the product lines is growing among several food makers. Brands like Campbell's, McCormick, Grape Nuts and Chips a Hoy are embracing the idea of going organic with their food selection. While it is realistic that finding coupons for natural food purchases can be a bit hard, it doesn't suggest that no companies would be open to handing out coupons. It only goes to say that you need to allocate and assert more work to find them online. By browsing the Internet pages, you will eventually learn which companies are actually distributing food coupons.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Shoppers nowadays are becoming choosier in their way of purchasing foods. This reality tends them to resort to the idea of shopping with the use of organic food coupons. The advantage of those who actually buy on a budget is that they can wisely pick the items needed while saving big bucks. What's so good now is that there are quite a number of websites that actually offer food coupons. Newspaper circulars released on Sundays also have coupons inserted. Before availing of the coupons, you must verify through the websites if the coupons are acquired directly from them or by other means. SCO Juice, Coleman Natural, Mambo Sprouts, Stony Field Farms, Organic Valley and Shop Nature Oasis are among those who offer special food coupons for organic and natural foods.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The market tells us that there are two accepted ways wherein organic food coupons can be obtained. There are certain manufacturers that actually provide coupon booklet through the retailers every quarter. You can also print coupons directly from the manufacturer's website. Mambosprouts.com has coupons that can be printed. During holidays like Thanksgiving and Christmas, these food coupons are widely distributed and mailed directly to shoppers. Just so you know which websites to go for you to get the coupons, you can begin exploring the search engine. That's the best option there is to embrace so that you get your coupons in perfect timing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ian Pennington is an accomplished niche website developer and author.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;To learn more about &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.myorganicmarkets.info/organic-food-coupons/"&gt;organic food&lt;/a&gt;, please visit &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.myorganicmarkets.info/"&gt;My Organic Markets&lt;/a&gt; for current articles and discussions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-8475357553716862703?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/8475357553716862703/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=8475357553716862703' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8475357553716862703'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8475357553716862703'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/organic-food-coupons.html' title='Organic Food Coupons'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-3558494052511229729</id><published>2009-09-13T08:43:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-13T08:43:49.206-07:00</updated><title type='text'>8 Feng Shui Ways to Be a Grandparent</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;You may ask what being a grandparent has to do with Feng Shui. My answer is, 'Feng Shui is our reaction to the environment.' Family is a piece of the puzzle.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Reflect back to when you heard you were becoming a grandparent, or fantasize about what it will be like. Did you or will you think, "I'm not ready for this?" Or, were you like (or will you be like) me ... so excited? The honor of a new life in our family meant many things, and I couldn't help but also daydream at the prospect of playing again, and freedoms I didn't feel I had as a parent. It is said that 'once a man, twice a child;' (Rabbis) -- meaning we are born and die with limited mental capabilities, yet live as adults once. While debatable, you get the concept.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Growing up, I did not want to hear how my parents walked a mile in snow to go to school. Certainly, our children don't want to hear the 'same old' from us. In most cases, they can't relate. Actually, my mother never went to school. She was in an Australian adoption home, never feeling wanted (and before education and 'school' was mandated). Dad left home at 16 to join the service because his father passed, and his Mother couldn't afford five children during the depression (one with a disability). As far as grandparents, I only knew one. She came to live with us following an auto accident, and on a good day she tolerated us.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Before both my parents passed, I asked each if we could go through pictures. Mom was an amateur photographer so she was delighted to dig the photos out. This endeavor was one of the most memorable times I had with them. Instead of asking what the pictures were ... I asked what they were going through at the time, who their support group was, and what their joys and fears were. After all, we all have heavy boots to wear (something to learn, ways that we suffer). My parents met during World War II and my uncles all served. The reality is that life doesn't come with an instruction manual (whether a parent, sibling, spouse, or parent). The questions I asked my parents were open ended, and invoked a bigger-picture explanation. Their answers provided a real glimpse into their lives.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So, this article is about children. We can ask ourselves how our lives would be different "if." We can't go back (at least not yet) so it is our duty to go forward. Learn from the past and don't make the same mistakes. My first pregnancy was an ectopic one so I never saw my child. My second born was my daughter (who eventually passed over). Keeping a long story short, decades later, my granddaughter was born. Gems that I have learned and want to share with you are listed below in a short list. It's not necessarily inclusive, and it is a place to start. Remember, our youth is our future. Help create it!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Eight Feng Shui ways to Be a Grandparent:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;1. When viewing a picture of your grandchild, ask them what is going on in their life (friends, bullies, teachers they like, teachers they don't (and why to both), etc.) rather than about the picture itself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;2. Encourage them to be all they can be. Limitations will reveal themselves as your grandchild grows. Remember to include lost arts such as manners, and contributions such as chores.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;3. Teach them that money is a tool, not an end to a means. That being said, also teach them how to manage money -- balance a checkbook, save, and avoid debt.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;4. Set an example of acceptance. This might be an act of kindness every day to a stranger or neighbor. Let them see that everyone deserves respect.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;5. Actions speak louder than words.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;a. When you help others, take your grandchild with you. &lt;br&gt;b. When you volunteer (soup kitchen, food bank, clothing drive, picking up trash, etc.), take them with you.&lt;br&gt;c. When you vote, take them with you. &lt;br&gt;d. Let them know their action and words make a difference. Complaining isn't productive-instead, action discloses ways that work (or are discoveries in and of themselves). Coach them that wounds may heal but unkind words last forever-what we put into the world comes back to us. &lt;br&gt;e. Consider a change of perspective (make another city or country available). A change of environment can be eye opening.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;6. Educate them that instant gratification is temporary.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;a. Each person needs to learn their own truth and purpose. That means reading, processing, problem solving, and learning. &lt;br&gt;b. Technology (TV, the internet, iPods, etc.) occupies us but what has it really made better? Information can be controlled and manipulated. Take your grandchildren into nature and explore the wonders there. Seek other people to expand your horizons. &lt;br&gt;c. Enroll your grandchildren in growing, cooking, and shopping for healthy food. &lt;br&gt;d. Tutor them on what is good for Mother Earth (what is meant by sustainable, renewable, and attuning to the environment). It is rewarding to reuse, renew, and recycle.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;7. Persuade them to write their own legacy-begin with the end in mind. Each one of us has an innate desire to make a difference. Ask your grandchild how they want to be remembered, and be supportive when the story changes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;8. Love them unconditionally. Let them know that no matter what happens, you are there for them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are wonderful books these days that offer more ideas, but I hope this has provided tips on 'being' with a grandchild. It is easy to get caught up in doing and buying, but 'being' means sharing ourselves.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Have you ever heard, "I'll be a better parent than you were!"? A great response to that is, "Good, you got it! We're supposed to learn as we grow." As you've heard before, 'We did not inherit the Earth of our forefathers, we inherited it from our children' (Crazy Horse). It reinforces the notion that we need to do things differently.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In conclusion, when people want to know what Feng Shui is, to me it is ultimately feeling safe and secure in my environment. My husband and I collect our granddaughter a couple times a month for an extended visit. We play, read, explore, and talk. It is a sacred time and an absolute joy. Hope for the future depends on what we make of today. It isn't up to one leader, one nation, or one relationship. It is up to us!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Diana Garber is a classic Feng Shui practitioner with nearly 30 years experience in energy and risk management. Her extensive corporate background and work with Fortune 100 companies sets her apart as an international consultant, speaker, author, and seasoned program manager. She utilizes over a dozen sciences to evaluate influences such as electromagnetic currents, geopathic stress, and other factors internal and external to one's living or work environments to improve clients' lives. Please visit our Web site at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.intuitiveconcepts.com"&gt;http://www.intuitiveconcepts.com&lt;/a&gt; for information, testimonies, and much more.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-3558494052511229729?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/3558494052511229729/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=3558494052511229729' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3558494052511229729'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3558494052511229729'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/8-feng-shui-ways-to-be-grandparent.html' title='8 Feng Shui Ways to Be a Grandparent'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-5006980025999360665</id><published>2009-09-12T19:13:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-12T19:13:01.872-07:00</updated><title type='text'>History of DL Clark Company and Teaberry Gum</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Remember the gum you chewed as a kid? Yes, I am talking about Teaberry Gum! Its history is quite interesting. It took quite a bit of internet hiking to find any information on it. You can purchase it in a variety of places, but to find the history is a different story. I had to go back to Teaberry Gum roots (pun intended).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It was distributed by the D.L. Clark Company. David Lytle Clark was born in Ireland in 1864 and came to the U.S. in 1872. If you are familiar with Irish and American history of the 1800's, you will know that the Irish that had the luck-of-the leprechaun were able to escape the terrible potato blight and famine during the 1840's. By 1872, though the famine had ended twenty-one years earlier, there was still a great exodus from Ireland to America, the great Land of Opportunity!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Again, if you know your American history, you will know that the Irish were neither well loved nor received. They were coerced into taking the jobs "no one with dignity" would take. They had to do undignified things like cleaning up after the horses, and becoming policemen. Though being a police officer now is a respectful career, in those days it was not.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This young entrepreneur, after working for three years in the candy industry, was able to procure a wagon, horses, and the tools necessary to go into the candy business for himself. Thus, by 1886, the D. L. Clark Company was founded. He left New York and started selling his wares on the streets of Pittsburgh. By 1920, the D. L. Clark Company was making well over 100 varieties of candy, including several five-cent bars, specialty items and a bulk candy line. By 1921, Clark was also manufacturing chewing gum in a building across the street from his candy factory. During his lifetime, Clark became the leading distributors of candy and gum. He passed away on February 3, 1939 and is buried in the Homewood Cemetery in Pittsburgh.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Find Teaberry Gum and other great nostalgic candy at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.nostalgic-candy.net"&gt;http://www.nostalgic-candy.net&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-5006980025999360665?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/5006980025999360665/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=5006980025999360665' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5006980025999360665'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5006980025999360665'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/history-of-dl-clark-company-and.html' title='History of DL Clark Company and Teaberry Gum'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-2358000582780579235</id><published>2009-09-12T06:02:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-12T06:02:03.911-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Can Feng Shui Help My Karma?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Feng Shui is about the balance, harmony and attracting specific energies to create positive results.This method of attracting specific energies has been around for what is believed to go as far back as 3500 years.The Chinese believe that first comes destiny, secondly luck, then Feng Shui.So, if first comes destiny then we would be wise to use Feng Shui to help change our luck.When we make changes in our lives, it also changes the Karma that follows.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Karma, can be linked through our family generations, our past lives and how we lived this life in our earlier years.How we change our karma is directly linked to how we live or change our lives now, how open we are to love and how we intentionally create goodness within our lives.The goodness we put out is the goodness we attract through intentional change within us, as well as within our environment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Heart felt and meaningful intention to bring on positive results that is not selfish or harmful to others, brings on good Karma, thus changing the negativity that has been created in our past.It is not something that can be changed over night, but over a period of time. Changes need time to be lived, to be committed to, to be felt and to be believed by the person wishing to make the changes.Once we change our lives for the better, our fate or Karma also changes for the better.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The longer we strive for goodness, kindness and balance, the more that will come back to us through the cosmic pull of our intention and balance in our lives and environment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For example, if it is romantic love we wish to attract, then we need to open our hearts to love.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In the southwest sector of our environment, Feng Shui teaches us to work on this sector of our home to attract this energy.Also, the southwest sector of ones bedroom would also be suggested.Along with that, we include items in those sectors that are suggestive or symbolic of true romantic love between two people, pairs of decorative and symbolic items along with hints of red for passion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;To receive love, one needs to give love.We also need to love and accept ourselves before we can expect someone else to love us.We need to consciously live our lives with love.Make the choice to look for opportunities where you can begin to change your karma with simple acts of kindness, stay committed to change and watch the karmic effect this will have on your life!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You will be amazed at the goodness that will begin to follow you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;"Karma is a wonderful teacher when we have the courage to look close enough to learn the lesson."&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; 2007 Silvana Rosati-Capizzano&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Silvana is a well respected Interior Decorator, International Feng Shui Expert and the Principal of the Award Winning Home &amp; Life Design Firm: Blue Avalon. Along with her years of study in Home Decor and Feng Shui, she has the unique ability of being able create luxurious interiors with balance and optimum energy flow thus creating a beautiful environment of positive energy, balance and harmony.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;She also dedicates her time to her Holistic Practise at the Dove Spa providing healing therapies as Reiki, Reflexology, Indian Head Massage and Hopi Ear Coning. She is well respected in this field and certified in Reflexology and a Reiki Master.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Blue Avalon specializes in Interior Decorating, Feng Shui and Abundant Living. Blue Avalon is the publisher of The Blue Avalon Journal; a monthly e-zine packed with ideas, tips and insider secrets! To subscribe, log onto our website today at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.blueavalon.com"&gt;http://www.blueavalon.com&lt;/a&gt; and you will receive a bonus book, The Number One Feng Shui Secret That Will Transform Your Life!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Blue Avalon - "Harmony for your home...Balance for your life &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.blueavalon.com"&gt;http://www.blueavalon.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-2358000582780579235?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/2358000582780579235/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=2358000582780579235' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2358000582780579235'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2358000582780579235'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/can-feng-shui-help-my-karma.html' title='Can Feng Shui Help My Karma?'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-484031638910836452</id><published>2009-09-11T16:11:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-11T16:11:13.173-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I Am Not a Grandma!</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I use to think I was aging gracefully, letting go of the things of youth, a new age saint, that was until I crossed the border from 45 to 46. Some how this seemed like one small step for people in denial and one giant leap for a menopausal graying sagging in all the wrong places woman.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have a lovely young friend who is 26 and blessed with a beautiful two year old daughter who I am blessed to babysit every now and then. This is how our last conversation went:&lt;br&gt;Friend "I thought you were about the same age as my parents (late 50's) wow you could have been my mother" and as if that wasn't enough "You can be Jane's adoptive grandmother." Now I had been thinking along the lines of Aunty Robin. Grandma Robin was a bit much I think I am still suffering post traumatic stress. I did not want to be reminded the things of youth were slipping away, did not wanted to be confronted with a life maybe not as I had planned.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Isn't strange how we are conditioned to believe we should be put out to pasture after a certain age. We give up on dreams let go of ambitions take less risks cling to the familiar rather than step into the unknown.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But the Universe always has a way of dropping me little messages to shake me awake. Last night I sat with millions of others in front of the television and watched the happy birthday tribute to Nelson Mandela. Half way through the commentator spoke of how Mandela was 71 when he was released from jail. Wow at 71 he stepped into his greatness led a nation inspired the world created hope in hearts where before there was none and here I am 46 and moaning that my life was over.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I realize now the only thing limiting me is me not age because while age may slow the body it does not take away the possibilities the pathways to greatness that are available to everyone no matter how old they are.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And how blessed am I to have the honor of being an adoptive grandma to a special little girl. I can make sure she grows up knowing her greatness is not one thing it is many things strung over a lifetime and the Creator will continually put in front of her opportunities to step into this greatness until the very last breathe she takes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Robin Newman Psychic/Medium&lt;br&gt; Creating futures changing lives &lt;br&gt; &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.robinjpsychic.com"&gt;http://www.robinjpsychic.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-484031638910836452?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/484031638910836452/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=484031638910836452' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/484031638910836452'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/484031638910836452'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/i-am-not-grandma.html' title='I Am Not a Grandma!'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-1560980598543506272</id><published>2009-09-11T02:26:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-11T02:26:49.164-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Cheddar Cheese Soup</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Wisconsin Cheddar cheese is a cheese that can vary in taste from very mild to having a sharp flavor. Cheddar is one of the most well liked and famous cheeses in the world. Here in America, the state of Wisconsin is famous for its wide array of cheeses that are award winning and delicious.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Cheddar has been around for a very long time. The name cheddar comes from a small village in England that first made the cheese around the 1100's. The village is named Cheddar.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When you think of cheddar often you with associate it with the color orange. This is common because of a old tradition of adding various dyes to the cheese to change its color. In reality, a cheddar cheese is creamy to pale white. This is its color without any dye added to it. Cheddar cheese has a wide variety of flavors. The flavor depends on how the cheese was made and how long it is aged. Young cheddar cheese is mild, while the longer aged cheese has a sharp flavor. The shortest duration of aging is three months and the longest is 30 months.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Wisconsin cheddar is a great addition to many different foods. You should get creative and try different flavors. Try a mild cheddar once and then use sharp cheddar the next time you make the dish. Do not be afraid to experiment. I have put together a recipe using Wisconsin cheddar for a great soup that people and kids will love. Give it a try.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Cheddar Cheese Soup&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Cook Time - 30 min&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Yield - 6 servings&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ingredients&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* 4 tablespoons butter&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* 1 large onion, finely chopped&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* 1/3 cup finely chopped red bell pepper&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* 1/3 cup finely chopped green bell pepper&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* 4 cloves garlic, minced&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* 1/2 cup all-purpose flour&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* 2 cups chicken stock&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* 1 1/2 cups whole milk&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* 1 1/2 cups heavy cream&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* 12 ounces sharp yellow cheddar cheese, grated (about 4 cups)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* Salt&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* Crumbled bacon or salsa, chopped parsley leaves, optional for garnish&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Directions&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In a large, heavy saucepan melt the butter over medium heat. Add the chopped onion and peppers and saute until vegetables are soft, about 4 minutes. Add garlic and &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://americanbaking.blogspot.com/"&gt;saute&lt;/a&gt; for 2 minutes. Add flour and cook, stirring constantly, for 2 minutes. Slowly whisk in the stock, milk and heavy cream. Bring soup to a low boil and reduce heat so that the soup barely simmers. Cook, stirring frequently, until the soup is very thick and flavorful, about 20 minutes. Add the grated cheese in 1/2 cup increments, stirring after each addition until completely melted and smooth. Do not allow soup to boil. Season with salt and cayenne pepper, to taste.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Serve in shallow bowls, topped with some crumbled crispy bacon bits, a dollop of salsa, and chopped parsley, as desired.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am a local chef in Chicago. You can visit my site at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://americanbaking.blogspot.com/"&gt;http://americanbaking.blogspot.com/&lt;/a&gt; and find further recipes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-1560980598543506272?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/1560980598543506272/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=1560980598543506272' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1560980598543506272'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1560980598543506272'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/cheddar-cheese-soup.html' title='Cheddar Cheese Soup'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-6920316216927263239</id><published>2009-09-10T12:34:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-10T12:34:33.019-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Placing Your Feng Shui House</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;If you are thinking where to locate your feng shui house and you are lucky enough to be able to choose the land to build it then you should apply the feng shui principles when selecting your block. If you haven't the luxury of choosing your own block don't despair there are ways with feng shui that provides alternatives to offset anything that may not fit feng shui principles of house siting.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The ideal fenq shui site is said to be where the descending heaven qi meets the ascending earth qi. There is no hard and fast rule about the perfect site but there are some general conditions you can look for. Generally, half way up a hil facing the sun is considered a good location for your feng shui house because you will have a distance view and you will get cool summer breezes and warm winter ones.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The best feng shui house location is called the xue (shu). It incorporates an open space in the front, called the "bright hall" or ming tan, with four mythical animals or spirits around it. A spirit called the red bird provides the distant front view. Another the black tortoise is the hill at the back which provides protection. On the left is situated the azure dragon with the white tiger on the right. Ideally you should have a stream flowing across the front of the feng shui house site as water is regarded as a source of food and method of transportation. It is also believed that the heaven qi descends down the hill and is held back by the water.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;All the above provides a protective armchair shape that can be applied not only to your feng shui house site, but to the feng shui of a particular room, where the chairs are placed so the backs are protected and there is an open space in front of you or your garden. At the rear of your garden can plant protective trees if there isn't a hill. Being safe and secure is a large part of being happy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The shape of your block of land plays an important part of the feng shui house. Symmetrical shapes are the best. An L shaped piece of land poses problems because it is incomplete and unbalanced. If this is the case you need to look at ways of balancing it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A rectangular block of land that is wider at the northern and southern ends is considered to have the best shape for siting your feng shui house. If your block is not a true rectangle then it is better that the back be wider than the front. With feng Shui you will find there are several ways of balancing a block of land that is not an ideal feng shui shape. You should investigate the best ways for your particular block for your particular feng shui house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Wilf Gerrard-Staton lives in Country Australia. Where he purchased land and built a house conforming to Feng shui principles. He now has created a blog that provides simple explanations to all aspects of Feng Shui. You can view his blog at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.fengshuidecor.how-do-you-do.info"&gt;http://www.fengshuidecor.how-do-you-do.info&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-6920316216927263239?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/6920316216927263239/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=6920316216927263239' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6920316216927263239'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6920316216927263239'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/placing-your-feng-shui-house.html' title='Placing Your Feng Shui House'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-343307692630584829</id><published>2009-09-08T06:42:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-08T06:42:56.032-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Checking the Building For Square</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;The most important thing when building a home is the ability to keep everything as square, plumb and level as possible. Starting with the foundation, if the foundation is not square or level, the rest of the house is going to be out of alignment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You've probably heard the saying, start with a good foundation. This applies to the building industry as well. There are quite a few ways to build a square foundation, it all depends on what kind of tools you have, to build it with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Some of these tools can be quite expensive but it used every day can save you a lot of time and of course time is money.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You don't need expensive tools to build a square foundation. You could actually build a square foundation with less than $100 worth of tools. It might take you a little longer but could be done.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Let's start with the 3 - 4 - 5 rule.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Okay lets see if I can explain this in layman's terms. If no West side of the foundation is 3 foot and the north side of the foundation is for foot, then the diagonal measurement from the southwest corner to the northeast corner would be 5 foot. Out of square building can create &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/foundation.htm"&gt;foundation problems&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This can also be done using 30' x 40' should equal 50 foot. You can use this if the building is large and you need to check it for square.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;By measuring the foundation diagonally from each corner, the measurement should be exactly the same. If it isn't, the building is out of square and should be adjusted before the concrete is poured. This measurement should always be checked before you get too far along in the form building process.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a Home Buyers Guide to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If your having problems in your attic, find out more at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://foundationtips.com/ConcreteContractors.html"&gt;concrete contractor basics&lt;/a&gt; and home building ideas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/using_words_in_the_bible_effecti.htm&gt;Using Words In The Bible Effecti&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-343307692630584829?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/343307692630584829/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=343307692630584829' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/343307692630584829'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/343307692630584829'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/checking-building-for-square.html' title='Checking the Building For Square'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-2846906675954928259</id><published>2009-09-08T01:13:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-08T01:13:47.627-07:00</updated><title type='text'>A Mirthful Spirit by Mary Huntley &amp; Edna Thayer - Book Review</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Beaver's Pond Press (2007)&lt;br&gt;ISBN 9781592981656&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"A Mirthful Spirit" uses stories, research, quotes, poetry, tips and suggestions by two scholars in the field of mirth and laughter. More than a guidebook for embracing mirth and laughter, "A Mirthful Spirit" provides guidelines for incorporating humor in the workplace, hospitals, and schools to improve productivity, wellness, and creativity.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;One of the best things about laughter is that it is contagious. By teaching yourself the techniques and tips for living a mirthful life, one of the biggest benefits is that you will soon find yourself surrounded by people dispersing the joys of living with a mirthful spirit.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;From the physical benefits (Initiates Internal Jogging, Thwarts Infections, Alleviates Pain) to mental benefits (Lightens stress, Increases brain-cell functioning), "A Mirthful Spirit" provides a handbook for healthy, happy, humor-filled living.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"A Mirthful Spirit" closes with an intriguing section on the historical and cultural highlights of humor. Even humor has evolved and matured from its beginnings (ridicule) to the healing powers of mirthful living we can access today.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"A Mirthful Spirit: Embracing Laughter for Wellness" is a perfect bedside companion and coffee table book; this is certainly a book to put on your gift lists. Not only will the receiver benefit from the wisdom among its pages, all will benefit from the gift of spreading mirth. Reading "A Mirthful Spirit" will change your outlook on life. Not only will you become happier-everyone will feel your joy and start laughing with you. Huntley and Thayer are firm believers in what one of their heroes, Patch Adams, says, "The most revolutionary act we can commit in the world is to be happy." Go buy a copy of "A Mirthful Spirit" and you too can laugh your way to wellness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.readerviews.com/"&gt;http://www.readerviews.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-2846906675954928259?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/2846906675954928259/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=2846906675954928259' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2846906675954928259'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2846906675954928259'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/mirthful-spirit-by-mary-huntley-edna.html' title='A Mirthful Spirit by Mary Huntley &amp; Edna Thayer - Book Review'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-2061433982379905189</id><published>2009-09-07T23:12:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-07T23:12:59.798-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Finding Something You Don't Like About Yourself - Creating Habits</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Finding something you don't like about yourself is usually very easy for most people. Most of the time you don't even have to ask your family or friends because you have heard them complain about the same thing for years. How many times have you heard someone mention, I need to lose weight?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here's a list of things people don't like about themselves. If you're one of those people that has a hard time finding something wrong with yourself, you could always ask one of your friends for some suggestions. I'm sure they would like that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;1. The need to lose weight. This of course is one of the worst problems with Americans. Most people need to lose weight and let's not forget there are some people that need to gain weight.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;2. The need to stop gambling. As more Indian reservations are allowed to build gambling casinos and of course as the Internet gambling gets larger, I've noticed some people with gambling problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;3. The need to stop drinking alcohol. The abuse of alcohol has been going on for many years. These people have an excuse for why they drink and most of the time it doesn't make sense.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;4. The need to stop smoking. This could be one of the most difficult things I've ever seen my friends and family deal with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;5. The need to stop excessive behaviors. For example, gossiping, cruelty, bullying, lying, cheating, stealing, partying etc. You get the idea.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;6. Don't forget the dreaded shopaholic. Most shopaholic's seem to have large credit card debt and can't seem to stop this vicious circle of buying and owing money to their creditors.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;7. Working long hours or the workaholic. Sometimes this is a necessity but I would suggest that you change your lifestyle if possible. Reevaluate your reasons for working so hard.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;8. Religious fundamentalists. People that spend too much time at their place of worship and soon find themselves feeling guilty if they're not doing something spiritual.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;9. The need to be on time. This would include people that have problems giving themselves enough time to get ready for work or school.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;10. The need to stop doing drugs. I thought by now, approaching my 50s, that drugs would no longer be a problem in the United States, but it is. It's one of the most damaging things people can do to their lives.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are plenty of things that people would like to stop doing or start doing. If you're a smoker and you seem to shop excessively near the casinos, I would advise you to start with something small and work your way up to the big stuff.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What are you going to change today about your life? Make a list of things that you're not happy with about your life and &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.superhabits.com/"&gt;start making the changes today&lt;/a&gt; that you need to create the life you deserve and desire.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is a published author, internet marketing expert, motivational inspiration to millions of people all over the world and is sharing some of his wisdom with experts in the fields of writing,marketing, and personal development.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg is currently working on a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/gregs_videos.htm"&gt;personal development video library&lt;/a&gt; filled with great movies on a wide array of topics, like religion, self help and spiritual changes in the world. His views on religious freedom are slowly changing the way people think about institutional religion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/are_christians_really_interested.htm&gt;Are Christians Really Interested&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-2061433982379905189?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/2061433982379905189/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=2061433982379905189' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2061433982379905189'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2061433982379905189'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/finding-something-you-dont-like-about_07.html' title='Finding Something You Don&apos;t Like About Yourself - Creating Habits'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-9211649648504443032</id><published>2009-09-07T17:38:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-07T17:38:10.553-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Little Things Make a Big Difference</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;There's an old saying that "by the mile it's a trial, and by the inch it's a cinch." The reason the saying is old is because it's good, it's valid. If it were not, it would be dead and buried. For 24 years of my adult life, by choice I weighed well over 200 pounds. I say "by choice" because I have never "accidentally" eaten anything, so when I choose to eat too much, I have chosen to weigh too much. Every choice has an end result.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Twenty-two years ago I decided to do something about my weight and physical condition, so I got on an exercise and sensible eating program. Until then my idea of exercise was to fill the tub, take a bath, pull the plug and fight the current - and I know you'll agree that's not much of an exercise program! It took me 10 months to lose the 37 pounds I needed to lose. During that period of time I also wrote my first book, See You At The Top. It is 384 pages long and was the eighth best-selling hardback of the '80s.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Let's explore what I just said. Losing 37 pounds in 10 months meant that I lost an average of 1.9 ounces per day. Writing a 384-page book in 10 months meant that I wrote an average of 1 1/4 pages per day. You raise positive kids in a negative world, build a beautiful relationship with your mate, become a top-performing student, a world-class salesperson, or a top executive or educator not by a few mammoth leaps but by the daily, disciplined application of doing something every day to reach your objectives in life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Buy that idea, take that approach, and I will SEE YOU AT THE TOP!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Zig Ziglar is America's motivator. He is the author of 27 books and travels around the country spreading his message of hope and inspiration. To recieve his free newsletter, visit Zig at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.ziglar.com"&gt;http://www.ziglar.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-9211649648504443032?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/9211649648504443032/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=9211649648504443032' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/9211649648504443032'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/9211649648504443032'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/little-things-make-big-difference.html' title='Little Things Make a Big Difference'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-2107856356372248035</id><published>2009-09-07T15:50:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-07T15:50:43.142-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Finding Something You Don't Like About Yourself - Creating Habits</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Finding something you don't like about yourself is usually very easy for most people. Most of the time you don't even have to ask your family or friends because you have heard them complain about the same thing for years. How many times have you heard someone mention, I need to lose weight?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here's a list of things people don't like about themselves. If you're one of those people that has a hard time finding something wrong with yourself, you could always ask one of your friends for some suggestions. I'm sure they would like that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;1. The need to lose weight. This of course is one of the worst problems with Americans. Most people need to lose weight and let's not forget there are some people that need to gain weight.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;2. The need to stop gambling. As more Indian reservations are allowed to build gambling casinos and of course as the Internet gambling gets larger, I've noticed some people with gambling problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;3. The need to stop drinking alcohol. The abuse of alcohol has been going on for many years. These people have an excuse for why they drink and most of the time it doesn't make sense.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;4. The need to stop smoking. This could be one of the most difficult things I've ever seen my friends and family deal with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;5. The need to stop excessive behaviors. For example, gossiping, cruelty, bullying, lying, cheating, stealing, partying etc. You get the idea.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;6. Don't forget the dreaded shopaholic. Most shopaholic's seem to have large credit card debt and can't seem to stop this vicious circle of buying and owing money to their creditors.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;7. Working long hours or the workaholic. Sometimes this is a necessity but I would suggest that you change your lifestyle if possible. Reevaluate your reasons for working so hard.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;8. Religious fundamentalists. People that spend too much time at their place of worship and soon find themselves feeling guilty if they're not doing something spiritual.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;9. The need to be on time. This would include people that have problems giving themselves enough time to get ready for work or school.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;10. The need to stop doing drugs. I thought by now, approaching my 50s, that drugs would no longer be a problem in the United States, but it is. It's one of the most damaging things people can do to their lives.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are plenty of things that people would like to stop doing or start doing. If you're a smoker and you seem to shop excessively near the casinos, I would advise you to start with something small and work your way up to the big stuff.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What are you going to change today about your life? Make a list of things that you're not happy with about your life and &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.superhabits.com/"&gt;start making the changes today&lt;/a&gt; that you need to create the life you deserve and desire.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is a published author, internet marketing expert, motivational inspiration to millions of people all over the world and is sharing some of his wisdom with experts in the fields of writing,marketing, and personal development.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg is currently working on a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/gregs_videos.htm"&gt;personal development video library&lt;/a&gt; filled with great movies on a wide array of topics, like religion, self help and spiritual changes in the world. His views on religious freedom are slowly changing the way people think about institutional religion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/should_the_bible_be_edited.htm&gt;Should The Bible Be Edited&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-2107856356372248035?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/2107856356372248035/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=2107856356372248035' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2107856356372248035'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2107856356372248035'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/finding-something-you-dont-like-about.html' title='Finding Something You Don&apos;t Like About Yourself - Creating Habits'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-8205282613382873546</id><published>2009-09-07T10:02:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-07T10:02:31.220-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Five Ways to Stay Motivated and Achieve Your Goals</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Are you having one of those days when nothing seems to go right? Is every task you try to do harder than you thought it would be, and do you seem to encounter problem after problem along the way? We all have stressful times during our lives when everything seems to be going wrong, but it's crucial to stay positive as giving in will usually make the situation worse. Here are five ways to stay motivated and achieve your dreams:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;1. Think less and act more&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Stop putting off that difficult job because you're worried it will be too much for you, or you won't be able to do it. The more you worry about something you have to do, the less you will want to do it, so just making yourself get started is one of the best ways to stay motivated. You may have all sorts of excuses for mot doing something, but once you make a start you'll feel so much more motivated to continue.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;2. Plan your time and stick to the plan&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Having a large task ahead of you, or a big project to complete, can be very daunting, and without a clear view of how much you have to do and when you are going to do it, it can be easy to get sidetracked and put things off until the last minute.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you have a large project at work, set aside two hours at the same time each day to work on that particular job. Be clear about which tasks you want to complete during that two hours. If you are trying to get fit or lose weight, decide on two evenings a week when you are going to do an exercise class, or go to the gym, and stick to that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;3. Set yourself targets and treat yourself when you reach them&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;One of the easiest ways to stay motivated is to set yourself achievable targets. If you are setting up your own business, saying that you want to be earning $40k in five years time is a far away target. Break that five years down into periods of six months and decide how much you aim to be earning in each six month period, building up to the five years.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When you reach your targets, you will feel a great sense of achievement, and if you don't quite make it you can evaluate where you could improve to make sure you are on track for the next six months.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;4. Mix things up a little&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Boredom with the same routine can easily cause us to become unmotivated, so if you are feeling that you need a change then make one. If you are tired of going to the gym, start running in the park instead. If you always work in your home office, try relocating to the deck for a few hours. Even small changes in your routine can be great ways to stay motivated.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;5. Make time to relax and avoid burnout&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Many people go head on into a project or business venture, and give it all their time and energy, only to collapse with exhaustion after six months and give it all up. One of the most important ways to stay motivated is to take time out to rest and enjoy yourself. Step back and appreciate what you have achieved, make time for a hobby, and spend a few hours with friends and family.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Perhaps some days you have planned to work, but you wake up feeling totally unmotivated. Don't take a whole day off as this will set a precedent, but it's ok to reduce the amount of work you do. Maybe decide just to work until lunchtime and take the afternoon off, but make sure you accomplish something tangible in the morning that you can be proud of to keep you motivated.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Wondering how do you change yourself? Join us now! Improve your self confidence and learn ways to love yourself. Sign up for your free course now at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.rediscoverywomen.com/"&gt;Rediscovery Women&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-8205282613382873546?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/8205282613382873546/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=8205282613382873546' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8205282613382873546'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8205282613382873546'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/five-ways-to-stay-motivated-and-achieve.html' title='Five Ways to Stay Motivated and Achieve Your Goals'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-1024897385781559025</id><published>2009-09-07T08:32:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-07T08:32:58.896-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Dog Creates Remodeling Nightmare</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;How many homeowners normally leave their dog in the backyard or they have full time access to the backyard through a doggie door. You're probably wondering how can a little dog create a remodeling nightmare for any contractor.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This wasn't the case this dog was a large Labrador retriever and tore up everything in the backyard constantly. The house remodel we were working on was a two story room addition over a single story house. This job lasted around six months and the dog was a daily reminder of how much attention a large dog actually needs.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Let's start with the first item of value the dog actually destroyed. It was my favorite tool bags of course that I have taken care of for over five years and deeply appreciated the fact that they were broke in just the way I wanted them to be. Kind of like a baseball mitt that doesn't quite fit right because of how stiff it is until you break it in.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;While the homeowner of course apologized and never even offered to replace them. Oh but after that he did mention never to leave anything lying around in the backyard. Lesson learned of course and never forgotten. Well to make a long story short this large dog could chew up tools, lumber, plumbing pipes, electrical wire and was even able to destroyed the plywood fencing we would use to keep him away.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I'm going to stop right there with the remodeling nightmare created from this dog in hopes that other contractors can learn from my valuable lesson. As a contractor you should never assume that a homeowner will replace any damaged or broken tools and materials.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As a homeowner with a dog reading this article, think about having a place to enclose the dog if necessary while &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://gregvan.com"&gt;remodeling work&lt;/a&gt; is done on your home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I love being around dogs and other animals but sometimes a problem like this can make life extremely miserable for both parties.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge has been building and remodeling for over 30 years and his information has proven valuable to most contractors and homeowners all over the world. He usually tries to write at least two articles a day on home improvement or remodeling problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg is in the process right now of working on a home inspection website that will revolutionize the home inspection business. He is also working on a book to help homeowners and contractors as well as other home related professions in dealing with the home inspection process.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can visit the home inspection website currently under construction at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com"&gt;Home Inspection Help&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/../christian_articles.htm&gt;Christian Articles&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-1024897385781559025?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/1024897385781559025/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=1024897385781559025' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1024897385781559025'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1024897385781559025'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/dog-creates-remodeling-nightmare.html' title='Dog Creates Remodeling Nightmare'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-5136414479890938243</id><published>2009-09-07T02:39:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-07T02:39:42.634-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Self Improvement and Overcoming Frustration</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;We all suffer from frustration, and being able to effectively deal with frustration is very important for self improvement. It can be a decisive factor between success and failure.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Frustration can have highly damaging impact on our frame of mind. It can turn a positive person into a negative person. It can inhibit our progress and, in the most extreme cases can completely immobilise us. We can become so wound up with our frustration that we cant think or act rationally, or we can even become aggressive. Our frustration can often exacerbate the situation and create a vicious circle. If we are convinced that our actions are not working, no matter how hard we try, we are much more likely to reduce, rather than increase, our chances of success.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are countless causes of frustration, and what affects one person may have no impact on someone else&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are no simple answers or remedies. Some people simply give up on what they were trying to achieve. Some people walk away from the cause and go onto something else, and find they can then face the problem rationally when they come back to it. Stepping back from the cause of the frustration and making yourself calm down will help us to see things more clearly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Persistence and determination can often see us through our frustration, particularly if we first make ourselves calm down. Movement can help - standing up and taking a few deep breathes, or going for a walk can help to clear our minds. Sometimes we may need to look for alternatives we hadnt considered before, or totally different approaches. There are times when we may be out of our depth, in which case we need to recognise this, and be prepared to ask for advice and support from specialists that can help us.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;All successful people have to deal with plenty of frustration as they progress towards their goals, this may even be one of the biggest reasons for their success. Their frustration with their poor results or lack of success may have been so great they were driven to set goals and inspired to work hard at achieving them. They almost certainly learned strategies and techniques to deal with their frustrations, which allowed them to overcome their problems and be more productive, which definitely contributed to their success.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Self Improvement Quote of the Day:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success achieved. - Helen Keller&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;About The Author&lt;/b&gt; Garry Zancanaro is the creator of &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.SuperSuccessLibrary.com"&gt;http://www.SuperSuccessLibrary.com&lt;/a&gt; a collection of outstanding and life changing Success and Personal Development Resources, and the founder of &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.SelfImprovementDirectory.com"&gt;http://www.SelfImprovementDirectory.com&lt;/a&gt; where you can claim a FREE copy of THINK AND GROW RICH.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-5136414479890938243?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/5136414479890938243/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=5136414479890938243' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5136414479890938243'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5136414479890938243'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/self-improvement-and-overcoming.html' title='Self Improvement and Overcoming Frustration'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-4151719486733448059</id><published>2009-09-07T01:08:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-07T01:08:54.773-07:00</updated><title type='text'>When We Choose Misery Over Happiness</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I am not one to feel sorry for most people. They seem to have a unique ability to cause themselves the most damage during certain parts of their lives. I have met some pretty self destructive people in my life. Being raised by a mother that lived in misery and love.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My mother had a difficult childhood. It seemed as if every corner she turned there was a obstacle either right in front of here or waiting just around the corner. Her father died when she was 12 year old. He was a farm laborer and didn't make much money. In other words they were poor...... She got sent to live with a few foster families and according to her she was molested by one of the fathers she lived with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Soon her older sister invited her to live with her. My aunt was married to the owner of a pottery business and had 2 children about 10 years younger than my mother. My aunt soon realized she had a live in baby sitter that allowed her to stay out drinking most of the day.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My Uncle was what you would call a drunk back then, now we call these people alcoholics. Well any way I think you are starting to get a picture of my mothers life up to this point. It is probably safe to assume that this isn't the ideal life for a young woman.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The next event to happen in my moms life was for my uncle to fall in the shower one night after tying one on that night. He died soon after but my aunt seemed to make a another good choice and ended up marring the owner of the bar that they spent most of their time in. &lt;br&gt;The Grand essentials of happiness are: something to do, something to love, and something to hope for. Allan K. Chalmers&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;By this time my mom was in High School and met my future father. It wasn't exactly a marriage made in heaven. My dad was always an easy going man. He seemed to let most stuff go in one ear and out the other.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As you guessed it they had a few children. Nice one Dad and Mom. According to the books I have read on Angelic beings. People that believe in the after life and angels. They tell me I had a choice and was able to choose my parents....... What was I thinking...... I should have choose someone with some money and a couple of parents that were deeply in love .&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;How did I end up here in this situation.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I ended up loving my parents like most of us. They seemed to be doing the best that they could possibly do raising me, my bother and my sister. My mom and dad ended up getting a divorce and I went to live with my father.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My Father is remarried to a wonderful woman that seems to bring him a lot of happiness.&lt;br&gt;I haven't seen my mother for a while now. She lives with a life of excuses and misery. Her childhood was not the greatest but that doesn't give her the right to bring misery into other peoples lives. She has made a conscious choice to live what seems to be a painful life. Maybe her choices in life have made me choose happiness over misery.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have always wondered what it is that motivates someone to live a life of true unhappiness when it takes the same amount of energy to live a life of joy. Life is meant to be full of joy and happiness so start today by making the right choices to live a fulfilling life of happiness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you are reading this and can't make up your mind what kind of life you truly want to live visit me at http://live.spiritualideas.com/ . Change your thinking and change your life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/"&gt;Greg Vanden Berge&lt;/a&gt; will help you create a new approach to life and discover talents you never knew you had. We can help you get the most out of yourself all the time. Start developing your innate strengths and abilities to &lt;a target="_new" href="http://live.spiritualideas.com/"&gt;start enriching your life TODAY&lt;/a&gt; !&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/../religion_articles.htm&gt;Religion Articles&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-4151719486733448059?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/4151719486733448059/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=4151719486733448059' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4151719486733448059'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4151719486733448059'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/when-we-choose-misery-over-happiness.html' title='When We Choose Misery Over Happiness'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-7165669200192900641</id><published>2009-09-06T19:10:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-06T19:10:10.602-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Non Physical Conscious Awareness</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Human Consciousness can be measured with an Electro-Encephalograph (EEG) machine. What we do not see is the non-physical aspects in the Aura of the person - the electromagnetic field of energy that surrounds the Human Body.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Human Aura is multi-dimensional; it is not just a shell-like field of energy which is like an egg around the body. It has different layers, which correspond to the different layers of the physical body: the Whole Body, Organs, Cells, Molecules, Atoms, Finer Particles, Light Body and Core Being or Vacuum.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As well as these layers we have the Energy Centres - Chakras - coming out like cones. As the colours of these cones merge with each other we see different colours of light being formed to give us a point in the Aura of each shade and hue.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can watch the Aura having different shades of points of light, acting like radio tuners receiving similar frequencies from our environment; the Human Body can tune into all frequencies at the same time and we can interpret these with our emotions and feelings.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When we smile we can feel the energy in our cheeks extending out from our body like angel's wings or like a magnetic field; this is created within the body, as would happen in a bar magnet. The field of energy which our physical body creates extends out into the non-physical Aura and beyond, like the force field surrounding a magnet.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Our body is sensing the astrological influences from the planets, as we exist in the Earth's Magnetic Field. All these different electromagnetic levels of energy and force have an influence on our consciousness and our thoughts, feelings, and emotions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We notice how we feel happier on a bright, sunny day than we do when dark storm clouds are over us.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We live in an invisible field of Electromagnetic Energy which covers the full spectrum: Gamma Rays, X-Rays, Ultraviolet, Visible Light, Infra-red, Radio Frequencies, etc. We are connected as One with this field of Energy and it is part of our Conscious Awareness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As well as this natural electromagnetic field from our solar system, we are also influenced by the electromagnetic smog of mobile phones, TV and radio and all the other methods of man-made communication using this underlying field of energy in which we live.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Human consciousness can use the underlying electromagnetic field to send messages telepathically, and to get premonitions and dj-vu insights.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Universe uses this field of Power and Force in an effortless way, to bring about synchronicities in our life; our vibration draws to us the things which are patterned in our being; something magical seeks us out and happens in our life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As more humans become aware of this non-physical electromagnetic field of energy, it grows stronger and the synchronicities happen more often. The accident rate is declining as everything acts as part of the whole and moves in a frictionless flow of life in Conscious Awareness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;By George E. Lockett SSHA, IIHHT -- HealerGeorge(C) Copyright 2007, All Rights Reserved. Tel: +44 (0)1286 882701 Visit HealerGeorges web site to experience the power of Distant Healing or listen to HealerGeorge Radio giving Questions and Answer advice mixed with Spiritual Music. You can also enjoy many free benefits on HealerGeorge, like listening to Free Guided Meditations. Why not order HealerGeorges Latest book entitled A Journey into The Self  The Multi-dimensional Nature of Being Human By George E Lockett. It is all available off the web site. &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.healergeorge.com"&gt;HealerGeorge Web Site and New Book&lt;/a&gt; Description: What is this book going to do for YOU? For those who are seeking a complete energetic makeover, as you read it you will feel a stirring and awakening in the depths of your heart. For those who have questions about Shifts in Consciousness, Energy Balancing, and Healing within the body, you will find clear answers.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-7165669200192900641?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/7165669200192900641/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=7165669200192900641' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7165669200192900641'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7165669200192900641'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/non-physical-conscious-awareness.html' title='Non Physical Conscious Awareness'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-6088144982242614612</id><published>2009-09-06T17:41:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-06T17:41:46.388-07:00</updated><title type='text'>New Home Buyers Beware</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Ican't believe how many homebuyers purchase a house, with very little information and a Lotta hope. I'm a general contractor and often work on these homes, after they have been purchased and a homeowner has their money, the real estate professional is no longer involved in the transaction and the new homeowner is starting to experience the pitfalls from buying the home, that they sincerely believe was in good condition.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It's usually somebody like me that gets involved with the new homeowners after everyone else is out of the picture and chooses not to return their phone calls or explains to them quite simply, it's not our responsibility, you're the new homeowner and we really feel sorry for you, please call us again if we can help you with anything.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You couldn't even help me with that, why would I want to call you again if I had a problem. I never could understand this thinking but have ran into it often. It sounds like an oxymoron when someone refuses to help you but offers you help in the future. What ever!!!.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If homebuyers had something else to rely on besides their real estate salesperson, home inspection service, mortgage or insurance professional, I believe they can eliminate some of these problems. Where do you start and how do you get the information. You can gather information from reputable people, books, the Internet and so on.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The problem is how do you know these people are reputable and the books on the Internet have good information. This brings us to another problem, but I've got the solution that will help eliminate some of the grief. I'm not going to remove all of the grief from your life but have a suggestion for you that will eliminate some of the pain when buying a home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Arm yourself with a good &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/homebuyersguide/index.htm"&gt;home inspection checklist&lt;/a&gt;. You can search the Internet and they have quite a few good home inspection checklist to work with. These checklist can provide you with things you might not have thought of, and this is where you can eliminate some of the problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you took one of these checklists with you while you were shopping for a home, you would be aware of some of the problems with the home. You might not find all of the problems but these checklist will help you with some of the problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a Home Buyers Guide to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If your looking for some more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/"&gt;home inspection&lt;/a&gt; or home building ideas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/questions_to_ask_your_pastor.htm&gt;Questions To Ask Your Pastor&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-6088144982242614612?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/6088144982242614612/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=6088144982242614612' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6088144982242614612'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6088144982242614612'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/new-home-buyers-beware_06.html' title='New Home Buyers Beware'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-3455490842772159372</id><published>2009-09-06T11:40:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-06T11:40:56.256-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Origin of the Master Key System by Charles F Haanel</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I received an email from a reader named Derek L. in which he wrote -&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Thanks for your great posts/blog. It's refreshing to see someone telling the truth and not selling more snake oil.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I do have a question...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I'm intrigued by the lineage of thoughts relating to this subject. Since you have a lot of exposure to this material I'm wondering if you have any ideas about where Haanel got his original concepts?&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am often asked that question because there is a lot of mystery surrounding Haanel and his perennial work, &lt;i&gt;The Master Key System&lt;/i&gt;. Was he a part of a Masonic conspiracy? Did he receive his knowledge through arcane means? Someone even theorized about some Russian wizard of sorts who shared his knowledge with Haanel.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The history is quite interesting, but more blase than some of the stories would lead you to believe. &lt;i&gt;The Master Key System&lt;/i&gt; must be looked at within the context of the late 19th and early 20th Centuries. The New Thought philosophy was in full swing with many books and magazines publishing the new beliefs for a seemingly ravenous audience. Based on Christian Science as espoused by Mary Baker Eddy, the Christian Scientists and many New Thought-ers held firmly to the belief about what Jesus Christ said about the powers available to each and every person.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Believe me when I say that I am in the Father and the Father is in me; or at least believe on the evidence of the miracles themselves. I tell you the truth, anyone who has faith in me will do what I have been doing. He will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Son may bring glory to the Father. (John 14:11-13)&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thus, with enough faith and belief, one could perform miracles as Christ did. Even a cursory reading of &lt;i&gt;The Master Key System&lt;/i&gt; would reveal to someone that this was something in which Haanel believed deeply. That being said, the monotheistic ideas that Haanel espouses is more than likely derived from his participation in Freemasonry - while the Masons do not define their God, their only prerequisite is a belief in one God. It is then through this God that miracles and extreme human potential can occur.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Before going further into this, it is worth pointing out that there were at least two other publications that emphasize the words "The Master Key" prior to the Twentieth Century. The actual phrase has been used since the 17th Century by the Freemasons and for a publication in the 18th century - &lt;i&gt;Hiram, or the Master Key to the Door of Freemasonry&lt;/i&gt;, published in 1760. Another use of the phrase can be found in Madame Helena Blavatsky's famous (or should that be infamous) 600-page &lt;i&gt;Isis Unveiled&lt;/i&gt;, with its sub-title &lt;i&gt;A Master-Key to the Mysteries of Ancient and Modern Science and Theology&lt;/i&gt;, published in 1877. One shouldn't underestimate the popularity and influence of Blavatsky and those who followed her teachings - the Theosophists.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In the Twentieth Century, two authors released books with "Master Key" in the title. The first comes from L. Frank Baum, the author of &lt;i&gt;The Wizard of Oz&lt;/i&gt; fame, and is an early science fiction novel. It was called &lt;i&gt;The Master Key&lt;/i&gt; and subtitled &lt;i&gt;An Electrical Fairy Tale&lt;/i&gt;. It told of the adventures Rob and the Demon of Electricity. This was published in 1901.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Another book came out at around the same time Haanel was working on his correspondence school. Its advertisement showed a book and a man reading a book inside an hour glass. The advertisement read:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;The Master Key ~ Reveals Things You Never Thought Possible. The Hour Glass of Success. You Will Never get Another Book Like "The Master key".&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It was written by L. W. de Laurence and published by The de Laurence Company of Chicago, Illinois, USA, in 1914. To quote a few lines from it will show obvious similarities with Haanel's The Master Key System.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;bblockquote&gt;"THE MASTER KEY is divided into Six parts: contains Thirty-seven full Chapters embracing Thirty-five Lessons of graduated difficulty covering Forty individual numbered Exercises in which the fundamental principles of Concentration and Mental Discipline are fully explained."&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;L. W. de Laurence, whose full name was Lauron William de Laurence, was an American author, publisher, and owner of a supply mail order house in Chicago. He has been accused of plagiarism and the illegal publication of various occult works. The number of publications by this man seems to be considerable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;De Laurence was active at the same time as Haanel and was in fact only two years younger than him. De Laurence, who was born in 1868 and died in 1936, had connections with AMORC. It is unclear whether there was any connection between the two authors.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This then brings us to the main influence of Charles F. Haanel's: the New Thought Movement.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When you read Haanel's &lt;i&gt;The Master Key System&lt;/i&gt;, it isn't long before he starts to use terms that can be cross-referenced. To be fair to Haanel, many quotes he uses have nothing to do with the New Thought Movement. He was a man of his time and a well-read one. He used references from eminent people of the 19th Century and talks about the inventions of that time and the early years of the 20th Century. Other quotes come from the Bible but all are rather enigmatic and symbolic which could point to being influenced by New Thought writers, the Christian Scientists, the Freemasons, or the Rosicrucians. There are several hints of a possible knowledge of Hinduism, but it is unclear of Haanel's exact knowledge of that subject as references like &lt;i&gt;Pranic Energy&lt;/i&gt; or &lt;i&gt;Pranic Ether&lt;/i&gt; may be from the Rosicrucian teachings or possibly, and more likely, Theosophy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are several words and phrases that may be of interest:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;"The Great Architect of the Universe"&lt;li&gt;"Secret Place of the Most High"&lt;li&gt;"Universal Mind"&lt;li&gt;the "I"&lt;li&gt;"The Law of Attraction"&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The "Great Architect of the Universe" is a phrase often used to represent God or Supreme Being by Christians, Freemasons, and Rosicrucians. It may go back to the Middle Ages or beyond. Thomas Aquinas used a similar phrase but with "Grand" instead of "Great".&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"Secret Place of the Most High" can be found in the Bible in Psalm 91:1 -&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The "Universal Mind" would seem to come from Friedrich Von Schelling and was expanded on by Georg W. F. Hegel. Ralph Waldo Emerson also made use of this term.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The concept of the "I" also seems to have its origins in the works of early German philosophers. It would seem that "I" was the first principle of Johann Gottlieb Fichte's &lt;i&gt;Wissenschaftslehre&lt;/i&gt; - "Doctrine of Science".&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The phrase that is on the tip of the tongues of many today is "The Law of Attraction". Like the other terms used by Haanel, this was probably not of his own inventing. It seems to have come to light first in the works of William Walker Atkinson (1862 - 1932) and particularly in &lt;i&gt;Thought Vibration or The Law of Attraction in the Thought World&lt;/i&gt; published by The New Thought Publishing Co., Chicago, Illinois, USA, 1906. Though the phrase itself is much older, its meaning became somewhat different with Atkinson and Haanel.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Law of Attraction also appears in the syllabus of the S.R.I.A. - The Society of Rosicrucians. However, it is not known how old this syllabus is and it is likely that it is quite modern. The S.R.I.A. was formed in 1909 with the idea of teaching to the general public rather than Masons as with previous Rosicrucian groups. Some other aspects of the S.R.I.A. syllabus bears similarities to Haanel's works. However, it may be that both this syllabus and Haanel's ideas are from an older source - or a just coincidence. It is unknown which came first.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ultimately it may be possible to trace the idea of the Law of Attraction back to certain phrases that were put into the mouth of Jesus Christ in the New Testament of the Bible.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. (Matthew 7:7-8, King James Version)&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Another book that cannot be ignored was published in 1908 and was called &lt;i&gt;The Kybalion: Hermetic Philosophy&lt;/i&gt; by Three Initiates and published by The Yogi Publication Society, Masonic Temple, Chicago, Illinois, USA. It cannot be ignored that this book may have played a part in the development of Haanel's &lt;i&gt;The Master Key System&lt;/i&gt;. It certainly wasn't a collection of lessons and exercises, but the wording throughout this book is remarkably similar to Hannel's publications. At one point the phrase "Mental Chemistry" is used. And though there is nothing in the title remotely similar to Haanel's work, the phrase "Master Key" is used in the Introduction and several times in the body of the book. The Kybalion also delves into the power of thought.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;...(T)he Hermetic Philosophy is the only Master-Key which will open all the doors of Occult teachings.... One of the old Hermetic Masters wrote, long ages ago: 'He who grasps the truth of the Mental Nature of the Universe is well advanced on the Path to mastery.' These words are as true today as at the time first written. Without this Master-Key, Mastery is impossible, and the student knocks in vain at the many doors of the Temple.... The Principles of Truth are Seven; he who knows these, understandingly, possesses the Magic Key before whose touch all the Doors of the Temple fly open.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It is believed that &lt;i&gt;The Kybalion&lt;/i&gt; is not some ancient document but was written by William W. Atkinson and the other "Initiates" have been guessed at as Paul Foster Houses and Mabel Collins. Atkinson was certainly active in the years leading up to the publication of The Master Key System and it is hard to believe that Haanel would not have known of either the man or his works. &lt;i&gt;Master Key Arcana&lt;/i&gt; includes short pieces from the writings of several members of the New Thought Movement, including William W. Atkinson, James Allen, Florence Scovel Shinn, Henry Drummond and Phineas P. Quimby.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Whether Haanel was influenced by Atkinson, or any other members of this Movement, though, is another thing all together and it is difficult to be sure what his sources were.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Much of Haanel's life is a mystery. Not many records were kept or preserved and the lack of many living descendants who knew him add to us not knowing much about him. C. W. Evans-Gunther researched and examined Haanel's life as much as possible. His thorough biography can be found at &lt;i&gt;www.haanel.com&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Researching Haanel's influences and their play on his works is somewhat easier. As was noted at the beginning of this article, when the times in which Haanel lived are examined, you can see the influences and how Haanel used those influences to shape his thoughts and his works.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In the time period in which Haanel lived, the self-help/personal development movement (although not called by those terms) was quite large and actually very similar to today's scene. As the saying goes, the times may have changed but things remain the same. By some counts, Haanel was a somewhat important player, although he never had the infamy of Blavatsky or a few others of the time.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It was all of these elements (at least) that came together in Haanel's mind to form one of the greatest books about personal development.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[Please note: This article was researched by C.W. Evans-Gunther. He is also responsible for writing the majority of it. Additional information was added by me. I am also responsible for additional editing and any mistakes that one might find. More information can be found at www.haanel.com.]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Anthony R. Michalski/Master Key Coaching&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.masterkeycoaching.com"&gt;http://www.masterkeycoaching.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-3455490842772159372?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/3455490842772159372/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=3455490842772159372' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3455490842772159372'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3455490842772159372'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/origin-of-master-key-system-by-charles.html' title='The Origin of the Master Key System by Charles F Haanel'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-2544632364536719981</id><published>2009-09-06T09:56:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-06T09:56:39.916-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Repairing a Leaking Toilet</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Let me explain how a toilet works. First when you go to flush the toilet a little arm pulls a rubber flapper up and lets the water drain into the toilet bowl. The water draining into the toilet bowl forces the old water out along with the number two or number one waste and extremities.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If the toilet sounds like it is running there is a good chance that the seal between the rubber flapper and the plastic rain at the bottom of the toilet is broken somehow. The sound you are hearing is water running around this ring and in to the toilet bowl.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This leak is actually causing no damage to the toilet itself but is wasting water. Hence the water bill will be a little higher if you don't fix the leaking toilet. The best way to find out if this is actually your problem is to take the toilet tank lid off. Then stick your hand down into the toilet bowl and press gently on the rubber flap.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If the water stops leaking or starts running faster this is your problem. Turn the water off to the toilet. There will be a shut off valve on the wall under your toilet bowl in the bathroom. After you turn the water off removed the plastic flap and examine it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You will be looking for a warped toilet flap or of some sort or grooves on the flapper itself. Take the toilet flapper down to your local home improvement store and buy a new one. Go home and replace the new toilet flapper and this should solve 90% of your leaking toilet problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There is one more thing it could be. With the toilet tank lid off, check to see if water is overflowing into the little round plastic pipe. This plastic pipe should have a small hose running from the float valve assembly into it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If the water is over flowing from the toilet tank into this little plastic pipe you will need to adjust the float.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;First thing you will need to do is while the toilet is running lift up on the float lever arm. If the water stops you can simply bend the metal arm of the float lever. The purpose of bending the arm will force the float deeper into the water there for stopping the water from rising over the small tube in the center of your toilet.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are few parts to a toilet and most parts can be purchased at your local hardware or home improvement centers. Toilet repairs like this can be made simple and the parts used to replace are inexpensive.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Happy Toilet Repairing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He is currently working on more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/library.htm"&gt;House Building and Remodeling Library&lt;/a&gt; and adding useful content to help solve problems created by the lack of construction knowledge in the building industry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit us and get more information on building and remodeling your homes and Some Great &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/ideas/plumbing_ideas.htm"&gt;Plumbing Ideas&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/does_god_make_mistakes.htm&gt;Does God Make Mistakes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-2544632364536719981?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/2544632364536719981/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=2544632364536719981' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2544632364536719981'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2544632364536719981'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/repairing-leaking-toilet.html' title='Repairing a Leaking Toilet'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-4652919599745832748</id><published>2009-09-06T03:59:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-06T03:59:49.160-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Do You Live Life on Default Or Do You Participate in Your Life</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;It's incredible the number of people who do very little or no planning in their lives. Who is in charge? What is there to be gained from wandering about life from experience to experience without having any idea of where you are going? I like to think of it as though there is an auto-pilot flying your life - sometimes you'll get something that you really want or arrive somewhere you really want to be, but most of the time, you are simply going to get what you get.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In order to live your life with a sense of direction, you have to make some decisions. You have to decide:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Where you are going&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;What you want to be, do and have&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;How active you are going to be in pursuing your goals&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I'm a firm believer that there is no pre-determined purpose to our lives and that ultimately, it makes no difference if you live your life set to default, or if you take an active role in your life's direction and purpose. I do get the sense that to live our lives set to default is to miss out on some of the wonderful journeys we are able to create for ourselves. If you constantly find yourself arriving at a new destination, that you didn't pre-plan or intend to arrive at, then surely you've simply been a passenger in your life and not the driver. Ultimately though, if you understand that you have the choice to participate or sit back and let it happen, then you make the choice from an informed position. There are many people who are unaware that they do have the choice to participate in life and it is these people who have the most to gain from reading these words.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So rather than being a passenger, decide where you wish to go, who you wish to be and what you wish to have in your life, and then take action and make it happen.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Dan O'Neil offers &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.aquariuscoaching.co.uk"&gt;Life Coaching&lt;/a&gt; and personal development training services in the UK. He specialises in helping people improve their confidence, self esteem and work-life balance. Dan also writes a popular &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.aquariuscoaching.co.uk/blog"&gt;personal development&lt;/a&gt; blog.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-4652919599745832748?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/4652919599745832748/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=4652919599745832748' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4652919599745832748'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4652919599745832748'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/do-you-live-life-on-default-or-do-you.html' title='Do You Live Life on Default Or Do You Participate in Your Life'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-3932775981650764853</id><published>2009-09-06T02:26:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-06T02:26:34.599-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Attic Odors and Strange Smells</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;If you've ever opened up your attic access hole, only to find one of the worst odors you have ever smelled in your whole life, I've been there too. What causes these horrible smells and what can you do about them?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Let's start with the cause of these smells, moisture, dirt, mold, mildew, dead animals, animals that make their home in your attic and the biggest problem of all is normally poor ventilation.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Poor ventilation is the biggest problem with musty smells in the attic. These smells are often caused from moisture accumulating in the building materials over time. If there is enough moisture in the attic, the wood will start to rot but this wouldn't be a normal situation, unless there was a roof or water leak.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Roof leaks can cause a constant supply of water to one part of the attic. This constant supply of water will eventually rot the wood and damage the ceiling. Water leaks from pipes can provide a steady supply of water and the situation can attracts termites and mold. Not a good thing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;One of the worst possible smells or odors in your attic would be a dead animal. Don't under estimate the size of some of these animals, they have found dead raccoons, cats, snakes, large birds, squirrels, rats and mice in some attics. These animals usually enter through damaged access holes or vent blocks, roof vents, large gaps, holes and even fireplace chimneys.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Once these animals die, their bodies start to decompose and produce one horrible odor. Once the body is completely decomposed, the smell usually goes away if the attic is ventilated properly. These smells can seep into the homes living area, often creating a room that no one wants to enter.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/house_pests.htm"&gt;Home pests&lt;/a&gt;that make their home in your attics, often create smells from urinating and defecating in the areas around their nest. Large birds like owls can become a problem over time.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Now that we've figured out some of the causes for attic odors and strange smells, what can we do to prevent this from happening and if it's already happened, how can we get rid of the smell.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a Home Buyers Guide to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If your having problems in your attic, find out more at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/books/pest_control_books.htm"&gt;pest control books&lt;/a&gt; and home building ideas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/../christian_articles.htm&gt;Christian Articles&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-3932775981650764853?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/3932775981650764853/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=3932775981650764853' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3932775981650764853'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3932775981650764853'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/attic-odors-and-strange-smells.html' title='Attic Odors and Strange Smells'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-8737902749775737881</id><published>2009-09-05T20:18:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-05T20:18:08.451-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Self Esteem and Body Image</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Our self esteem has a lot to do with our body image. How much do we accept our own bodies? Are we good enough to be ...?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Are we good enough to have ...?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Are we good enough to do ...?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The answers depend entirely on our own self esteem. Although our bodies have something to do with how others treat us, the most important factor is how we view ourselves.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If we hold an image of our bodies as being messed up then we have a negative impact on our bodies as well as our self esteem.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If we think we are our bodies, then we are building esteem for the wrong self.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We build esteem for our bodies by seeing their true perfection. The first step in doing that is accepting them the way they are. They are okay the way they are.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What effect does self acceptance have on our health?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Many people believe that we have energetic blueprints for our bodies. This energetic blueprint affects the condition of our bodies. The blueprint comes first. The actual body condition comes some time later.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you were fortunate enough to see the movie &lt;i&gt;What the Bleep&lt;/i&gt;, you saw microscopic pictures of water after it was exposed to prayer, positive thoughts, and various negative emotions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The results were astonishing!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The microscopic pictures of the water exposed to negative emotions and thoughts looked like a real mess. However, the pictures of the positive emotion exposed water looked like nature's works of art. They were harmonious and beautiful.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Imagine what effect emotions have on our body!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In a later scene, the main character looked into a mirror and dramatically exclaimed "I hate you". This normally beautiful woman looked quite unattractive.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Fortunately, the leading character had a realization. She started loving herself and painted loving art work all over her body. Her whole appearance changed. She looked beautiful again. She was happy. She accepted and loved herself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Have you ever tried to fight off negativity?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You probably noticed that it was a never ending battle. We might temporarily succeed by placing ourselves inside a protective egg shell where all the bad stuff is outside. Our world can get smaller and smaller as we do that. Pretty soon there's nothing left but us in our shrinking eggshell watching Mary Poppins video.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Have you ever tried to get rid of something by resisting it?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What happened? Did it keep coming back? Could there be a better way?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Yes, fortunately there is a better way. We can observe something and accept it the way it is. This doesn't mean we mentally push it away by telling ourselves that we accept it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Can we really accept something? Can we allow it to continue forever? If we really can, then magic happens. That something can lift off. I can't promise that you can change physical reality. But I'm not saying that you can't.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I can tell you from experience that you can change your emotional and mental experience.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;By accepting your body the way it is, you change the energetic blueprint of your body. And ...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It feels good.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Copyright 2006 by Jim Kitzmiller&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Jim Kitzmiller is the author of &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.rocket-fuel-for-the-soul.com"&gt;Rocket Fuel for the Soul -- Blissercise Self-Help Manual&lt;/a&gt;. The book's bliss exercises (blissercises) surpass usual positive thinking approaches by bypassing the logical mind. The blissercises cover 46 different areas of life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Jim leads self-help workshops and does spiritual coaching.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-8737902749775737881?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/8737902749775737881/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=8737902749775737881' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8737902749775737881'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8737902749775737881'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/self-esteem-and-body-image.html' title='Self Esteem and Body Image'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-1897711214580105619</id><published>2009-09-05T18:48:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-05T18:48:42.721-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Planning Your Bathroom Remodel Budget - Home Improvement Ideas</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;As a bathroom remodeling contractor, I get calls from people, that have no idea what they want or how much anything is going to cost. Here's some simple tips that can be very helpful when planning a bathroom remodel budget.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bathroom Remodeling Investment&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In 2008, the average mid-range bathroom cost around $16,000 and you could recoup around $12,000 of your original investment upon the sale of your home. According to a popular remodeling magazine, larger bathrooms using expensive fixtures, tile, bathtubs, woodworking, toilets and showers had an average of $52,000. Upon the sale of a home, you could recoup around $36,000 of your original investment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Finding out How Much Things Cost&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My first suggestion, would be to visit your local home improvement center, lumber yard or plumbing supply warehouse. Larger stores like Home Depot and Lowe's, seemed to provide you with value pricing but don't have a large selection. While doing some research on the Internet I noticed that some of their pricing is outrageously, outrageous. Some plumbing supply warehouses can provide value but beware others won't.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Create a List of Bathroom Remodeling Parts&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can get a good idea of your bathroom remodel costs for your budget by making a list of bathroom parts with pricing and then adding them up for a grand total. If you're a total bathroom remodel budget is $15,000 and you have a $6,000 bathtub with $4000 worth of tile, you could have a budget problem.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Figuring out the Labor&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You will have to contact a contractor to get an actual cost for the labor. Sometimes you can double the cost of your bathroom remodeling parts to get a rough idea. If you have a list or a couple of lists and a few pictures of some sample bathrooms, this will make the contractor's job easier and often they can give you a labor price within a few days.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Give Yourself a Cushion&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I would suggest leaving yourself a small financial cushion for any additional remodeling items. For example, you could see a different toilet, or instead of painting the walls, you now choose to wallpaper, you could incur additional expenses that you haven't planned for. If you know exactly what you want and stick to the original bathroom remodeling plan, you shouldn't need the cushion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Financial problems often transfer into construction problems, so spend some time figuring out, how much money you want to spend on the bathroom remodel and try not to go overboard on the budget. I hate to see homeowners struggling with home improvement loan payments. Try to create a bathroom remodeling budget that is realistic and will not create a financial burden upon you or your family.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/homebuyersguide/index.htm"&gt;home buyers guide&lt;/a&gt; to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If your looking for some more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/ideas/bathroom_ideas.htm"&gt;bathroom remodeling&lt;/a&gt; or home building ideas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/../religion_articles.htm&gt;Religion Articles&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-1897711214580105619?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/1897711214580105619/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=1897711214580105619' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1897711214580105619'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1897711214580105619'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/planning-your-bathroom-remodel-budget_05.html' title='Planning Your Bathroom Remodel Budget - Home Improvement Ideas'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-4063419213294080707</id><published>2009-09-05T12:24:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-05T12:24:32.592-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Be Different: The Feng Shui Mirror</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Stress comes from everyday living. Whether it be at work, home, or anywhere else, it is difficult to keep things in perspective. That is one reason why Feng Shui has become so popular among everyone looking to create balance in their life, even when they look at themselves. A Feng Shui mirror is not only for looking at yourself, but it is a new way to see yourself; here is why.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Introduction&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The basics behind Feng Shui start with your working and/or living space. In order to put energy (or "chi") into your life to pursue your aspirations, you first have to rid yourself of the ailments in your living/working quarters. The literal meaning of Feng Shui is wind and water -- feng is the wind that carries chi throughout the space and shui is the water that swims beneath the earth-supporting chi, so it creates a free flow of chi in the environment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;See the Difference&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The prime purpose of Feng Shui is to parallel your physical space with your personal goals. Thus, a person has to change the objects within their dwelling in order to keep their goals within sight. With a Feng Shui mirror, it wont only help you see yourself; it will also help you see yourself without negativity. For instance, if you place the Feng Shui mirror in front of whatever is negative in your bedroom or other room, then it will reflect the object, and keep it away from you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you need to have a room for relaxation, place a mirror where the negative energy is keeping you from calm, such as a machine or other electronic device. When you need to have other elements or energy in your room, a Feng Shui mirror will help you bring in that chi. Place your Feng Shui mirror facing towards a window, where the element is and the reflection will bring the elements chi into the room.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you are willing to try something new to de-stress your life, considering the art of Feng Shui could help you. Although an ancient practice, it is believed to chase away the negative energy in a particular space and only stream in positive chi. Using a Feng Shui mirror is not just about positioning your mirror a particular way, it is a way to see yourself differently and in an optimistic light.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do you know what is &lt;a target="_new" href="http://bandymas.com/feng-shui/feng-shui-for-love/"&gt;Feng Shui For Love&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-4063419213294080707?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/4063419213294080707/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=4063419213294080707' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4063419213294080707'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4063419213294080707'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/be-different-feng-shui-mirror.html' title='Be Different: The Feng Shui Mirror'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-2731963946782317778</id><published>2009-09-05T11:10:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-05T11:10:02.121-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Bathroom Moisture Problems - Home Repair</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Right above my bathtub in my master bathroom the paint is peeling off the wall. The area is peeling above the tile in my bathtub and shower combination. I tried to glue the peeling paint back and only made the situation worst.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;First things first. The paint is peeling because there is to much moisture in the bathroom while you are using it. Do you have any windows you can open or a ventilating bathroom fan. If you have a window crack it open part way while you are showering.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The water droplets will accumulate on the walls and drip into any cracks. Right above the tile grout is a great place for moisture to accumulate. Oh yeah moisture loves grout and drywall. If you have any unpainted areas or an area that has cracked. Guess what you have now.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Your paint is peeling because the bathroom gets hot and cold. Moist and dry. If you have the door and windows shut. You just created a moisture trap. Most people prefer their privacy and will closes the door when using the shower. Well then open the window and let some cold air in while you are taking a nice warn shower. I don't think so. Most showering fools don't like that idea either.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ok one more idea keep the windows shut so you don't let the cold air in. Then lock the door so no on barges in on you. If you have a ventilation fan turn it on. This will at least pull fresh air in from under the door and send the moist air out of the house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But the fan is so noisy and I can't enjoy my nice warm vapor producing shower that will eventually cause me to get sick from mold particles floating around in the air while I am using my bathroom.&lt;br&gt;Does this about sum it up for you and don't we all do this from time to time. We want to enjoy our shower time, so we close up everything and when we are in our bath sauna environment relaxing our house is getting some damaging moisture that could cause mold and mildew.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Open a window or door a little when you shower. Get some air circulating through the bathroom and prevent damage to your nice house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Put up with a little inconvenience for you homes sake and your pocket book.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge has been in the home building and remodeling business in California for over 30 years. With this knowledge he has created a few websites that provide useful information for home owners as well as contractors. His main goal is to educate professionals in the home related businesses, dealing with problems that can easily be avoided with just a little bit of information.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;His website provides all kinds of answers to remodeling and new house building in North San Diego Home Remodeling &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/carlsbad_remodeling.htm"&gt;Carlsbad Home Remodeling&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit us now for &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/bathrooms.htm"&gt;Bathroom Ideas&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/was_jesus_a_good_example.htm&gt;Was Jesus A Good Example&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-2731963946782317778?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/2731963946782317778/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=2731963946782317778' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2731963946782317778'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2731963946782317778'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/bathroom-moisture-problems-home-repair_05.html' title='Bathroom Moisture Problems - Home Repair'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-2818087417396601297</id><published>2009-09-05T04:51:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-05T04:51:36.271-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Tips For Healthy Kid Habits</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;No longer are diabetes and obesity a problem just for grown-ups. More and more children are being affected by these life changing conditions as well. As parents there is a ton that we can do to help our children learn how to be healthy and LOVE doing it. Following are some tips on how to do just that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;1. Start young. Just because they are little, don't be afraid to introduce healthy moving and eating. It is way easier to make these kinds of habits when they are young. As they get older it gets harder. It isn't impossible to help teenagers form good habits, but it definitely takes a lot more work, education, patience and persistence.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;2. Turn off the electronics. Limit the exposure to these kinds of activities to no more than an hour a day. It may have been a while, but without the distraction of all of the electronics, kids do learn how to play "kid games" again. It will make a huge difference in the activity level of everyone in the house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;3. Find an activity you like to do as a family. Maybe you like to ski. Take the kids with you. Try a weekly habit of walking a local trail or bike path together. Find kid friendly events to go to together. Our family likes to find a fun run each month to participate in as a family. We like to look for ones that have shorter distances that the younger kids can do as well. It's a lot of fun!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;4. Try new recipes. Expose your children to new recipes frequently. Children, as well as adults, are creatures of habit. We like the same old foods over and over again. It's comforting. It can be a struggle to get kids to eat new things, but if you offer new things often enough, they will get used to trying new things and won't fight you as much. I try to find a couple of new recipes each week to serve to my family. It takes patience, but eventually you will find some things that are healthy substitutions for your family's unhealthy favorites that you kids and spouse will actually eat.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;5. Be an example. This is the big one. Your kids watch you and do what you do even if they don't want to. If you are trying to learn and grow and be healthy, they will see that and it WILL make an impression.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Kelly is a down to earth personal trainer who loves helping her clients catch the fitness bug. She is a busy triathlete who has completed many sprint to Iron distance races. As a mother of 5, she personally understands the challenge of balancing workouts and healthy, but kid friendly meals. Having struggled with her weight and with type II diabetes, she really knows what it is all about. Check out her website at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.oneforfitness.com"&gt;http://www.oneforfitness.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-2818087417396601297?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/2818087417396601297/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=2818087417396601297' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2818087417396601297'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2818087417396601297'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/tips-for-healthy-kid-habits_05.html' title='Tips For Healthy Kid Habits'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-7209977938328181666</id><published>2009-09-05T03:33:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-05T03:33:01.095-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Bathroom Moisture Problems - Home Repair</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Right above my bathtub in my master bathroom the paint is peeling off the wall. The area is peeling above the tile in my bathtub and shower combination. I tried to glue the peeling paint back and only made the situation worst.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;First things first. The paint is peeling because there is to much moisture in the bathroom while you are using it. Do you have any windows you can open or a ventilating bathroom fan. If you have a window crack it open part way while you are showering.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The water droplets will accumulate on the walls and drip into any cracks. Right above the tile grout is a great place for moisture to accumulate. Oh yeah moisture loves grout and drywall. If you have any unpainted areas or an area that has cracked. Guess what you have now.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Your paint is peeling because the bathroom gets hot and cold. Moist and dry. If you have the door and windows shut. You just created a moisture trap. Most people prefer their privacy and will closes the door when using the shower. Well then open the window and let some cold air in while you are taking a nice warn shower. I don't think so. Most showering fools don't like that idea either.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ok one more idea keep the windows shut so you don't let the cold air in. Then lock the door so no on barges in on you. If you have a ventilation fan turn it on. This will at least pull fresh air in from under the door and send the moist air out of the house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But the fan is so noisy and I can't enjoy my nice warm vapor producing shower that will eventually cause me to get sick from mold particles floating around in the air while I am using my bathroom.&lt;br&gt;Does this about sum it up for you and don't we all do this from time to time. We want to enjoy our shower time, so we close up everything and when we are in our bath sauna environment relaxing our house is getting some damaging moisture that could cause mold and mildew.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Open a window or door a little when you shower. Get some air circulating through the bathroom and prevent damage to your nice house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Put up with a little inconvenience for you homes sake and your pocket book.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge has been in the home building and remodeling business in California for over 30 years. With this knowledge he has created a few websites that provide useful information for home owners as well as contractors. His main goal is to educate professionals in the home related businesses, dealing with problems that can easily be avoided with just a little bit of information.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;His website provides all kinds of answers to remodeling and new house building in North San Diego Home Remodeling &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/carlsbad_remodeling.htm"&gt;Carlsbad Home Remodeling&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit us now for &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/bathrooms.htm"&gt;Bathroom Ideas&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/meditating_on_religious_scriptur.htm&gt;Meditating On Religious Scriptur&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-7209977938328181666?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/7209977938328181666/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=7209977938328181666' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7209977938328181666'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7209977938328181666'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/bathroom-moisture-problems-home-repair.html' title='Bathroom Moisture Problems - Home Repair'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-171617496258146180</id><published>2009-09-04T21:29:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-04T21:29:19.632-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Managing Motivation in a Recession</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;"When the going gets tough, the tough get going"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Write this old, but still very true, quote down on a 3" x 4" file card and stick it on your bathroom mirror, fridge or someplace in your home that forces you to see it everyday. Read it when you get up in the morning and when you go to bed at night.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visualization of this quote everyday will give you strength to motivate you in your current business or to find a new business career in these recessionary times. Don't underestimate the power of creative dreaming or visualization. Most of the best inventions in life came from people who were not afraid to dream big.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Successful people have mistakes and failures, but they never loose vision of the goal they have set in their mind to achieve. They learn from their mistakes and push forward towards their goal. Goal oriented people become aware of how powerful the force of dreams and desires are.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Take steps to develop these skills beginning in very small ways everyday. You have to own your dreams or desires. Set one or more manageable goals to accomplish everyday. At the end of the day, week and finally the month, you will be amazed at what you have accomplished. The feeling of pride you get from each achievement will keep increasing your energy level to continue accomplishing even more goals. You now have created a road map to achieve success.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mine your dreams and desires. Don't let setbacks or negative comments bug you. Pay attention to your dreams, fantasies and desires. Face the fears and challenges that have caused you to stop mining those treasures, the treasures that can give you the life you deserve. Think about it, avoidance is really not helping anything. You still expend a great deal of energy on the negative feelings of pain, frustration, guilt and hurt. Remember, "avoidance always prolongs the pain".&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Successful people always keep their vision on the larger picture, constantly taking steps to achieve their goal. They constantly visualize the steps they must take to attain the good things they want in life and to avoid the bad things that will hinder them from accomplishing their goals. In short, they rarely do anything without thinking positively about the rewards of their goal and how it will enhance their life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Successful people don't dwell on blame or fault. Even if someone else is at fault, they take the initiative to address the problem and seek a solution. Whatever the answer may be, they don't loose sight of their goal. Don't just sit there wishing someone would fix the problem, it's your goals at risk, you fix it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We know the economy is currently in a recession. Don't wait for it to change take action now. Take up a new skill, change your career, and look at a different field of employment. Look somewhere else to find another career, find a niche that is hot, enlarge your network of searches, and be open to new job or career opportunities. Read the newspaper, entrepreneur magazines, start thinking outside the box. What have you always dreamt about doing? Don't just sit around and wait.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Force yourself out of your comfort zone. Nothing will happen unless you get started taking action now. Start off by taking baby steps; this will decrease your setbacks while building your confidence.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"If an ant picks up one grain of sand at a time, the city will still be built. But if the ant looks at the grain of sand and says this is not a city; there will be no city at the end."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Who am I?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;At best, I am a life coach! I was an inner city child with a single mom until the age of 8. I had an abusive step father that forced me to leave home at 16. I grew up on the streets. My life as you can imagine with the role models I encountered quickly shaped my future. After years of alcohol abuse, therapy sessions, counselling and anger management courses, I was at a crossroad. My life was not what I envisioned it would be and it was spiraling out of control. Realizing my barriers was painful to say the least. I couldn't mask my emotions anymore and that is when I decided I needed a life change! Even though my career was in the right direction at the time I couldn't experience happiness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Change came after applying the teachings and secrets that I am about to reveal to you I use in my own life. I am student of life's teachings in all aspects. My teachings are a condensed version of experiences, encounters, lessons and action plans that are put together in an easy to use manual.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am committed to transforming my clients to start living their life to the fullest! If you are looking for an easy to read ebook guide to help you attain A Happy, Healthy Lifestyle, get your copy Now to Start Living the Life You Deserve!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.wellbalancedlifestyle.com"&gt;http://www.wellbalancedlifestyle.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-171617496258146180?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/171617496258146180/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=171617496258146180' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/171617496258146180'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/171617496258146180'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/managing-motivation-in-recession.html' title='Managing Motivation in a Recession'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-7823416575275268881</id><published>2009-09-04T19:58:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-04T19:58:56.446-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Planning Your Bathroom Remodel Budget - Home Improvement Ideas</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;As a bathroom remodeling contractor, I get calls from people, that have no idea what they want or how much anything is going to cost. Here's some simple tips that can be very helpful when planning a bathroom remodel budget.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bathroom Remodeling Investment&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In 2008, the average mid-range bathroom cost around $16,000 and you could recoup around $12,000 of your original investment upon the sale of your home. According to a popular remodeling magazine, larger bathrooms using expensive fixtures, tile, bathtubs, woodworking, toilets and showers had an average of $52,000. Upon the sale of a home, you could recoup around $36,000 of your original investment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Finding out How Much Things Cost&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My first suggestion, would be to visit your local home improvement center, lumber yard or plumbing supply warehouse. Larger stores like Home Depot and Lowe's, seemed to provide you with value pricing but don't have a large selection. While doing some research on the Internet I noticed that some of their pricing is outrageously, outrageous. Some plumbing supply warehouses can provide value but beware others won't.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Create a List of Bathroom Remodeling Parts&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can get a good idea of your bathroom remodel costs for your budget by making a list of bathroom parts with pricing and then adding them up for a grand total. If you're a total bathroom remodel budget is $15,000 and you have a $6,000 bathtub with $4000 worth of tile, you could have a budget problem.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Figuring out the Labor&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You will have to contact a contractor to get an actual cost for the labor. Sometimes you can double the cost of your bathroom remodeling parts to get a rough idea. If you have a list or a couple of lists and a few pictures of some sample bathrooms, this will make the contractor's job easier and often they can give you a labor price within a few days.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Give Yourself a Cushion&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I would suggest leaving yourself a small financial cushion for any additional remodeling items. For example, you could see a different toilet, or instead of painting the walls, you now choose to wallpaper, you could incur additional expenses that you haven't planned for. If you know exactly what you want and stick to the original bathroom remodeling plan, you shouldn't need the cushion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Financial problems often transfer into construction problems, so spend some time figuring out, how much money you want to spend on the bathroom remodel and try not to go overboard on the budget. I hate to see homeowners struggling with home improvement loan payments. Try to create a bathroom remodeling budget that is realistic and will not create a financial burden upon you or your family.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/homebuyersguide/index.htm"&gt;home buyers guide&lt;/a&gt; to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If your looking for some more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/ideas/bathroom_ideas.htm"&gt;bathroom remodeling&lt;/a&gt; or home building ideas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/wrong_with_bible_verse.htm&gt;Wrong With Bible Verse&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-7823416575275268881?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/7823416575275268881/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=7823416575275268881' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7823416575275268881'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7823416575275268881'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/planning-your-bathroom-remodel-budget_04.html' title='Planning Your Bathroom Remodel Budget - Home Improvement Ideas'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-2220091885200750783</id><published>2009-09-04T13:58:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-04T13:58:08.872-07:00</updated><title type='text'>How to Improve Your Motivation</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Latest scientific researches on mind proves that hypnosis is the best way to improve the motivation. In the article below, I will discuss how you can improve your motivation through simple, but powerful hypnosis plan. So, how can hypnosis help you to become a highly motivated person?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Well, you will achieve this using &lt;i&gt;Motivation for Success Hypnotic Induction&lt;/i&gt;. Lets go direct to the point. You are going to accomplish your three goals using Motivation for Success Induction:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;1. Being motivated for success - You need to have a positive outlook and attitude about yourself. The induction will help you to become confident and remove the barriers that holds you back from reaching you goals.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;2. Achieving success - You need to program yourself to achieve goals. The induction will help you to focus on your major goal and put all of your energy into it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;3. Enjoying success - You need to assimilate success into your life and enjoy it. The induction will help you to feel happy and successful in the choices and actions you make.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Now, it is time to start using the Motivation for Success Induction. Below, I have created an easy to follow, proven and powerful Motivation for Success Induction for you. If you use this induction with the plan below, then you will have high motivation forever. This is a promise.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here is what you should do now: Firstly, record the induction below with your own voice and follow this induction daily for about 30 days. Then, when you notice a significant change in your motivation, use this induction whenever you feel the need for reinforcement.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;OK, now start following the induction below and pay attention to each suggestions and sentences carefully.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;u&gt;Motivation for Success Induction begins&lt;/u&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;- Imagine that nothing holds you back from reaching your goal and becoming the successful person that you want to be. Imagine a prefect kind of day, a day that you awaken to and just know it's going to be the kind of day where everything is just right, everything just falls into place. Your feelings are good, you feel at peace, you feel content.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You have been comfortable and protected within the boundaries that you yourself have created, you have been comfortable and safe, and now you choose to expand your comfortable space. Just imagine yourself pushing back the barricades, and instead you are expanding you horizons, expanding your goal, reaching forward higher and higher, feeling comfortable with your new goals, feeling comfortable with your expanded boundaries.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You feel safe, secure, and pleased that you have the control and power within you to change, to change your limitations and be the successful person you want to be. Your feelings are good, you feel at peace, you feel content. Now just imagine taking this special day and placing it just a little bit in the future, a day or two, a week, a month, just a little in the future, imagine that you have resolved many conflicts, many problems, and they are now in the past.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Imagine a smile on you face, you are at peace, content, you have found solutions to problems and you have resolved them. You are now free of past burdens, you are confident, self-assured, you feel centered and strong, now just imagine a goal or project that you would like to accomplish. Your goal is [write your goal here]. See yourself put all other minor goals aside and just focus on one goal or project. See yourself put energy into your work, see yourself complete it. you see new opportunities, you see new challenges that are more exciting than the old ones. You see yourself with renewed energy, you are enthusiastic, you focus, concentrate and new ideas develop from the old, new energy and positive feelings emerge, you are successful.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;u&gt;Motivation for Success Induction ends&lt;/u&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Remember: Hypnosis is the best way to improve your motivation. So, if you follow the Motivation for Success Induction, you will have high motivation for your entire life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Orkhan Ibadov is a professional hypnotist who teaches you &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.hypnosisblacksecrets.com"&gt;hypnosis&lt;/a&gt; and self hypnosis techniques. Orkhan invites you to learn more hypnosis secrets on his popular hypnosis site at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.hypnosisblacksecrets.com"&gt;http://www.hypnosisblacksecrets.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-2220091885200750783?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/2220091885200750783/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=2220091885200750783' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2220091885200750783'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2220091885200750783'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/how-to-improve-your-motivation.html' title='How to Improve Your Motivation'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-6427360733065754612</id><published>2009-09-04T12:31:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-04T12:31:58.529-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Stair Lighting Problems</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Walking up and down the stairs in the dark could become a safety issue. If the stairs in the house are not that old, there should be a light switch at the top and a light switch at the bottom of the stairway. This is a three way switch and is designed to allow you to turn the stair lighting on as you walk up the stairs and then turn the stair lighting off, once you've safely reached the top of the stairway. And vice versa as she walked down the stairs.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you don't have a light switch, there are motion sensor lights that are battery operated and can be installed easily in the stairway. These lights can provide you with peace of mind, while protecting your family from accidents.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Stairway accidents are nothing to joke about, I lived in a two-story house with four other people and was the last one to fall down the stairway. None of us got seriously injured and the stairway was built to meet local building codes and was inspected by a building and safety inspector. The stairs were built correctly and the stair lighting was no problem, but people still fell down the stairway and it always happens in the evening.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;During the day time there were two windows that let plenty of light into the stairway and in the evening the stairway became quite dark, rarely was the &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://stairs4u.com/stair_lighting.htm"&gt;stair lightning&lt;/a&gt; ever turned on. This could have been outright laziness but nevertheless, it was rarely used and eventually became a safety issue.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Lighting your stairway might not end all of your problems but it can and some of your problems. There are plenty of stair lighting systems available on the market today and some of the battery operated stair lighting systems can be installed by most homeowners.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Think safety always and do your best to solve your stair lighting problems as soon as possible to prevent injuries or accidents.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a Home Buyers Guide to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If your looking for some more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://stairs4u.com/eimage/howtobuildstraightstairs.htm"&gt;building stairs&lt;/a&gt; or home building ideas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/meditating_on_religious_scriptur.htm&gt;Meditating On Religious Scriptur&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-6427360733065754612?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/6427360733065754612/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=6427360733065754612' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6427360733065754612'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6427360733065754612'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/stair-lighting-problems_04.html' title='Stair Lighting Problems'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-5708519993480652625</id><published>2009-09-04T06:33:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-04T06:33:42.586-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Many Benefits of Meditation</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Meditation is a way of life. It leads one to the path of health and peace.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Meditation is not easy. One needs a mental discipline and dedication. It requires perseverance just like those who are dedicated to their sports, art or other field of endeavour. Over time, their performance is enhanced through their dedication and discipline. There is much to gain from learning to embrace the practice of meditation. It is not as awkward and uncomfortable as some may think.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Meditation works through the brain circuitry. Meditative practice helps people achieve different levels of awareness. Through meditation. the brain waves get organized and mental activities like focus, memory, learning and awareness are sharpened. Benefits of meditation touches on the physical, psychological and spiritual level. Many medical practitioners believe in the benefits of meditation.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;PHYSICAL HEALING&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Stress reduction&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Today's world is stressful. Negative emotions invade our everyday life. These manifest as disappointments, regrets, overwhelming responsibilities, relationship issues, failure, feelings of rejection and a lot of other issues. There are many physical conditions triggered by stress such as hypertension, cardio-vascular disorders, ulcers, skin rash and insomnia, just to name a few.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Calm down, relax. These are words we hear when stress starts to take over. Meditation offers the promise of a tranquil and calm mind. Meditation is not a review of what could have been and other thoughts of uncertainty. It is not a rehash of unpleasant events. Meditation is a way to relax the mind and focus on the present moment. A calmer mind is empowering. Issues are not threatening.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Levels of cortisol and lactate are lowered through meditation. These chemicals are linked with stress. During deep meditation, the metabolic rate and heart rate are reduced. It is a process of slowing down. This state will not be achieved quickly.With patience and dedication, a meditator will get to this state.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;PSYCHOLOGICAL HEALING&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Meditation quietens the mind. This brings about coherence in the brain waves. When the brain wave activities are in harmony, this is associated with improved reasoning and greater creativity. The clutter in the mind is minimized.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Other psychological benefits are decreased anxiety, decreased depression and irritability. With a quieter mind, the power of concentration is improved, memory is enhanced, vigor and vitality is renewed, better emotional stability and self-awareness. A calmer person finds inner peace and happiness and projects this on the outside. Meditation makes one realize that problems people worry about are trivial.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;SPIRITUAL&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Meditation is a way to connect with inner feelings. It guides one to feel calm, love and peace. Acknowledge negative feelings and let these go.The goals of meditation is to replace these with positive feelings. Meditation helps one to go deeper into one's being and appreciate what a relief it is to be able to surrender negative thoughts, let go all negative feelings that cloud judgment and reason.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Meditation ushers one into a different world. There is an experience of feeling peaceful and general well-being. Intuitive capabilities are enhanced with a feeling of assurance and "knowingness." One embraces unconditional love and psychic abilities are sharpened.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;MINDFULNESS MEDITATION &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Breathing is very important in meditation. It is a way to calm down and quieten the clutter in the mind. Thoughts will come and go as one meditates, especially at the start. Don't let this discourage you. Even expert meditators experience fleeting thoughts that intrude into their meditation. Just let it go and continue meditating.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The proper way to breathe is to extend the stomach on inhale, and contract on exhale. The shoulders should not move. Focus on counting as you breathe in and out.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sit in an upright position, on the floor, lotus or semi- lotus position or sit on a chair. It is important to be comfortable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Focus on breathing and nothing else.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Start with count of four or five as you breathe in. Hold your breath&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Count the same as you breathe out.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thoughts will come and go, don't let this stop you, just keep counting and breathing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As you practice, increase the count. Savor the calmness and relax. Slowly, you can adopt a mantra, this helps you to keep your focus. As you practise, you will be able to clear your mind of intrusive thoughts. As time moves on, so will you. Discover the surreal world of meditation. There is a lot of doors to open.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bonnie Moss writes to inspire and to motivate her readers to explore the depths of their heart and soul and make a difference in this world. She draws from personal experience and her interest in spirituality.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit her website :&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://goldencupcafe.tripod.com"&gt;http://goldencupcafe.tripod.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-5708519993480652625?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/5708519993480652625/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=5708519993480652625' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5708519993480652625'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5708519993480652625'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/many-benefits-of-meditation.html' title='Many Benefits of Meditation'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-1372641229724277445</id><published>2009-09-04T04:49:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-04T04:49:47.244-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Window Header Framing Problems</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;As a building contractor it is my job to assemble the house to meet the specifications from the architect and the structural engineer. I do this by looking at the building plans and installing the specified lumber sizes. I can take it upon myself to install a larger size wood beam or window header adding an additional cost to the job of course. I don't think so.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It's not uncommon for a framing contractor that has an additional 5 foot scrap piece of 4 x 8 left over that he now has no use for. He can then choose to use the 4 x 8 instead of a 4 x 6 for the window header. This type of building is common and acceptable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If the structural engineer calls out for 4 x 6 window and door headers do not take it upon yourself to replace the 4 x 6 with a 4 x 4. I have seen too many framing contractors or carpenters make an on-the-job judgment like this.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A good example would be a single story house with 2 foot wide windows that require a 4 x 6 window header. As the carpenter builds homes over the years he can come to his own conclusion that a 4x4 will work fine for this application. Again keep this in mind as a framing contractor and a carpenter you are assembling the home not designing it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do not change the sizes of any headers or beams.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A long time ago carpenters used a standard rule of thumb, you could go up two sizes larger than the window opening for your header. Let me give you an example of what I'm trying to explain.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A 4 foot wide window opening would require a 4 x 6 window header. A 6 foot window opening would require a 4 x 8 window header. This should give you an idea of what I mean by going up two sizes larger than the window opening to figure out the lumber necessary to use for your window header.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This rule of thumb does not necessarily apply in today's building industry. The reason for this is structural changes from earthquake damage. The structural requirements that are required for building a home require a lot more metal bracing and strapping. Therefore some of the lumber requirements for beam sizes and window headers will be different.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This message is for general contractors, framing contractors and carpenters. When installing a window header and you take it upon yourself to change the size you also assume the responsibility if the building fails. This type of mistake is common and you guys know what I'm talking about.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It's not worth it. Keep in mind you are the assembler and not the designer of the building you are working on.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He is currently working on more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/library.htm"&gt;Building and Remodeling Library&lt;/a&gt; and adding useful content to help solve problems created by the lack of construction knowledge in the building industry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit us and get more information on building and remodeling your homes and &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/structural_repair.htm"&gt;House Framing Structural Repairs&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/../greg_vanden_berge_quotes.htm&gt;Greg Vanden Berge Quotes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-1372641229724277445?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/1372641229724277445/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=1372641229724277445' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1372641229724277445'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1372641229724277445'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/window-header-framing-problems.html' title='Window Header Framing Problems'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-6133990986834567467</id><published>2009-09-03T22:52:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-03T22:52:14.688-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Christianity Saved Me From Something</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I would like you to think about something for a minute, have you ever met somebody who has been saved in a Christian church. There's a good chance you know quite a few people if you live in the United States of America. Over the years I've heard people tell me, "I've Been Saved," it can be a new beginning for some or lead to a life of frustration and pain for others.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you don't know what being saved is, or have never heard of it, let me give you a brief description of a saved Christian. This would be someone who accepts the Lord Jesus Christ as their savior, it's not that difficult and you really don't have to go to church, this ritual can be performed anywhere.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you're reading this article and would like to be saved, here's how you do it. Get up out of your chair, run outside the building you're in and start running up and down the streets yelling, I accept Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior, 1111 times. Be careful because if you missed this by one number, in either direction, you have to start all over again.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Okay I'm just kidding about the running out of the house, and yelling at the top of your lungs, oh yeah and the 1111 times. Anyway the truth about being saved according to the Christian church, is quite simply saying the words to your self or out loud, "I accept Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;That's it, it's really quite simple and your saved.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The problem becomes a little bit later in your life and this could be within a few days or even a few hours, if most people don't see a drastic change in their life, they quit their newly founded Christian religion and go back to their old ways.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I hope you have a pretty good understanding about being saved in the Christian religion and you can do it anytime of the day, at any period of your life. If you're going to die and you been a liar, committed adultery, murdered or raped another person, lived a life of crime, ruined the lives of others or even been part of another religion you're whole life, simply state the words "I accept Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior," and you're instantly a Christian. That's a pretty good deal for anyone.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Oh yeah I forgot to tell you, this simple statement gives you a one way ticket to heaven and spend eternity in one of the grandest most beautiful places you could ever possibly imagine, even though you might not have been, what most people would consider a decent person. Now this is looking pretty good isn't it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Being saved can provide you with a lot of benefits if you're a believer but I forgot to tell you one very important thing about this whole process. There is no hard evidence and most Christians will tell you that they base their whole life on faith and a book written by a man but inspired by, one unbelievable, supernatural and incredible entity.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I've seen a lot of people live their lives tormented from the decisions they've made throughout their lives. If you choose to believe in Christianity, I would suggest you spend some of your time reading the Bible but most of your time gathering information about other religions also. Don't take someone else's word, that this is the way to eternal salvation. I beg you to at least, find out where the Bible really came from, always &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/video/question_your_religion.htm"&gt;question your religion&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Education has freed me, to pursue other ideas and release me from the bondage and fear of organized religion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is a published author, internet marketing expert, motivational inspiration to millions of people all over the world and is sharing some of his wisdom with experts in the fields of writing,marketing, and personal development. Check out one of his recommended books, &lt;a target="_new" href="http://spiritualbooks4u.com/don_miguel_ruiz.htm"&gt;The Four Agreements&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-6133990986834567467?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/6133990986834567467/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=6133990986834567467' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6133990986834567467'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6133990986834567467'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/christianity-saved-me-from-something.html' title='Christianity Saved Me From Something'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-2249856907138468777</id><published>2009-09-03T21:22:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-03T21:23:00.096-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Dangers Using Wood Stair Cleats - New Stair Construction</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I would imagine most people don't even know what it wood stair cleat is, in construction we have so many words that describe the same thing. A stair cleat is another word for a thread bracket. In other words it's the part of the stairway that connects the stair stringer to the stair step. These have been used for years and over time, most of them will develop the same problem.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most wood stair cleats loosened up and create a safety hazard. If the stairs are located outside in extreme weather conditions, for example, if it rains or snows a lot, extremely humid humid weather, or extremely hot and dry temperatures, your staircase might not last that long, if it is or isn't maintained properly. It's not a bad idea to use steel or concrete for stairways in these climates.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you're ever walking up a set of stairs with wood cleats and the stair steps feel a little loose or wiggly, make sure you examined the stair cleats for safety. It's not uncommon for someone to be walking up or down a set of wood stairs and having the stair step or tread giveaway because the wood cleats has loosened.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If the wood stair cleats are nailed to the stair stringer, the nails can loosen up, causing it to become loose, as you walk up and down the stairs applying pressure to the stair cleat, this will create movement in between the stair step and the stair stringer. This could cause the cleat to crack, break and separate the connection between the stair step in the stair stringer.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I would suggest using metal brackets instead of wood cleats. The metal brackets will not crack or disintegrate like some wood cleats. &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://stairs4u.com/stair_building_hardware.htm"&gt;Stair building brackets&lt;/a&gt; of course can loosen up and should be maintained regularly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you decide to use wood stair cleats, I would suggest using screws instead of nails and drilling holes in the wood stair cleats, most of the time this will prevent cracking the cleat. Try to use a thicker material for the stair cleat, for example using a 2 x 4 with lag screws and washers would be better than using a 1 x 4 with nails.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you're walking up a set of stairs and a stair step feels loose, contact the owner of the property and let them know, they have a problem with their staircase.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He is currently working on more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://stairs4u.com/stairbuildingbooks.htm"&gt;stair building books&lt;/a&gt; and adding useful content to help solve problems created by the lack of construction knowledge in the building industry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/../personal_development.htm&gt;Personal Development&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-2249856907138468777?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/2249856907138468777/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=2249856907138468777' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2249856907138468777'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2249856907138468777'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/dangers-using-wood-stair-cleats-new_03.html' title='Dangers Using Wood Stair Cleats - New Stair Construction'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-4725149033249138582</id><published>2009-09-03T15:09:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-03T15:09:30.925-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Tips For Healthy Kid Habits</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;No longer are diabetes and obesity a problem just for grown-ups. More and more children are being affected by these life changing conditions as well. As parents there is a ton that we can do to help our children learn how to be healthy and LOVE doing it. Following are some tips on how to do just that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;1. Start young. Just because they are little, don't be afraid to introduce healthy moving and eating. It is way easier to make these kinds of habits when they are young. As they get older it gets harder. It isn't impossible to help teenagers form good habits, but it definitely takes a lot more work, education, patience and persistence.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;2. Turn off the electronics. Limit the exposure to these kinds of activities to no more than an hour a day. It may have been a while, but without the distraction of all of the electronics, kids do learn how to play "kid games" again. It will make a huge difference in the activity level of everyone in the house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;3. Find an activity you like to do as a family. Maybe you like to ski. Take the kids with you. Try a weekly habit of walking a local trail or bike path together. Find kid friendly events to go to together. Our family likes to find a fun run each month to participate in as a family. We like to look for ones that have shorter distances that the younger kids can do as well. It's a lot of fun!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;4. Try new recipes. Expose your children to new recipes frequently. Children, as well as adults, are creatures of habit. We like the same old foods over and over again. It's comforting. It can be a struggle to get kids to eat new things, but if you offer new things often enough, they will get used to trying new things and won't fight you as much. I try to find a couple of new recipes each week to serve to my family. It takes patience, but eventually you will find some things that are healthy substitutions for your family's unhealthy favorites that you kids and spouse will actually eat.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;5. Be an example. This is the big one. Your kids watch you and do what you do even if they don't want to. If you are trying to learn and grow and be healthy, they will see that and it WILL make an impression.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Kelly is a down to earth personal trainer who loves helping her clients catch the fitness bug. She is a busy triathlete who has completed many sprint to Iron distance races. As a mother of 5, she personally understands the challenge of balancing workouts and healthy, but kid friendly meals. Having struggled with her weight and with type II diabetes, she really knows what it is all about. Check out her website at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.oneforfitness.com"&gt;http://www.oneforfitness.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-4725149033249138582?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/4725149033249138582/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=4725149033249138582' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4725149033249138582'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4725149033249138582'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/tips-for-healthy-kid-habits.html' title='Tips For Healthy Kid Habits'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-274457101213886198</id><published>2009-09-03T13:51:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-03T13:51:13.390-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Success Starting in Your 40s</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;You're going to find it hard to believe, but very seldom does an individual peak with creativity until they reach the age of 40. The average individual usually makes the most money between the age of 40 and 60. This doesn't have anything to do with retirement. Most highly creative people keep producing until they die.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you're 55 years old and looking for a new career or can't seem to find a job in the profession you have worked at your whole life, don't be alarmed or fearful. Do you think you could start your own business? Is there something, you have always wanted to do but have put it off until retirement, or until you had enough time to do it?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Why wait, if you can't find a job in a business you never truly enjoyed, maybe you can find a new job doing something you love.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have worked in construction for 30 years and at 44 years old started to pursue a career in writing and plan to create award winning websites and best selling books, for the rest of my life. This doesn't mean, I won't work in construction ever again, but I will become a best selling author within the next 20 years.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most people don't take the time required to learn a new profession. If you're sincerely interested in another career, and you're 50 years old, there is plenty of people out there to give you hope and inspiration.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you would like some proof, here's a couple successful American businessman who succeeded after the age of 40. Henry Ford is probably one of the most popular and became extremely successful after the age of 40. Andrew Carnegie, an American industrialists who transformed the steel business and did not start reaping the rewards of his efforts until he was well past the age of 40.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I gathered this information from the book "&lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.spiritualbooks4u.com/napoleon_hill.htm"&gt;Think and Grow Rich&lt;/a&gt;" by Napoleon Hill. There is a section in the book where he talks about people after the age of 40 with phenomenal success. Anyone who's interested in gaining wealth through spirituality or finances should read this book.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I've often heard the statement, "People Often Over Estimate What They Can Do in a Year and Often Underestimate What They Can Do in a Decade." If you want to accomplish something after the age of 40, I would advise you to start with a plan and then put that plan and the action. Your plan could take five to 15 years to achieve or longer but think about the rewards, whether spiritual or financial.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/"&gt;Gregory Vanden Berge&lt;/a&gt; is working to promote personal development ideas and spiritual reform. He has started a web site for videos and articles based on current information about subject he is very familiar with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"Education has freed me, to pursue other ideas and release me from the bondage and fear of organized religion."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Gregory Vanden Berge&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/should_the_bible_be_edited.htm&gt;Should The Bible Be Edited&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-274457101213886198?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/274457101213886198/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=274457101213886198' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/274457101213886198'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/274457101213886198'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/success-starting-in-your-40s.html' title='Success Starting in Your 40s'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-3484187991301398423</id><published>2009-09-03T07:30:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-03T07:30:45.829-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Feng Shui and Symbols - What You Have in Your House Says a Lot About You</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;What does a broken statue of a rooster have to do with Feng Shui? Feng Shui teaches us that everything in our house is a reflection of what is in our mind. Symbolically speaking, your house and the things in it reflects your thoughts, feelings, and spirit.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So let's get back to that rooster. One of my clients had recently separated from her husband. I noticed that a statue of a large bird was directly facing her bed, so it was probably the first thing she saw when getting up in the morning. Upon closer examination, I noticed two things; first, one of the legs had previously been broken and was wrapped in what appeared to be a cast. Second, I realized that it was not a chicken; it was a rooster. Unfortunately, the coxcomb on the top of the head had broken off, probably in the same fall that broke the leg of the statue.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I examined this unfortunate art piece for a moment and then said to my client, "Do you realize that the first thing you see in the morning is a broken cock?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;After I picked her up from the floor (she was laughing so much she just collapsed), she gasped out, "You have no idea of how perfect that observation is." Not wanting to really know much more, I suggested we send out the broken rooster for repair. We then talked about what she really wanted to see first thing in the morning; it was her flute and music and a picture of her daughter.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Another client was having a hard time keeping relationships with men going. Visiting her apartment was like seeing a shrine to her daughter. Everywhere was a mother/daughter photograph. It felt like she was already in a relationship and there was no room for any other one to grow.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Everything that you choose to surround yourself with has symbolic meaning and reflects something about your life. Whether intentional or not, all those objects, pictures, photographs, and pieces of furniture resonate with information about you. Take a look around at your house. What is the first thing you see when you enter your home? When you get up in the morning? When you sit down to eat? Do those objects support you in living your best life? Observe what you have around you and then experiment. See how you feel swapping out the images that surround you for other ones that are a better reflection of who you are and where you want to go. I've seen this simple action do amazing things to improve people's lives.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Interested in learning more about Feng Shui and ways to improve the energy in your home or office? Get great tips and motivating messages by subscribing to the Empty Your Nest newsletter at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.emptyyournest.com"&gt;http://www.emptyyournest.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-3484187991301398423?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/3484187991301398423/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=3484187991301398423' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3484187991301398423'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3484187991301398423'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/feng-shui-and-symbols-what-you-have-in.html' title='Feng Shui and Symbols - What You Have in Your House Says a Lot About You'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-69683547007664919</id><published>2009-09-03T06:22:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-03T06:22:58.050-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Stair Lighting Problems</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Walking up and down the stairs in the dark could become a safety issue. If the stairs in the house are not that old, there should be a light switch at the top and a light switch at the bottom of the stairway. This is a three way switch and is designed to allow you to turn the stair lighting on as you walk up the stairs and then turn the stair lighting off, once you've safely reached the top of the stairway. And vice versa as she walked down the stairs.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you don't have a light switch, there are motion sensor lights that are battery operated and can be installed easily in the stairway. These lights can provide you with peace of mind, while protecting your family from accidents.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Stairway accidents are nothing to joke about, I lived in a two-story house with four other people and was the last one to fall down the stairway. None of us got seriously injured and the stairway was built to meet local building codes and was inspected by a building and safety inspector. The stairs were built correctly and the stair lighting was no problem, but people still fell down the stairway and it always happens in the evening.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;During the day time there were two windows that let plenty of light into the stairway and in the evening the stairway became quite dark, rarely was the &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://stairs4u.com/stair_lighting.htm"&gt;stair lightning&lt;/a&gt; ever turned on. This could have been outright laziness but nevertheless, it was rarely used and eventually became a safety issue.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Lighting your stairway might not end all of your problems but it can and some of your problems. There are plenty of stair lighting systems available on the market today and some of the battery operated stair lighting systems can be installed by most homeowners.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Think safety always and do your best to solve your stair lighting problems as soon as possible to prevent injuries or accidents.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a Home Buyers Guide to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If your looking for some more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://stairs4u.com/eimage/howtobuildstraightstairs.htm"&gt;building stairs&lt;/a&gt; or home building ideas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/using_words_in_the_bible_effecti.htm&gt;Using Words In The Bible Effecti&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-69683547007664919?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/69683547007664919/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=69683547007664919' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/69683547007664919'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/69683547007664919'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/stair-lighting-problems.html' title='Stair Lighting Problems'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-8705630311434346605</id><published>2009-09-03T00:00:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-03T00:00:48.618-07:00</updated><title type='text'>How to Easily Cure Any Addiction Or Phobia With Self Help Hypnosis and Mind Control Techniques</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Self Help Hypnosis can be used to very effectively help you with a number of problems that you are experiencing in your daily life. By using mind control techniques and self hypnosis audio you will be able to alleviate phobias, addictions or any kind of social problems you may be experiencing. The process of self hypnosis has many kinds of advantages.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Its an effective way to plants ideas and suggestions into your subconscious mind that will have a great influence over the actions in your daily life. You will be able to re-train your mind to steer away from negative behaviors. Just think about all you could achieve by using these effective mind control techniques.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Self hypnosis can help you with:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Curing phobias such as fear of heights, fear of the dentist, social phobias or any other situation where you feel vulnerable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Easier to overcome addictions such as smoking, or help you to lose weight or any other things you need help with to stop doing, but where your mind powers are lacking.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Hypnotize yourself and get those hours of sleep you desperately need. Your Insomnia problems will be a thing of the past.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Learn how to train your mind to relieve stress, tension, worry or anything that is painful in your life&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So as you can see there is many benefits of using Self Help Hypnosis. These mind control techniques will be bring an enormous positive experience to your daily life. Using self hypnosis audio you can achieve the results you seek while resting comfortably in your sofa.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If You want to find a Solution to your problem Right Now, all you need to do is Click &lt;a target="_new" href="http://onlinehypnosishelp.com/do-hypnosis-cds-really-work/"&gt;HERE&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit This &lt;a target="_new" href="http://onlinehypnosishelp.com/do-hypnosis-cds-really-work/"&gt;Online Hypnosis Site&lt;/a&gt; that offers a ton a resources on anything hypnosis related. Dont wait for the solution to your problems when you can get the answers right now!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-8705630311434346605?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/8705630311434346605/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=8705630311434346605' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8705630311434346605'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8705630311434346605'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/how-to-easily-cure-any-addiction-or.html' title='How to Easily Cure Any Addiction Or Phobia With Self Help Hypnosis and Mind Control Techniques'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-4567436390679051270</id><published>2009-09-02T23:07:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-02T23:07:25.862-07:00</updated><title type='text'>What Does a GFI Do? - Electrical Problems</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;In your bathroom you should have a GFI electrical outlet. Most new homes or newly remodeled homes require you to have GFI electrical outlets in the kitchen. Most older kitchens do not have GFI electrical outlets. GFI stands for ground fault circuit interrupter.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Why not call it a GFCI instead of a GFI electrical outlet? Well it is called a GFCI in some instances. GFI is short and is the most common name used by most electricians and builders for this type of outlet.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;GFI 's come in 15 amp and 20 amperage outlets. GFI outlets must be wired properly. Make sure you're using the proper wire size when hooking up the GFI outlet.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;How do I know which size wire to use? This all depends on how far away you are running it from the electrical panel. There are charts you can use to figure this out. If you are not running the electrical wire more than 80 feet from the electrical panel you can use 12 gauge electrical wires for a 20 amp GFI. This is a general rule of thumb for most electrical house wiring.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you're going to be using a 15 amp GFI and you are going to be less than 80 feet away from the electrical panel you can use 14 gauge electrical wires. Again this is just a general rule of thumb for most electrical house wiring.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A GFI is a light duty electrical plug used in bathrooms, kitchens and the exterior of your house. The sole purpose of the GFI is to shut the breaker off faster if there is any moisture or light load problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Let's say for instance you have your hair dryer plugged into the GFI outlet. The hair dryer somehow falls into the sink while it is on or plugged in. The GFI outlet will instantly shut off because of the sensitivity of the breaker inside of the plug it self.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The GFI plug has a test button and a reset button on it. If you are continually resetting the GFI you will wear it out eventually. I have had GFI plugs after resetting the button about 10 times break and no longer able to use them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The GFI electrical plug is a great idea and if you don't have them in your bathroom or outside of your home it would be a great idea to have an electrician install them for you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He is currently working on more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/library.htm"&gt;Home Building Library&lt;/a&gt; and adding useful content to help solve problems created by the lack of construction knowledge in the building industry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/termite_damage.htm"&gt;San Diego Termite Damage&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/another_crappy_rule_in_the_bible.htm&gt;Another Crappy Rule In The Bible&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-4567436390679051270?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/4567436390679051270/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=4567436390679051270' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4567436390679051270'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4567436390679051270'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/what-does-gfi-do-electrical-problems.html' title='What Does a GFI Do? - Electrical Problems'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-7886006244337045934</id><published>2009-09-02T16:41:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-02T16:41:46.761-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Increase Your Self Esteem This Year!</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Self esteem is vitally important and directly contributes to the results that we see in our lives. When you take a look at people who are thriving in the world, you can see that their self esteem is at a very healthy and beneficial level. When you take a look at people who are experiencing a great deal of pain and loss, you can see that their self esteem has taken a very severe blow.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;HOW CAN YOU IMPROVE YOUR SELF ESTEEM THIS YEAR?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;First, you have to be able to really believe in yourself. And this can be quite tricky for many people. But, it is absolutely necessary. Believing in yourself is the cornerstone to improving your self esteem. And you can do this by starting out small. List a few things that have made you proud about yourself or things that you have accomplished that you can honestly describe as a success.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Everyone has at least a few things that they can be proud of. Next, create a hunger in yourself to make the change something that you really want. Realize just how much better your life will be if you allow yourself the gift of having a high level of self esteem. Realize that your relationships will improve and that you can begin to achieve what you want if you really feel good about yourself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Increase your self esteem this year by allowing yourself to believe that you can and that you will. Give yourself the gift of feeling good about yourself and watch your life transform!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Learn how to attract love, money, or happiness or all three in YOUR LIFE NOW! Go to &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.successfulfather.com"&gt;http://www.successfulfather.com&lt;/a&gt; and SIGN up for the FREE newsletter and BOOKMARK the site and return as often as you can!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can attract the life that you truly desire! All you have to do is learn HOW!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.successfulfather.com"&gt;Law of Attraction Secrets&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bryan Appleton is an investor/entrepreneur who has dedicated himself to teaching others how to achieve their dream life. He is also a proud single father with one son.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can publish this article as long as you leave it intact and in full as well as keeping the URL link clickable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-7886006244337045934?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/7886006244337045934/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=7886006244337045934' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7886006244337045934'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7886006244337045934'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/increase-your-self-esteem-this-year.html' title='Increase Your Self Esteem This Year!'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-1342899069862257020</id><published>2009-09-02T15:37:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-02T15:37:23.987-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Cost Effective Stair Building</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;What is the most cost effective way of building stairs? Why do the tract homes use on site methods of construction? When you think of a factory assembling a product on a assembly line you think why not a home. Why do they still build homes on lots or residential home sites?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If homes could be built in a factory cheaper than on site that is exactly what every home builder would be doing. They just haven't quite figured it out yet. When dealing with the large amounts of materials required to build a house and of course the expense of shipping. It is not cost effective to build a conventional home in a factory and ship it over long distances.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is the biggest problem with cost effective stair construction. Most prefabricated stairs you will notice are spiral stairs. These stairs are smaller than most stairs that are used for multi level construction.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Spiral stairs are hard for your average carpenter to build. These stairs can be purchased from a factory easily and quite inexpensive.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The stairs in your average two story house are going to weigh about 3 times the amount of a spiral set of stairs that could be shipped in a cost effective way. Spiral stairs are not going to be the main stairway in a home and normally go up to a loft or an attic. Most spiral stairs don't meet the minimum building requirements for the main stairway in your home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When building tract homes the lumber is shipped in bulk directly to the house site where it will be assembled. The lumber and other building materials will be shipped once. If it went to a factory and then assembled it would also have to be sent to the site on which the house was to be built. This added expense in shipping the materials twice is the problem for such a large and heavy item such as a set of stairs.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are other prefabricated types of stairs that are built locally and the shipping usually is not a major expense. If you are building a stairway that is not to difficult to build for the average carpenter it will normally be cost effective to build the stairs on site. This would require having the carpenter build the stairs as part of the rough framing and then after drywall have the finish carpenter build the stair handrail system.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit us now for easy &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/"&gt;Home Constuction Help&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He is currently working on more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://stairs4u.com/eimage/howtobuildstraightstairs.htm"&gt;building stairs books&lt;/a&gt; and adding useful content to help solve problems created by the lack of construction knowledge in the building industry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/was_jesus_a_good_example.htm&gt;Was Jesus A Good Example&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-1342899069862257020?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/1342899069862257020/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=1342899069862257020' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1342899069862257020'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1342899069862257020'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/cost-effective-stair-building.html' title='Cost Effective Stair Building'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-2264059439044361262</id><published>2009-09-02T09:21:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-02T09:21:16.734-07:00</updated><title type='text'>5 Books to Read on the Quest For a Better Life</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;When I was thinking about writing on this subject, I thought about how subjective this actually is. Anyone who is on the quest for a better life most likely has their bookshelves overflowing with "self-help" or "personal growth" books. And if you're just beginning the journey on your quest for a better life, then you may be looking for someone to help you find the best books out of the thousands that shout down at you from the bookshelves in the personal growth section of your local bookstore.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You may also have gotten recommendations from friends and associates claiming, &lt;i&gt;"You've got to read this book. It's changed my life!"&lt;/i&gt;So either you said, "I'm so happy for you," and ignored their request, or you ran to the bookstore or Amazon.com, bought the book, only to leave it languishing on your already full bookshelf. Or you read it and said, "What's the big deal? I don't get it."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Therefore, choosing a reading list for you is a difficult task. The books we read are a very personal choice. We listen to recommendations, yet, what affects others may not affect us in the same way. Additionally, your quest might be to improve your physical well-being, your wealth, your relationships, your business, or your mental or emotional health. Whatever your focus is on, will ultimately determine the books that will have the greatest impact on you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;That said, the ones I have chosen are classics, so millions of people have endorsed them. Still that doesn't mean they will change your life, but they may have some impact on you, at least to get you thinking and reading, and maybe lead you to other books that will support your quest for a better life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;So here is my list. With these 5 books, you can't go wrong. They may become some of your top favorites as well.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;You Can Heal Your Life&lt;/u&gt;, Louise Hay&lt;/b&gt; &lt;br&gt;Written in 1984, this book on using your thoughts and feelings to affect your health not only is a classic in its genre, but launched the powerful Hay House empire that's published millions of life-changing books. Originally printed as a small booklet, Hay created a list of physical maladies, their probable psychological cause, and a new thought pattern to shift it. For example, most pain in the feet has to do with obstacles in mobility and direction. The new thought is "I move forward easily in life." These thoughts also launched the explosion of the use of affirmations to shift thoughts. The expanded version goes deeper into why we think what we do and how we can heal all areas of our life by changing our thoughts.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Think and Grow Rich&lt;/u&gt;, Napoleon Hill&lt;/b&gt; &lt;br&gt;Few people in the personal growth movement, or even in business for that matter, have not read Hill's 1937 classic on the use of the mind to improve our financial state. Just the term "think and grow rich" has spawned numerous clones like write and grow rich, speak and grow rich, and meet and grow rich. Hill spent a lifetime researching millionaires and distilled his findings into philosophies and formulas that led the great men he studied to success. He encourages readers that they too can reach the same levels of achievement through the power of thought.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;The Power of Intention&lt;/u&gt;, Dr. Wayne Dyer&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;This book may not be on everyone's list of classics in the personal growth field, but Dyer is one of the most prolific authors in this field. His PBS appearances have vaulted him into an almost cult status. His authenticity captures his audiences wherever he appears and jumps off the pages of his many books. I like this book because it takes goal setting to another level. Dyer's definition of intention is: "intention is a force in the universe and everything and everyone is connected to this invisible force." From that place he guides people to allow their dreams to come to them rather that go after them with drive and hard work.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People&lt;/u&gt;, Stephen Covey&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Another classic, published in 1989, this book put Covey on the map as a powerful leader in personal change and effectiveness. His groundbreaking book launched memorable buzz words and phrases like "begin with the end in mind," "think win/win," and "seek first to understand, then to be understood." You can't be anything but more effective if you follow the sound, practical guidelines Covey presents.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;The Aladdin Factor&lt;/u&gt;, Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Six years before their Chicken Soup fame, Canfield and Hansen collaborated on this brilliant, yet simple book on how to ask for anything. They teach the reader how to ask, who to ask, and what to ask for. They show you how to ask at home, ask at school, ask at work, ask at the world, ask yourself, and ask a higher power. That about covers it. If you know how to ask, who to ask, and what to ask for in your life, there's virtually nothing you can't have or do. It's a very powerful book you must add to your collection.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;All of these books are available at your local library or at &lt;u&gt;www.Amazon.com&lt;/u&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Lifestyle Mentor, Personal Coach, Author, Educator, and Entrepreneur, David B. Bohl is the creator of Slow Down FAST. To learn more about this step-by-step strategy for Living YOUR Life YOUR way, and to sign up for his 9 FREE Tips for Finding Happiness in a Fast-Paced World, free teleseminars, free Special Report, free bi-monthly ezine and more, go to: &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.SlowDownFAST.com"&gt;http://www.SlowDownFAST.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-2264059439044361262?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/2264059439044361262/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=2264059439044361262' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2264059439044361262'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2264059439044361262'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/5-books-to-read-on-quest-for-better.html' title='5 Books to Read on the Quest For a Better Life'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-6096756233187574726</id><published>2009-09-02T08:16:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-02T08:16:24.933-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Home Improvement Tip - Fixing a Squeaky Floor</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Question: I have a floor that every single time I step on it I get the most annoying sound. I don't know what it does to me or why it bothers me so much. My kitchen floor squeaks and actually moves up and down if you are standing on it. The whole floor moves. How do I stop it from moving and squeaking. Help Me Greg!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Answer: It sounds like you have a broken floor joist. You are going to have to go under your house. If you have a basement this will be a little easier to fix. It is my guess that you don't have a basement or you would have seen the broken floor joist by now.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Have someone stand on the floor in the spot that squeaks and have them move up and down while you are under the house. Don't have them jump up and down while you are under the house. This could cause more damage to the structural framing of the floor. Once you are in the right position under the floor you can have them start moving slowly. What you are looking for is one of the floor joist that are moving.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you see one of them moving. Look to see where the damage is. Is it a split, crack, wood rot or a big knot in the wood that has loosened up and fell out. Once you find the damaged floor joist you can now think about repairing it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you don't see any floor joist moving. Have the person on top start moving a little bit more and you can even have them jump on it a few times until you see something out of place. If you still don't see any broken floor joist. Start looking at the sub-floor, this will be plywood of some form, 1 x 6 or 2 x 6 materials.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What you are looking for is movement of any kind. Is there a separation or movement between the sub-floor and the floor joist. If you still can't find the problem maybe it is time to call in a professional.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The main thing you are going to be looking for is movement of any kind.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most squeaky floors are caused from the sub-floor rubbing up and down on a nail. If you have carpeting and you have a squeaky floor you can do your best to locate a floor joist and screw right through your carpeting into the floor joist.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For more help on fixing squeaky floors visit http://gregvan.com/wood_repair.htm&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thanks for the great question. I hope it helps.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/"&gt;Greg Vanden Berge&lt;/a&gt; has been in the home building and remodeling business for over 30 years. With this knowledge he has created a few websites that provide useful information for home owners as well as contractors. His main goal is to educate professionals in the home related businesses, dealing with problems that can easily be avoided with just a little bit of information.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;His website &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com"&gt;http://gregvan.com&lt;/a&gt; provides all kinds of answers to remodeling and new house building issues that could create major damage as well as possible damage to your pocket book.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit us now for &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/"&gt;Home Improvement Tips&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/are_christians_really_interested.htm&gt;Are Christians Really Interested&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-6096756233187574726?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/6096756233187574726/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=6096756233187574726' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6096756233187574726'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6096756233187574726'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/home-improvement-tip-fixing-squeaky.html' title='Home Improvement Tip - Fixing a Squeaky Floor'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-3409109289516818457</id><published>2009-09-02T01:40:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-02T01:40:07.106-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Change, Happiness, Success And Our Core Values</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;The saying that "change is the only constant thing in this world" holds profound meaning in every sense of the word. Backed by this universal truth is also the dictum that there is no such thing as 'forever'. However, amidst all these acclaimed universal truths, there are things in this world that stay eternal: One of them our set of core values the fundamentals that enable us to find happiness and success in our lives.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In his # 1 National Bestseller book that sold over 10 million copies, author Stephen R. Covey's The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (1990 ed.) illustrates his own personal experience on change. As a parent, he claims that to change a situation, we first have to change ourselves, and to change ourselves effectively, we first have to change our perceptions. However, Dr. Phil argues that it's more complicated than that. Illustrated in his book Life Strategies - Stop Making Excuses! Do What Works, Do What Matters (1999 ed.), he firmly wants to instill in our minds the glaring truth about change that we can not change what we do not acknowledge. In similar fashion, I totally agree on his argument. It's like saying that the hardest thing to open in this world is a closed mind - therefore making change difficult to occur.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are some people who have a mindset to make some changes in their lives and choose to be happy. Even the great Chinese philosopher Confucius would agree in his belief that "man must be wise and unafraid to live a happy life" - a philosophy similarly shared by his contemporary, Mencius where he enumerates three mature virtues of his 'great man' as wisdom, compassion and courage deliberated in Lin Yutang's book, The Importance of Living (1962 ed.) a must-to-read book for daily living.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Likewise, Stephen R. Covey focuses the "Character Ethic" as the foundation of success things like integrity, humility, fidelity, temperance, courage, justice, patience, industry, simplicity, modesty and the Golden Rule.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In his book, he presented Benjamin Franklin's autobiography as the epitome of these values "a man's effort to integrate certain principles and habits deep within his nature", he explained. The Character Ethic, according to Covey teaches us that there are basic principles of effective living, and that people can only experience true success and enduring happiness as they learn and integrate these principles into their basic character.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In addition, Anthony Scire's dynamic and contemporary book The Power of 2 (2003 ed.) promotes building solid relationships over the long term and encouraging us to be "nice, kind and good" to everyone we know and meet. This highlights Henry James's core value of kindness:"Three things in human life are important", he said. "The first is to be kind. The second is to be kind. And the third is to be kind." In the same book, then eminent Bishop Fulton J. Sheen admonished us to also take control of our emotions so that we may live a successful and happy life. He said: "Each of us makes his own weather determines the color of the skies in the emotional universe which he inhabits."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Change therefore is inevitable in our lives. If - and when it comes, our core values should help us adapt to the consequences of change. Hence, as exemplified by great and wise men of past and present generations, our happiness and success depend upon our core values and attitudes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Letty R. Vendramini&lt;br&gt; &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.7PowerWords.com/"&gt;http://www.7PowerWords.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Your Voyage To Happiness Begins Here. Learn how you can find real happiness in your life and how to live it to the full. Abandon unhappiness and achieve true lasting happiness. Discover the "real you" and unleash the joy within.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.BestSecretsToHappiness.com/"&gt;http://www.BestSecretsToHappiness.com/&lt;/a&gt; and receive Your FREE Happiness Report Worth $47 On How You Can Find True Lasting Happiness In Your Life. Click now to download. Alternatively Letty regularly writes articles on How To Sustain True, Lasting Happiness available to view at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.BestSecretsToHappiness.com/blog/"&gt;http://www.BestSecretsToHappiness.com/blog/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Letty R. Stevens Vendramini acquired two degrees in Bachelor of Philosophy (Ph.B) Minor in English and Bachelor of Social Work (BSocWk). Letty teaches subjects in Philosophy, Psychology, Public Speaking, Argumentation and Debate, English Grammar and Composition, Research and Thesis Writing and Business Ethics. Letty is a part-time Private Practitioner in Social Work-Counseling. She is also a writer, a newspaper columnist/correspondent and an editor.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-3409109289516818457?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/3409109289516818457/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=3409109289516818457' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3409109289516818457'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3409109289516818457'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/change-happiness-success-and-our-core.html' title='Change, Happiness, Success And Our Core Values'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-4690521771627642291</id><published>2009-09-02T00:57:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-02T00:57:43.405-07:00</updated><title type='text'>New Home Buyers Beware</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Ican't believe how many homebuyers purchase a house, with very little information and a Lotta hope. I'm a general contractor and often work on these homes, after they have been purchased and a homeowner has their money, the real estate professional is no longer involved in the transaction and the new homeowner is starting to experience the pitfalls from buying the home, that they sincerely believe was in good condition.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It's usually somebody like me that gets involved with the new homeowners after everyone else is out of the picture and chooses not to return their phone calls or explains to them quite simply, it's not our responsibility, you're the new homeowner and we really feel sorry for you, please call us again if we can help you with anything.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You couldn't even help me with that, why would I want to call you again if I had a problem. I never could understand this thinking but have ran into it often. It sounds like an oxymoron when someone refuses to help you but offers you help in the future. What ever!!!.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If homebuyers had something else to rely on besides their real estate salesperson, home inspection service, mortgage or insurance professional, I believe they can eliminate some of these problems. Where do you start and how do you get the information. You can gather information from reputable people, books, the Internet and so on.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The problem is how do you know these people are reputable and the books on the Internet have good information. This brings us to another problem, but I've got the solution that will help eliminate some of the grief. I'm not going to remove all of the grief from your life but have a suggestion for you that will eliminate some of the pain when buying a home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Arm yourself with a good &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/homebuyersguide/index.htm"&gt;home inspection checklist&lt;/a&gt;. You can search the Internet and they have quite a few good home inspection checklist to work with. These checklist can provide you with things you might not have thought of, and this is where you can eliminate some of the problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you took one of these checklists with you while you were shopping for a home, you would be aware of some of the problems with the home. You might not find all of the problems but these checklist will help you with some of the problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a Home Buyers Guide to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If your looking for some more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/"&gt;home inspection&lt;/a&gt; or home building ideas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/../religion_articles.htm&gt;Religion Articles&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-4690521771627642291?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/4690521771627642291/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=4690521771627642291' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4690521771627642291'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4690521771627642291'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/new-home-buyers-beware.html' title='New Home Buyers Beware'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-6170250002197156181</id><published>2009-09-01T18:05:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T18:05:35.306-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Myths About Hypnosis</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Hypnosis has been around for centuries, which is probably why a lot of people consider it a sort of magical method to control others. These hearsay or myths about hypnosis has aided in giving this method of healing a bad name. This and the unscrupulous people who use hypnotherapy to swindle and do bad things give hypnosis a bad name.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A Person's State during Hypnosis &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Many people believe that subjects who undergo hypnosis are either asleep or unconscious of what they are doing. Actually, the subjects are not asleep and they are also aware of what they do except that they feel uninhibited and more relaxed thus giving them the opportunity to express themselves and to be more open minded regarding the suggestions of the hypnotist. Some may forget what they have done while they have undergone hypnosis while others say that they were aware of it but did not feel any impropriety at that time.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The myth that people under hypnosis are unaware of their surrounding is not true. These subjects are just so focused on one thing that they do not mind the surroundings but they are peripherally aware of it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Susceptibility to Suggestions &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;People are afraid of hypnosis because they fear that they will be asked to do ridiculous things or even dangerous things. The myth that says you can not say no to a hypnotist is untrue. Although, the individual under hypnosis is uninhibited and very relaxed, any suggestions that may go against the subject's morals or principles can easily be rejected by him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In hypnotherapy, which is quite different from hypnosis for entertainment, experts will not suggest anything underhand or against any moral code. In cases, of medical treatments, there is no illusion of entertainment. People who go under hypnosis during live entertainment are more susceptible to unearthly suggestions because they are left with the impression that this is all fun and games. This is the reason why the suggestions to be silly or ridiculous may be acceptable to some.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Not everybody can be Hypnotized &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This myth about hypnosis is double sided because it depends on the definition of hypnotized. While not everybody can go under a hypnotist's effort to hypnotize, everybody has at some point in their lives, become hypnotized. Watching a riveting movie often lads us to a state that can be called hypnosis. We get so absorbed by the movie that we tune out our surroundings and get so involved in the movie that we cry for the protagonist and get so mad at the antagonist. This is just one example of self hypnosis that can occur to everybody.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Whereas, a hypnotist will have a difficult time hypnotizing someone who is reluctant to be hypnotized or has some unwillingness to take part in hypnosis. Eventually the hypnotist will overcome this situation but the cooperation f the individual is needed. You may have heard of some people being hypnotized by perfect strangers, these are little more than con artists who prey on the weaker minds which can be easily maneuvered just by conversing with them&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;You might get stuck in Hypnosis &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Many people fear being hypnotized because they are afraid they might be left in a hypnotic state. There has been no record of anybody ever being left in a hypnotic state for ever. In some cases, some individuals have succumbed to sleep while being hypnotized due to the very relaxed state they are in. Others may be unwilling to leave the relaxed state they have found and stretch out their hypnosis.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;These myths are some of the beliefs of some people regarding hypnosis. Due to these myths, many are afraid or unwilling to be hypnotized. Debunking the myths can help to bring light to many questions that we have regarding hypnosis.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Check out &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.VoiceHypnosis.com"&gt;http://www.VoiceHypnosis.com&lt;/a&gt; for more hypnosis information.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-6170250002197156181?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/6170250002197156181/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=6170250002197156181' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6170250002197156181'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6170250002197156181'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/myths-about-hypnosis.html' title='Myths About Hypnosis'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-5325406626658180161</id><published>2009-09-01T17:32:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T17:32:39.669-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Is Money a Big Part of Organized Religion?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Where do you think most modern day religious organizations would be without money? Is money really a big part of modern day organized religion or is that something in the past. Why do certain scriptures require their believers to donate a portion of their earnings?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Does this money improve the lives of religious believers? I'm asking these questions because most people won't. Most people don't even no where the money they earn is going. If you donate money to a religious organization and they choose to hire someone to install stained glass windows throughout the sanctuary, is this really going to help the congregation. Is this a want or a need?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When does a religious group become too powerful for its own good. Do you think the Catholic religion, which at the time of me writing this article, is the largest organized religion in the world, by itself, is very powerful or driven by finances. This organization has seeked wealth and power for centuries, creating an establishment that has its hands in everything all over the world.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Is it fair to have religious leaders living a life of luxury, while some of their followers suffer and go without food or shelter. Should some of this money go towards the aid of others who choose not to believe in the religious culture of their patrons?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Why do some people give money to their religious organization, even though they can barely survive. Are these people driven to contribute money because someone makes them feel guilty? Some of these people give money and time, even at the expense of their own family. It's just not fair, when I see people who are barely scraping by but give faithfully to an organization that promises them a better life after they die.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Your rewards for living a good life on Earth will be received after you die and are allowed to enter the kingdom of heaven. Does anyone have any proof of this? If you choose to base your life entirely on faith instead of seeking knowledge and wisdom, or even questioning your religious doctrine, you're not doing yourself any favors.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Money plays a big part in organized religion and honestly does a lot of good throughout the world. Christianity has had a large impact on the United States of America but only time will tell if it was a good thing or not.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you have extra money and desire to give it to a religious organization of your choice, feel free, but if you're giving 10% of the money you've earned and really can't afford to, I wish you would take the time to research what your church actually spends it's money on. If your church is building another church in Mexico but you don't have enough money for food, clothes or other necessities, I would suggest that you let other people donate their extra money instead.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It might not be mentioned anywhere in your religion, but I'm sure your God or the ultimate Almighty power of the universe you believe in, does not want anyone to suffer or go without, because your religious organization chooses to make you feel guilty if you do not contribute a certain amount of money, for whatever reasons they can possibly come up with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If everyone that believes in this interpretation has the keys to the kingdom of heaven, wouldn't Jesus be suggesting a life kind of like Mother Teresa but without any money. She wouldn't be allowed to ask any wealthy people for money, let alone use it if she acquired it somehow.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Have you ever ask yourself is there any &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/religion/hope_in_religion.htm"&gt;Hope in Religion&lt;/a&gt; .&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Would it be safe to a sound that by asking for money from a wealthy person would mean I would not be going to happen. Does it say anything in the Bible about using money from a wealthy person for great earthly deeds and you get to go to heaven but he does not. If this is starting to sound a little confusing, welcome to my world. There are very few people that follow organized religion, that even ask these questions, let alone seek the answers and find the truth and keeping an open mind to future information that possibly could change the old answer that they accepted as a truth but now realize, the possibility that the old information could be wrong.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you were a religious leader and could not answer some of the major questions that you yourself had, would you continue living a life of confusion or seek relentlessly to find the answers until you are satisfied. Knowing that if you were satisfied with the answers to your questions and now your religious beliefs have changed considerably, would you retire or quit working with the religious organization you were involved with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is one of the biggest obstacles for most people that seem to get comfortable in their religious environments. If the interpretations of a you Bible verses are incorrect and can be proven, either scientifically or through translation errors, does this mean that there are more verses in the Bible that could be incorrect or misleading.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is a published author, internet marketing expert, motivational inspiration to millions of people all over the world and is sharing some of his wisdom with experts in the fields of writing,marketing, and personal development.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg is currently working on a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/gregs_videos.htm"&gt;video library&lt;/a&gt; filled with great movies on a wide array of topics, like religion, self help and spiritual changes in the world. His views on religious freedom are slowly changing the way people think about institutional religion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/another_crappy_rule_in_the_bible.htm&gt;Another Crappy Rule In The Bible&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-5325406626658180161?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/5325406626658180161/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=5325406626658180161' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5325406626658180161'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5325406626658180161'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/is-money-big-part-of-organized-religion.html' title='Is Money a Big Part of Organized Religion?'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-6669560594965392039</id><published>2009-09-01T10:37:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T10:37:45.032-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Intelligence - Learning How Other People Think, Feel and Sense</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;By interpreting your dreams, you will understand how your psychic sphere works and how you can develop all your psychological functions and stay away from depression, craziness and suicidal thoughts. Moreover, you will also understand how other people think, feel and sense, what will help you avoid misunderstandings and other problems in your relationships.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;First of all, you will have clear information about the person you love, so that you may understand if this is really the ideal person for you and what you must do to have a peaceful and happy relationship.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;However, everybody is important in your life. You may never have cared about trying to understand the others, but this is a crucial matter.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In my ebook concerning craziness prevention through dream interpretation, I summarized the psychological types defined by Carl Jung in his book (2 volumes) "Psychological Types," because one cannot understand why one must develop the psychic sphere, what to learn in order to be balanced and why dream messages are so important, without knowing about the 8 existent psychological types and their defects.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is important not only for your own development but also to help predict other people's reactions to avoid fights, misunderstandings and manipulations against you. Of course, you shall not use this knowledge to manipulate others because you can predict their reaction. Your intentions in life must always be good if you want to avoid problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The comprehension of the psychic sphere function in each one will give you many answers for many questions you never expected to have because you'll understand the roots of the human behaviour.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The light of wisdom will eliminate your doubts and your complaints about other people's behaviour. You'll be able to trust your friends and partners without fear and avoid relationships with psychological types based on the opposite psychological functions of your psychological type. This will save you from unnecessary conflicts and help you distinguish people who are compatible with your character.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Prevent Depression and Craziness through the scientific method of Dream Interpretation discovered by Carl Jung and simplified by Christina Sponias, a writer who continued Jung's research in the unknown region of the human psychic sphere.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Learn more at: &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.scientificdreaminterpretation.com"&gt;http://www.scientificdreaminterpretation.com&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.booksirecommend.com"&gt;http://www.booksirecommend.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Click below to download your copy of the Free ebook&lt;br&gt; &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.booksirecommend.com/Books_I_Recommend.html#beating_depression"&gt;Beating Depression and Craziness&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-6669560594965392039?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/6669560594965392039/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=6669560594965392039' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6669560594965392039'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6669560594965392039'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/intelligence-learning-how-other-people.html' title='Intelligence - Learning How Other People Think, Feel and Sense'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-6091375167713392879</id><published>2009-09-01T10:01:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T10:01:40.677-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Dangers Using Wood Stair Cleats - New Stair Construction</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;I would imagine most people don't even know what it wood stair cleat is, in construction we have so many words that describe the same thing. A stair cleat is another word for a thread bracket. In other words it's the part of the stairway that connects the stair stringer to the stair step. These have been used for years and over time, most of them will develop the same problem.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most wood stair cleats loosened up and create a safety hazard. If the stairs are located outside in extreme weather conditions, for example, if it rains or snows a lot, extremely humid humid weather, or extremely hot and dry temperatures, your staircase might not last that long, if it is or isn't maintained properly. It's not a bad idea to use steel or concrete for stairways in these climates.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you're ever walking up a set of stairs with wood cleats and the stair steps feel a little loose or wiggly, make sure you examined the stair cleats for safety. It's not uncommon for someone to be walking up or down a set of wood stairs and having the stair step or tread giveaway because the wood cleats has loosened.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If the wood stair cleats are nailed to the stair stringer, the nails can loosen up, causing it to become loose, as you walk up and down the stairs applying pressure to the stair cleat, this will create movement in between the stair step and the stair stringer. This could cause the cleat to crack, break and separate the connection between the stair step in the stair stringer.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I would suggest using metal brackets instead of wood cleats. The metal brackets will not crack or disintegrate like some wood cleats. &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://stairs4u.com/stair_building_hardware.htm"&gt;Stair building brackets&lt;/a&gt; of course can loosen up and should be maintained regularly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you decide to use wood stair cleats, I would suggest using screws instead of nails and drilling holes in the wood stair cleats, most of the time this will prevent cracking the cleat. Try to use a thicker material for the stair cleat, for example using a 2 x 4 with lag screws and washers would be better than using a 1 x 4 with nails.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you're walking up a set of stairs and a stair step feels loose, contact the owner of the property and let them know, they have a problem with their staircase.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He is currently working on more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://stairs4u.com/stairbuildingbooks.htm"&gt;stair building books&lt;/a&gt; and adding useful content to help solve problems created by the lack of construction knowledge in the building industry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/does_god_make_mistakes.htm&gt;Does God Make Mistakes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-6091375167713392879?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/6091375167713392879/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=6091375167713392879' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6091375167713392879'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6091375167713392879'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/dangers-using-wood-stair-cleats-new.html' title='Dangers Using Wood Stair Cleats - New Stair Construction'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-6055389147596625472</id><published>2009-09-01T03:26:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T03:26:01.043-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Sir Franchise Bacon</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Bacon, in the sense that his thirst for knowledge is unquestionable. He was interested in every branch of knowledge. He was not only a mere essayist but also a pioneer of science. He was a man of towering and powerful observation and he used this gift for the study of man. He is clearly seen in his essays, sometimes as a teacher, sometimes as a philosopher, and moralist. For all these reasons I like him a lot.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Brief Account of the Author&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sir Franchise Bacon is acclaimed as the father of English Essays and the greatest prose- Wright of the Jachobean period. His essays are treasure house of worldly wisdom. They cover a very wide range and variety and they certainly provide abundant proof of the vast experience and worldly wisdom of man who wrote them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Describing Some Stories of Bacon in Short&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; OF MARRIAGE AND SINGLE LIFE&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; OF TRUTH&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; OF FRIENDSHIP&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; OF STUDIES&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; OF PARENTS AND CHILDREN&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; OF MARRIAGE AND SINGLE LIFE&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is a popular essay of Bacon. It deals with some of the most common experience of human life. Here Bacon takes a balanced view of the married and single life upon their merits and demerits of real life situation. Bacon says that unmarried man can sacrifice themselves for the cause of public affairs like equality and liberty of the country. Bacon expresses his wisdom with wit when he says that chaste women are often proud and forward as presuming upon in the merit of their chastity.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;OF FRIENDSHIP&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this essay Bacon says that friendship is treasure. If a man has a friend, he can help him in weal and woe. According to him, a true friend may be a partner of joys, sorrows and happiness and he can get consolation from his friend.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;OF TRUTH&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It this essay we find that he has shown the readers a loves of truth. He says that a man's mind should turn upon the poles of truth. Bacon tells about the creation of light reason, which is scientifically based on truth. He says that the first creation of God, in the works of the days, was the light of the sense, the last was the light of the reason and his Sabbath work, ever since, is the illustration of his spirit with life because it can play havoc with his fortune.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;OF STUDIES&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;He points out through generalization that we should study. If we spend much time for studies over theoretical aspects instead of applied aspects then we encouraged sloth. Over much study leads us to show our pedant city and boosting too much study make us or till badly upon us, he provides us with prescriptions as to how we should study. He says that some books are red in parts, some entirely, some curiously, some carefully and some summarily.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;OF PARENTS AND CHILDREN&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bacon says that during childhood and youth one may get much liberty and he urges parents to chexpose the vacation and coarse while their children, will be made otherwise they will take the shelter of nakedness. According to him there are two types of learning, one is Pedagogy which is Children learning what is rendered by the parents and his surroundings and the other is Andragoggy which is adult learning what is rendered in the form of guidance and control where nobody can teach the adult.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I Like His Books&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I like his essays not only because they are gripping plots, but also they bring the hidden truth of our practical life into the limelight.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Kh. Atiar Rahman is a distinguished author and a poet. He has many publication in national and international media.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-6055389147596625472?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/6055389147596625472/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=6055389147596625472' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6055389147596625472'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6055389147596625472'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/sir-franchise-bacon.html' title='Sir Franchise Bacon'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-3817723924692987871</id><published>2009-09-01T02:35:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-01T02:35:14.243-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Planning Your Bathroom Remodel Budget - Home Improvement Ideas</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;As a bathroom remodeling contractor, I get calls from people, that have no idea what they want or how much anything is going to cost. Here's some simple tips that can be very helpful when planning a bathroom remodel budget.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bathroom Remodeling Investment&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In 2008, the average mid-range bathroom cost around $16,000 and you could recoup around $12,000 of your original investment upon the sale of your home. According to a popular remodeling magazine, larger bathrooms using expensive fixtures, tile, bathtubs, woodworking, toilets and showers had an average of $52,000. Upon the sale of a home, you could recoup around $36,000 of your original investment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Finding out How Much Things Cost&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My first suggestion, would be to visit your local home improvement center, lumber yard or plumbing supply warehouse. Larger stores like Home Depot and Lowe's, seemed to provide you with value pricing but don't have a large selection. While doing some research on the Internet I noticed that some of their pricing is outrageously, outrageous. Some plumbing supply warehouses can provide value but beware others won't.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Create a List of Bathroom Remodeling Parts&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can get a good idea of your bathroom remodel costs for your budget by making a list of bathroom parts with pricing and then adding them up for a grand total. If you're a total bathroom remodel budget is $15,000 and you have a $6,000 bathtub with $4000 worth of tile, you could have a budget problem.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Figuring out the Labor&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You will have to contact a contractor to get an actual cost for the labor. Sometimes you can double the cost of your bathroom remodeling parts to get a rough idea. If you have a list or a couple of lists and a few pictures of some sample bathrooms, this will make the contractor's job easier and often they can give you a labor price within a few days.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Give Yourself a Cushion&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I would suggest leaving yourself a small financial cushion for any additional remodeling items. For example, you could see a different toilet, or instead of painting the walls, you now choose to wallpaper, you could incur additional expenses that you haven't planned for. If you know exactly what you want and stick to the original bathroom remodeling plan, you shouldn't need the cushion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Financial problems often transfer into construction problems, so spend some time figuring out, how much money you want to spend on the bathroom remodel and try not to go overboard on the budget. I hate to see homeowners struggling with home improvement loan payments. Try to create a bathroom remodeling budget that is realistic and will not create a financial burden upon you or your family.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/homebuyersguide/index.htm"&gt;home buyers guide&lt;/a&gt; to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If your looking for some more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/ideas/bathroom_ideas.htm"&gt;bathroom remodeling&lt;/a&gt; or home building ideas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/../religion_articles.htm&gt;Religion Articles&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-3817723924692987871?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/3817723924692987871/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=3817723924692987871' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3817723924692987871'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3817723924692987871'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/09/planning-your-bathroom-remodel-budget.html' title='Planning Your Bathroom Remodel Budget - Home Improvement Ideas'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-1978742832672702568</id><published>2009-08-31T19:57:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-31T19:57:38.320-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Drawback to Positive Thinking</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;There is a drawback to the general positive thinking syndrome promoted in the self help world. The effectiveness of simply forming and holding good thoughts does not work. This method may seem logical, but it is not practical, as you shall see. It may feel as if it is working for a short period of time, but only because you are, at first, operating off a contact high borne on the thinking that you can straighten out, or get things done by this highly suggested method. Your personal will power will only sustain itself but for so long. Sooner or later, the giant horde of negative prompters laden in the subconscious will overtake you and disintegrate your affirmations.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This popular method that is advocated by a myriad of books is generally misunderstood. Positive thinking, in and of itself, will not change you. It will hold at bay, or repress the negative parts of the acquired personality. Positive thinking shoves the negative into the subconscious mind and attempts to reconstruct conscious mind activity with positive thoughts.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Herein lies the drawback. The subconscious is many times more powerful than the conscious, or objective mind, and will reflect back to your world exactly what you think into it. But, if you are thinking certain positive thoughts as a process, and are not emotionally true to them, you're creating problems on down the road. This is because only ideas impressed on the subconscious with certain conviction will come about. Now, any negatives you are harboring, or holding at bay, are much stronger, more radioactive, and just waiting to rise to the top in a great many new areas. The negatives should be let go of, not suppressed, not forced below. Your true power source, or higher self, can more easily come into play when you let go.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Meditation is a most useful tool to utilize in the process of positive thinking. The quietude of meditation brings one into a closer proximity to your inner source of power. Meditation has the ability to regenerate your thinking process. This enables you to be more emotionally connected to a desire you wish to express in the form of a positive thought. Your attention to a thought, plus the emotional value you give to it is what determines the impression the thought form makes upon the subconscious mind.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Attention and feeling are more grounded in the meditative state, as opposed to being awash in the goings on of daily life. The only positive thought force of any real consequence dovetails down from the influence of a higher intelligent power within that formulates what it wants and gets it. So, sit still, be quiet, form an affinity toward the power source of your inner essence, and decree. The more you adjust to, and use this method, the higher the probability that your positive thought forms will come into play.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Harrison Ennis is considered to be a true renaissance man of the 21st century. A published author and freelance writer, as well as owning several design patents. A votary of shag dance. Serious researcher on the science of life for over a quarter century. A Kundalini adept. Lifelong involvement in physical culture; to include martial arts, yoga, traditional exercise, and various obscure modalities. Tracker of cutting edge health products and practices. Fitness / Wellness researcher and coach, esoteric educator, and life science counselor. Past general manager for one of the largest health and fitness club facilities in a major metropolitan area. Proffers his Yoga by Ennis - Yoga Life Science Regimen &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.yogabyennis.hleproductions.com"&gt;http://www.yogabyennis.hleproductions.com&lt;/a&gt; as a personal trainer for individuals and groups, and gives seminar sessions by request and special arrangement. His current products and services directory may be viewed at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.hleproductions.com"&gt;http://www.hleproductions.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-1978742832672702568?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/1978742832672702568/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=1978742832672702568' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1978742832672702568'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1978742832672702568'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/drawback-to-positive-thinking.html' title='The Drawback to Positive Thinking'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-718612597158350189</id><published>2009-08-31T19:00:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-31T19:00:05.499-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Removing Interior Walls</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Here's a word of advice for any contractor, Carpenter, handyman or homeowner that is planning to remove an interior wall from your home or someone else's. Beware of removing interior walls, to eliminate your fears of the house collapsing. Some of the interior walls inside of the house are important structural components of the building.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Some of these walls hold up floors, roofs and other loadbearing sections that could create safety problems within the structure of the house itself. This is an area where an expert with framing skills should be consulted. What is the definition of someone with excellent framing skills? Some one with at least 10 years as a master framing carpenter.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My home building experience consists of three decades for over 30 years of assembling some of the most difficult sections of a home. During these years I have seen damage done to houses from removing structural interior walls. Most of this damage could be repaired with a little structural engineering. Some of the damage could not be repaired and caused other damage to different sections of the house. The damage caused in some cases to the floor and the roof framing had to be completely rebuilt.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I'm not telling you about every single thing I have ran into but you would be surprised if I started to make a list of all the homeowners and professionals in the building industry or home selling and buying business that contacted me to remove a structural component of a building. There have even been a few of these people that told me everything was going to be okay just go ahead and remove the structural building component.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Needless to say I would leave these people very irritated but I'm sure they found someone to do the job. The bad news is I was normally the person they would hire to go back and repair the damaged building after these people were gone and out of business. There have been cases where people have removed an interior walls against my better judgment and over the years of driving by in these homes I personally got to witness the structural damage that was occurring on the outside of the house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have no idea what the inside of the house looked like but could only imagine. My advice again when removing interior walls is to hire an experienced contractor or at least get some advice from an experienced framing carpenter. This does not include your basic know it all that has basic construction experience like your father in law, parents, friends, golfing associates or people you work with that tell you not to worry about it, just do it, everything will work out just fine.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He is currently working on more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/library.htm"&gt; Building and Remodeling Library&lt;/a&gt; and adding useful content to help solve problems created by the lack of construction knowledge in the building industry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit us and get more information on building and remodeling your homes and &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/framing/what_does_a_shear_wall_do.htm"&gt;What Does A Shear Wall Do&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/should_the_bible_be_edited.htm&gt;Should The Bible Be Edited&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-718612597158350189?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/718612597158350189/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=718612597158350189' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/718612597158350189'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/718612597158350189'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/removing-interior-walls.html' title='Removing Interior Walls'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-6725718140492805767</id><published>2009-08-31T12:34:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-31T12:34:28.857-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Make Someone's Day!</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;When someone compliments me, it can make my day! I bet it's that way for you, too. Think back to a time when someone gave you a genuine compliment. Can you feel those warm fuzzies? But wait. Maybe you can't remember the last time you actually received a compliment. I've found there are people all around us who seem to have forgotten how to give compliments. Then again, maybe they never knew how in the first place. Sad, isn't it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Knowing how good a compliment makes me feel makes me eager to do the same for others. It's my goal to give a compliment to every person I meet, and in fact, I work very hard at this. I'm not telling you this to brag on myself, and I don't want you to think I'm some brown-noser who uses compliments to manipulate people into doing whatever I want. No way! Tat is not what giving a compliment is about. Compliments must be given sincerely, in a spirit of thoughtfulness and caring, from a true desire to make a positive difference in the lives of others. This doesn't come naturally, but with a little effort you can learn how. Start by observing others closely, waiting to catch them doing somethingor being someoneyou sincerely admire. Then, be willing to "expose" your observations to that person.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The best way to give a compliment is to be sure you always back it up with evidence. Here's an example: "You are so great with kids!" (Now most people would stop there, but you need to give some evidence.) "They are so well behaved whenever you are in charge. I think it's because they can tell how much you care about themand I loved the game you taught them to help them wait patiently in line. You are so creative and fun. no wonder kids love you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You'll be amazed at the results, when you make giving compliments a part of your daily life. So go aheadmake someone's day! Oh, and by the way, the best way to receive a compliment it to simply say, "Thank You!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;2003 Professional Development Systems All Rights Reserved&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Robert Prentice of Professional Developments Systems has spent the last twenty years bringing inspiration and motivation to business owners as well as their employees. For more information visit his website at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.mrattitudespeaks.com"&gt;http://www.mrattitudespeaks.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-6725718140492805767?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/6725718140492805767/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=6725718140492805767' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6725718140492805767'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6725718140492805767'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/make-someones-day.html' title='Make Someone&apos;s Day!'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-55267289705675244</id><published>2009-08-31T11:23:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-31T11:23:48.484-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Home Selling Tips - Best Real Estate Advice Ever</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;One of the most important things to remember when selling your home is to keep it as clean as possible. If you need help or don't have the time to organize your stuff, you can hire a home staging professional in your area. Ask your real estate professional for more information.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;1. Remove any clutter from the home and place it in storage. Do not store this stuff on the property if you don't have enough room. Storing clutter in closets or in your garage, will often make these areas look smaller. By removing clutter or even large pieces of furniture, the rooms will look larger.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;2. Disconnect yourself emotionally from your home. This is a big problem for people who have lived in their house for long periods of time. If you've raised a family here, the children could have emotional ties also to the home. Some home sellers are looking for someone special to buy their home, if you've got the time and money to wait, you can be selective but be careful, because the longer you wait, the market could go up or down.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;3. When your real estate professional is showing the house, it's always a good idea to leave the home until the potential homebuyers are gone. One example of this would be if you were in a bad mood or didn't have a good day and were a little upset at the world. Your mood could cause potential homebuyers to lose interest in the property. I've seen this more than once.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;4. Make sure everything is operating properly. This would include doors, door knobs, windows, kitchen appliances, garage door openers, cabinet drawers, bathroom fixtures, toilets, faucets, lights, switches, electrical outlets and anything else that moves, slides, turns or rotates that is part of the home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;5. The Interior and exterior walls of the home should be in good shape. Make sure there's no termite damage, wood rot, peeling paint, broken windows or holes in the walls.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;6. Make sure the flooring is in good shape. Some real estate professionals will suggest, replacing the carpeting with a neutral color. This method often works pretty good but I have seen plenty of homes that were re-carpeted and after the home was purchased the carpeting was replaced again, by the new owners. Just make sure the flooring is in good shape.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;7. Here's a trick that definitely works a little magic when selling a home. Leave some cookies or a nice fruit bowl on the dining room table. There is no need to leave a sign that says "Eat Me". It gives the home a warm feeling, almost like a country atmosphere.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;8. Even better than home selling tip number seven would be baking some cookies just before the perspective buyers arrive, it's not the cookies, it's the smell from the cookies that most people cannot resist.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;These are just a few home selling tips but the most important is to keep the inside and outside of the home clean.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/homebuyersguide/index.htm"&gt;home buyers guide&lt;/a&gt; to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Don't buyers sell a home without checking how the problems with &lt;a target="_new" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/poor_house_repairs.htm"&gt;poor home repairs&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/impact_of_christian_mentors.htm&gt;Impact Of Christian Mentors&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-55267289705675244?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/55267289705675244/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=55267289705675244' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/55267289705675244'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/55267289705675244'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/home-selling-tips-best-real-estate.html' title='Home Selling Tips - Best Real Estate Advice Ever'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-1438449875224256259</id><published>2009-08-31T05:01:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-31T05:01:49.040-07:00</updated><title type='text'>You Can Change!</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;People spend to much time dwelling on the thing that they can not change. Past mistakes, past relationships, events that went poorly, are the things we tend to focus on. We can not change the things that have happened and we have to realize that by making those mistakes we have learned to be different in the future. If we take all that energy we use on our past and put them into our future we could really become a healthier, self improved person.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When you lean towards a more positive direction you will feel better about yourself. Work on what you are inside and not just how you look on the outside. The more positive you become the more people will notice you. Remember that you have to feel good about yourself first.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you run into someone who is having a bad day or going through something bad in their lives, acknowledge them, listen, show you care. The best thing would be to do something nice, find any way to bring their spirits up a little. Often when we are around people that are down, we tend to join them and all of a sudden it has created a extremely negative atmosphere. If you find a way to bring their spirits up then you both become brighter, a positive response will bring positive results.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are many opportunities offered to us today to learn further or join organizations that can add to our life. If you dwell on the past where you were afraid or didn't do so well in the learning area you will never be able to enjoy and grow in future adventures. You may be passing up a opportunity that will make your life fulfilled.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Set goals for yourself and start taking steps to make them happen. This can happen by simply putting one foot in front of the other. Make sure your goals are really something you want and make them ones you know you can accomplish in time. Make your time count, make you count.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Learn &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.squidoo.com/Mentally-New-Me"&gt;More Today&lt;/a&gt; Visit &lt;a target="_new" href="http://mentallynewme.blogspot.com/"&gt;http://mentallynewme.blogspot.com/&lt;/a&gt; for more information on becoming a mentally new me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-1438449875224256259?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/1438449875224256259/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=1438449875224256259' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1438449875224256259'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1438449875224256259'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/you-can-change.html' title='You Can Change!'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-5380594220145885211</id><published>2009-08-31T04:00:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-31T04:00:58.772-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Finding Something You Don't Like About Yourself - Creating Habits</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Finding something you don't like about yourself is usually very easy for most people. Most of the time you don't even have to ask your family or friends because you have heard them complain about the same thing for years. How many times have you heard someone mention, I need to lose weight?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here's a list of things people don't like about themselves. If you're one of those people that has a hard time finding something wrong with yourself, you could always ask one of your friends for some suggestions. I'm sure they would like that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;1. The need to lose weight. This of course is one of the worst problems with Americans. Most people need to lose weight and let's not forget there are some people that need to gain weight.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;2. The need to stop gambling. As more Indian reservations are allowed to build gambling casinos and of course as the Internet gambling gets larger, I've noticed some people with gambling problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;3. The need to stop drinking alcohol. The abuse of alcohol has been going on for many years. These people have an excuse for why they drink and most of the time it doesn't make sense.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;4. The need to stop smoking. This could be one of the most difficult things I've ever seen my friends and family deal with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;5. The need to stop excessive behaviors. For example, gossiping, cruelty, bullying, lying, cheating, stealing, partying etc. You get the idea.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;6. Don't forget the dreaded shopaholic. Most shopaholic's seem to have large credit card debt and can't seem to stop this vicious circle of buying and owing money to their creditors.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;7. Working long hours or the workaholic. Sometimes this is a necessity but I would suggest that you change your lifestyle if possible. Reevaluate your reasons for working so hard.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;8. Religious fundamentalists. People that spend too much time at their place of worship and soon find themselves feeling guilty if they're not doing something spiritual.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;9. The need to be on time. This would include people that have problems giving themselves enough time to get ready for work or school.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;10. The need to stop doing drugs. I thought by now, approaching my 50s, that drugs would no longer be a problem in the United States, but it is. It's one of the most damaging things people can do to their lives.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are plenty of things that people would like to stop doing or start doing. If you're a smoker and you seem to shop excessively near the casinos, I would advise you to start with something small and work your way up to the big stuff.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What are you going to change today about your life? Make a list of things that you're not happy with about your life and &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.superhabits.com/"&gt;start making the changes today&lt;/a&gt; that you need to create the life you deserve and desire.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is a published author, internet marketing expert, motivational inspiration to millions of people all over the world and is sharing some of his wisdom with experts in the fields of writing,marketing, and personal development.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg is currently working on a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/gregs_videos.htm"&gt;personal development video library&lt;/a&gt; filled with great movies on a wide array of topics, like religion, self help and spiritual changes in the world. His views on religious freedom are slowly changing the way people think about institutional religion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/../personal_development.htm&gt;Personal Development&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-5380594220145885211?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/5380594220145885211/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=5380594220145885211' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5380594220145885211'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5380594220145885211'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/finding-something-you-dont-like-about.html' title='Finding Something You Don&apos;t Like About Yourself - Creating Habits'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-7517788701954631988</id><published>2009-08-30T21:34:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-30T21:34:51.129-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Basing Your Career on Your Passions Will Lead to Fulfillment</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;If your prime motivation is the bottom line then maybe it doesn't make any difference as long as you're making money and providing for you and your family a desirable lifestyle.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But, if you long for a job or career you can love and do with a passion then it may be a little more difficult.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;True, some people just fall into their lifelong passion with little or no trouble at all. Maybe they grew up in the family business, never knew anything else or cared to learn anything else and found contentment staying close to the nest. However, this is not the norm. Most of us seek to fly out of the comfortable nest and fly over the fence to see if the grass is greener.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It's never too early or too late to discover your passions and act on them but first determine what you're passionate about. When you understand your own passions (and this is not easy matter) a whole new world of possibilities opens up.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Step back and take a close look at where you are now and what brought you there. Perhaps, you're a plumber but long to travel. More than likely you'll make more money being a plumber, but if you're not happy each day and dread going to work, then the bottom line is not your motivating factor. See, you're learning about yourself already.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Look at your passions from all angles. In the case of travel, is it really the travel you love or is it exploring new lands and meeting new people. You could meet new people and make new friends in all kinds of endeavors.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Meeting lots of people as a plumber is usually limited. Maybe you enjoy making travel plans and scheduling cruises and flights which could lead to a travel or tour business. It's important to search your passions from different directions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What you think your passions are could be just admiration of others who do what you think you would like to do. Would you like to become a writer but hate to sit down to a computer and write?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do you admire a person who makes birdhouses for a living but you hate to be cooped up in a wood shop all day. Don't confuse your passion with admiration. And be prepared for the realization that doing what you love will not always put bread on the table.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can bet people who are working at whatever their passion spent long hours to get where they are today. But, if it's truly your passion, getting there will be a joy. Explore your passions whether they're a love of animals, gardening or photography and take these passions to the next step.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Learn all you can about your passion. Take a class or a course, volunteer or intern in the field you love. See where the path leads. It could lead you right back to where you were in the first place but you owe it to yourself to find out. Enjoy the journey.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Zara Jones is a life coach based in San Francisco and enjoys writing articles for many journals and websites. Check out this great guide to &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.jobinterviewtechniques.info/"&gt;Job Interview Techniques&lt;/a&gt; site which has a ton of great articles, guides and advice on improving you job interview chances.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.jobinterviewtechniques.info"&gt;http://www.jobinterviewtechniques.info&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-7517788701954631988?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/7517788701954631988/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=7517788701954631988' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7517788701954631988'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7517788701954631988'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/basing-your-career-on-your-passions.html' title='Basing Your Career on Your Passions Will Lead to Fulfillment'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-3299939033289935261</id><published>2009-08-30T20:38:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-30T20:38:09.444-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Slow Market Home Pricing Advice</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Homes are going to be sold in good markets and bad. When times are good, people often forget that bad times will be coming eventually. During good times, people often get caught up in the hype of the real estate boom. During tough times, houses will be sold eventually, or taken off the market and sold later. If you need to sell the home as soon as possible, for financial or other reasons, you will have to adjust your price with the current market and don't get greedy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is the hardest thing for most people to do, lower the price of their home in order to sell it in a slow real estate market. Don't get caught up in the value of your home, six months or even a year ago. Last year's prices are not going to be this year's prices and you need to get that through your thick skull. If the average homes in your neighborhood are selling for $250,000 and you have a swimming pool or done some upgrades, maybe a room addition. Your home is going to be worth more than the average selling price.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most real estate professionals will price your home according to the length of time you have to sell it. If you're in a hurry to sell, they don't have time to test the market. The price of your home would need to be competitive or lower than homes selling in the area. Whether homes are selling fast in a good market for selling slow in a bad market, if you have time, you can ask a little bit more for your home. If the market hasn't reached the bottom, waiting could actually hurt you, because the prices of the homes in the area would still be dropping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Listen to your real estate professionals advice when pricing your home. That's what you're hiring them for, they are in the real estate business. Your neighbors, relatives, friends and people you work with, will probably be guessing if you asked for their opinion on pricing your house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Your house is only worth what someone is willing to pay for it. Finding that person is the key to selling your home, finding that person as soon as possible could give you the illusion that you sold your home to cheap. Don't worry about it, your final objective is to sell the house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/homebuyersguide/index.htm"&gt;home buyers guide&lt;/a&gt; to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you really think your home is safe, check out these pictures about &lt;a target="_new" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/water_damage.htm"&gt;home water damage&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/questions_to_ask_your_pastor.htm&gt;Questions To Ask Your Pastor&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-3299939033289935261?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/3299939033289935261/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=3299939033289935261' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3299939033289935261'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3299939033289935261'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/slow-market-home-pricing-advice_30.html' title='Slow Market Home Pricing Advice'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-3333878742163835197</id><published>2009-08-30T14:14:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-30T14:14:29.439-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Motivation - Your Key To Success</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Motivation is just about the most important element for success in any work at home business. If you don't posses this key element with your business or your websites, then it's very unlikely that you will succeed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Granted, it is difficult to stay motivated at all times...and we all go through low valleys with our home businesses. But it's through these valleys that we grow and learn from our mistakes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;How do you stay motivated and focused?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are a number of things that you can do to accomplish this...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Marketing Ideas:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When promoting your business or website, always try and conjure up fresh marketing techniques/methods. If something hasn't been working for you, then move onto something new. The ideas are literally endless with marketing. And the most important thing...there are tons of free promotion out there for the taking. Remember, you don't have to pay for advertising in order for it to be effective. It could be...networking on message forums, exchanging links with other business owners/webmasters, article marketing, getting listed in directories, ezine ads, signature advertising, and others. But, that's a whole other article topic there. The idea is to always strive for fresh marketing ideas. Now, we can't neglect the tried and true "word of mouth." Quite effective, give it a try!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Purchase New Products For Your Business:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Now, we all know that in order for you to be a success with your business, you have to know your products and have a passion for them. You have to love the products you are selling! The better you know your products and love them, the more likely it will be that you will keep getting the sales. What better reason to purchase some of your favorite, featured, new products that are in stock? Show them off! If it's makeup, jewelry, or what have you...take them with you wherever you go. Show the new products off to your friends and family. Be enthusiastic about your products!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The same goes with a website. If you are not a home business representative for a company, but own a website...tweak your website to your liking. Make it something you love and can be proud of! If you love your website, then you will love showing it off and promoting it. If you find yourself getting bored with it or it has become outdated, change it...update it! Whether it be content, color, theme, whatever. Tweak it until you really love it. It's also a good idea to make your website as appealing as you can for your target audience.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Change Your Atmosphere:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Now this one may sound silly to some...but this has worked for me. If you have a particular room for an office, move the furniture around if feasible...If it is a very small room, then you won't have many options as to moving things around. But you can change colors or themes for your office. What colors or themes make you feel most creative? What colors or themes make you feel happy? What colors or themes make you feel most productive? It's something to think about. Purchase a new day/month/year planner. Perhaps a new calendar or a new writing notebook.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Exercise...Take A Break:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Exercise is great for both the mind and body! It's also a great way to clear the mind when you feel overworked or stressed out. When you find yourself not in motivation mode and are lacking in that much needed gusto...take a brisk walk to clear the mind. You may be surprised at what happens. Most of the time when I take a break from my time online, whether it be a walk, lunchbreak, or just watching some TV...I come back refreshed, and even sometimes, with some new ideas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Stay In Contact With Your Customers:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Always stay in touch with your customers. Call them up. Check to see if they are satisfied with the products they purchased. Are they enjoying the products? Offer some friendly advice. This could also lead into an additional sale for you...and that always creates more motivation! Try and get to know your customers and even establish a new friendship.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Network With Other Business Owners Or Webmasters:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you haven't already, join some home business or work at home message forums and get to know and network with others. Use your signature on these forums. This will not only get your business out there, but you will also find useful information on most of them. Make sure you always read the rules of the forum first though. Ask questions, offer advice on things you are knowledgeable about. Make friends and have fun.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Music:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you're a music lover, have some soft music playing while you are working. This isn't for everyone though. Some people prefer not to have music playing and want it quiet. It's all in what you like or prefer. And for some people, music can give that much needed extra push in getting started with the work day. Try it sometime. You might be pleasantly surprised.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The idea here is to do everything you can to remain focused, motivated, and even challenged for being the best you can be at moving forward with your business. Do some research and look up more motivation articles and tips. Motivation is the key to success.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Wishing everyone an abundance of both!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Article written by: Tammy Embrich&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Tammy is an Internet Marketer and is the Owner of: &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.onestopwebemployment.com"&gt;http://www.onestopwebemployment.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And Owner of: &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.real-wah-jobs.com"&gt;http://www.real-wah-jobs.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Tammy's two WAH websites focus on free telecommute job leads and more.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-3333878742163835197?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/3333878742163835197/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=3333878742163835197' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3333878742163835197'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3333878742163835197'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/motivation-your-key-to-success.html' title='Motivation - Your Key To Success'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-5438479584178667605</id><published>2009-08-30T13:01:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-30T13:01:58.906-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Moisture Against Gravity - Destroying Walls</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Well I'm going to start this article with a little information on a job I did once.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I had been repairing a rental house for one particular homeowner for about three years when all of a sudden I got a phone call from him telling me the rental house was destroyed and he had never seen nothing like this. He sounded so upset over the phone I told him I would meet with him immediately.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;On my way to the house I was trying to get an idea in my head what the house was going to actually look like. Since I have been repairing rental properties for over 20 years at this point of my career, nothing really shocked me. I had pretty much seen everything that could possibly be done to rental property by the tenants that lived there. There is a lot to be said about taking care of it as if it were your own.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;He was waiting for me at the front door and he looked thoroughly disgusted. As I approached him he was shaking his head and yelling at the same time can you believe these people, can you believe what they did to my house. I was expecting to see the front door ripped off and all the windows broken out of the house but this wasn't the case.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As he led me through the home and I could see the usual clothing on the floor, broken cabinets, a few holes in the walls and of course that awful smell of mold and mildew. All of this stuff was nothing new to me because I'm the guy they call to fix it when a renter moves out of the property.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As I entered one of the bedrooms I got my first glimpse of something I had never seen before but heard stories about and could not believe my eyes. Looking at the walls in the bedroom about 3 feet from the floor all the way around the room, the plaster was soft. It actually looks like someone shoved popcorn into the wall somehow.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The homeowner wasn't even looking at this because of the rest of the damage in the home. I started to explain to him I'd never seen nothing like this but I could guess it was water damage somehow since the plaster was soft. I could actually stick my finger into the wall, that's how soft the plaster was.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My first thought was to examine the carpeting a little closer to see if it was wet. Well it was damp but it wasn't as wet as I would've expected it to be with the amount of water in the walls. With a little more home inspecting I had found the culprit, it was a broken water bed. The water bed was now in the backyard looking innocent.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I couldn't believe a broken water bed could do this much damage so I looked around for broken or leaking water pipes and could not find any. The other bad news I had to inform the homeowner was that the water had damage the bathroom and closet walls also. These walls of course were on the other side of the bathroom walls that were damaged.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Well the point of this story is that water will actually wick its way up or worked its way up into a wall. I had to remove 4 feet of drywall all the way around the room. The plaster or drywall actually acts like a sponge pulling the water into the walls. Hard to imagine that gravity in this case seems to reverse. I would've never thought that water would've traveled so far up the walls creating that much damage.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;To repair the rental property I had to remove the damaged drywall, remove the carpeting, dry the wood framing out and put the whole thing back together.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I'm still amazed and will remember that project for as long as I live.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He is currently working on more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/library.htm"&gt;Building and Remodeling Library&lt;/a&gt; and adding useful content to help solve problems created by the lack of construction knowledge in the building industry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit us and get more information on &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/structural/water_damage.htm"&gt;House Water Damage&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/nothing_will_be_impossible.htm&gt;Nothing Will Be Impossible&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-5438479584178667605?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/5438479584178667605/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=5438479584178667605' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5438479584178667605'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5438479584178667605'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/moisture-against-gravity-destroying_30.html' title='Moisture Against Gravity - Destroying Walls'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-8602327045625488328</id><published>2009-08-30T06:56:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-30T06:56:19.632-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Non Physical Conscious Awareness</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Human Consciousness can be measured with an Electro-Encephalograph (EEG) machine. What we do not see is the non-physical aspects in the Aura of the person - the electromagnetic field of energy that surrounds the Human Body.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Human Aura is multi-dimensional; it is not just a shell-like field of energy which is like an egg around the body. It has different layers, which correspond to the different layers of the physical body: the Whole Body, Organs, Cells, Molecules, Atoms, Finer Particles, Light Body and Core Being or Vacuum.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As well as these layers we have the Energy Centres - Chakras - coming out like cones. As the colours of these cones merge with each other we see different colours of light being formed to give us a point in the Aura of each shade and hue.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can watch the Aura having different shades of points of light, acting like radio tuners receiving similar frequencies from our environment; the Human Body can tune into all frequencies at the same time and we can interpret these with our emotions and feelings.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When we smile we can feel the energy in our cheeks extending out from our body like angel's wings or like a magnetic field; this is created within the body, as would happen in a bar magnet. The field of energy which our physical body creates extends out into the non-physical Aura and beyond, like the force field surrounding a magnet.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Our body is sensing the astrological influences from the planets, as we exist in the Earth's Magnetic Field. All these different electromagnetic levels of energy and force have an influence on our consciousness and our thoughts, feelings, and emotions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We notice how we feel happier on a bright, sunny day than we do when dark storm clouds are over us.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We live in an invisible field of Electromagnetic Energy which covers the full spectrum: Gamma Rays, X-Rays, Ultraviolet, Visible Light, Infra-red, Radio Frequencies, etc. We are connected as One with this field of Energy and it is part of our Conscious Awareness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As well as this natural electromagnetic field from our solar system, we are also influenced by the electromagnetic smog of mobile phones, TV and radio and all the other methods of man-made communication using this underlying field of energy in which we live.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Human consciousness can use the underlying electromagnetic field to send messages telepathically, and to get premonitions and dj-vu insights.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Universe uses this field of Power and Force in an effortless way, to bring about synchronicities in our life; our vibration draws to us the things which are patterned in our being; something magical seeks us out and happens in our life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As more humans become aware of this non-physical electromagnetic field of energy, it grows stronger and the synchronicities happen more often. The accident rate is declining as everything acts as part of the whole and moves in a frictionless flow of life in Conscious Awareness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;By George E. Lockett SSHA, IIHHT -- HealerGeorge(C) Copyright 2007, All Rights Reserved. Tel: +44 (0)1286 882701 Visit HealerGeorges web site to experience the power of Distant Healing or listen to HealerGeorge Radio giving Questions and Answer advice mixed with Spiritual Music. You can also enjoy many free benefits on HealerGeorge, like listening to Free Guided Meditations. Why not order HealerGeorges Latest book entitled A Journey into The Self  The Multi-dimensional Nature of Being Human By George E Lockett. It is all available off the web site. &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.healergeorge.com"&gt;HealerGeorge Web Site and New Book&lt;/a&gt; Description: What is this book going to do for YOU? For those who are seeking a complete energetic makeover, as you read it you will feel a stirring and awakening in the depths of your heart. For those who have questions about Shifts in Consciousness, Energy Balancing, and Healing within the body, you will find clear answers.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-8602327045625488328?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/8602327045625488328/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=8602327045625488328' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8602327045625488328'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8602327045625488328'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/non-physical-conscious-awareness.html' title='Non Physical Conscious Awareness'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-6584056595950259614</id><published>2009-08-30T05:35:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-30T05:35:20.515-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Creating Your Electricity</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Creating your own electricity and generating your own power has always been one of my dreams. Having a self sufficient home, not only a house that takes care of itself by generating its own electricity through windmills or solar panels but the satisfaction knowing that no matter what happens to the electrical companies you will always have electricity at your home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What a wonderful feeling it would be to get a check back from the utility company instead of paying them every single month. I don't know about you but my utility bills are ridiculous and seemed to be going up in price constantly. I can't believe all the fees they have been charging for years to all of their customers. If you add all the fees for every person in the city or county this comes to a large, a very large number and it's getting worse not better.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Generating your own electricity with solar or wind power is definitely green thinking. This is going to be the wave of the future as fuel used to create electricity continues to rise in price. I really can't imagine what the price of electricity is going to be like in 10 years as the mass consumption continues to rise in developing countries.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We have got to start taking care of our own needs through solar or wind power. We have got to start creating our own electricity to become self reliant. The more self reliant we become as a nation the less dependent we will be on major corporations, especially large power conglomerates.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Creating our own electricity can also be used for electrical cars that can be purchased in the future. Think of the money you will say in fuel costs as the price of gasoline continues to increase as well as less pollution into our environment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is definitely the wave of the future and common sense tells us this. I suggest you read this article again if you haven't figured out some of the problems coming our way in the future.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Think green and together we can start saving the planet.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;While searching for new alternatives and trying to get some advice on creating your own electricity I came across a book you can purchase in digital format. This book seems to have quite a bit of information on creating your own electricity for a totally self sufficient home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This book has been created in digital format to reduce the consumption of trees and the waste involved in creating a regular book. What a wonderful idea for helping our environment in quite a few ways.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;While searching for new alternatives and trying to get some advice on creating your own electricity I came across a book you can purchase in digital format. This book seems to have quite a bit of information on creating your own electricity for a totally self sufficient home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This book has been created in digital format to reduce the consumption of trees and the waste involved in creating a regular book. What a wonderful idea for helping our environment in quite a few ways.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For more information visit &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.gregvan.com"&gt;http://www.gregvan.com&lt;/a&gt; and look for &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com"&gt;Get Earth4Energy&lt;/a&gt; Here Create your own electricity! Save 1000's with Earth4Energy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/../greg_vanden_berge_quotes.htm&gt;Greg Vanden Berge Quotes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-6584056595950259614?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/6584056595950259614/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=6584056595950259614' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6584056595950259614'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6584056595950259614'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/creating-your-electricity_30.html' title='Creating Your Electricity'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-1661154055932526347</id><published>2009-08-29T23:27:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-29T23:27:25.488-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Have You Read any Good Title Reports Lately?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;How long have you been selling real estate? Long enough to know that sales that appear simple are sometimes the most time-consuming, more difficult transactions to close?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sometimes the sellers know there's a problem, and you begin helping them solve it from the time you take the listing. (If you're especially good at it, you should advertise the fact, by the way.) Other times, you find problems that the sellers didn't know existed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I ran into my first such problem way back in the dark ages when I first began selling real estate. I had listed a small, remote parcel - way back in the forest at the end of a narrow, rutted, dusty road. It took half a day just to go there to show it. So, I was overjoyed when a buyer came along. It meant no more trips up there!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I wasn't overjoyed for long.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The sellers had purchased the property on a land contract from a corporation that had logged hundreds of acres and then split it up. They bought it on time, and when they made the last payment, they received the deed in the mail. And they put it in a file, or a drawer, or possibly between the pages of a book somewhere. No matter - they didn't have it any more. And they hadn't taken it to the Courthouse to be recorded.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;At first I thought this wouldn't be a problem. I'd simply call the Corporate Headquarters, they'd look it up and issue a new deed and we'd be done. But, that thought didn't last long. The corporation was dissolved.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;After many conferences with a most helpful title officer, I was able to learn the names of the former officers of the corporation. And through research, I was able to locate two of them. Thankfully, two signatures were all the title company required.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Our attorney prepared a quit claim deed, I mailed it to the first gentleman, and we waited. I called him a week or so later and he assured me that when he had time he'd go get it signed and notarized and would then forward it on to the other man. All told, it took about 6 weeks to get that document back and recorded so we could close.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Remember this was a small, remote, and cheap parcel. By the time I deducted gasoline I think I might have made minimum wage on that transaction. If not, I came close.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The last time was tougher than the first. This time it was a major bank who was involved - a major bank who had sold out to a different major bank.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Usually you can count on a mortgage lender to do their paperwork, but perhaps because of the sale, this one didn't. My clients had refinanced a loan about 3 years earlier and the lien from the original loan had never been removed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It took even longer to close that time, because finding the person who could sign off and proving to them that the loan had been paid was a major undertaking. I must have enlisted the aid of at least ten different people along the way. Thank goodness there are some people who will go out of their way to help.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Read your title report right away. If you're lucky, any problems you find can be solved in time for your scheduled closing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Marte Cliff is a Freelance Copywriter and former real estate broker who specializes in writing for real estate and related industries.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Her e-book, Getting Clients, is a resource for beginning real estate agents as well as seasoned agents who want to know how to make more money in less time. Read all about it at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.marte-cliff.com/career.html"&gt;http://www.marte-cliff.com/career.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Marte offers a weekly ezine for real estate professionals and others with an interest in marketing themselves or their property. Subscribe by sending a blank e-mail to &lt;a href="mailto:realestatehelp@getresponse.com"&gt;realestatehelp@getresponse.com&lt;/a&gt; and you'll immediately receive a copy of her real estate ad writing report.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Contact her at: &lt;a href="mailto:writer@marte-cliff.com"&gt;writer@marte-cliff.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-1661154055932526347?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/1661154055932526347/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=1661154055932526347' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1661154055932526347'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1661154055932526347'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/have-you-read-any-good-title-reports.html' title='Have You Read any Good Title Reports Lately?'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-1163647723967951080</id><published>2009-08-29T22:18:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-29T22:18:29.773-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Slow Market Home Pricing Advice</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Homes are going to be sold in good markets and bad. When times are good, people often forget that bad times will be coming eventually. During good times, people often get caught up in the hype of the real estate boom. During tough times, houses will be sold eventually, or taken off the market and sold later. If you need to sell the home as soon as possible, for financial or other reasons, you will have to adjust your price with the current market and don't get greedy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is the hardest thing for most people to do, lower the price of their home in order to sell it in a slow real estate market. Don't get caught up in the value of your home, six months or even a year ago. Last year's prices are not going to be this year's prices and you need to get that through your thick skull. If the average homes in your neighborhood are selling for $250,000 and you have a swimming pool or done some upgrades, maybe a room addition. Your home is going to be worth more than the average selling price.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most real estate professionals will price your home according to the length of time you have to sell it. If you're in a hurry to sell, they don't have time to test the market. The price of your home would need to be competitive or lower than homes selling in the area. Whether homes are selling fast in a good market for selling slow in a bad market, if you have time, you can ask a little bit more for your home. If the market hasn't reached the bottom, waiting could actually hurt you, because the prices of the homes in the area would still be dropping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Listen to your real estate professionals advice when pricing your home. That's what you're hiring them for, they are in the real estate business. Your neighbors, relatives, friends and people you work with, will probably be guessing if you asked for their opinion on pricing your house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Your house is only worth what someone is willing to pay for it. Finding that person is the key to selling your home, finding that person as soon as possible could give you the illusion that you sold your home to cheap. Don't worry about it, your final objective is to sell the house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/homebuyersguide/index.htm"&gt;home buyers guide&lt;/a&gt; to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you really think your home is safe, check out these pictures about &lt;a target="_new" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/water_damage.htm"&gt;home water damage&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/../personal_development.htm&gt;Personal Development&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-1163647723967951080?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/1163647723967951080/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=1163647723967951080' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1163647723967951080'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1163647723967951080'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/slow-market-home-pricing-advice.html' title='Slow Market Home Pricing Advice'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-8188970273357828802</id><published>2009-08-29T16:02:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-29T16:02:12.695-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Collaboration Creates Harmony</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Sometimes unwittingly you might engage in a power struggle, both at home or at work. These conflicts often stem from an unconscious desire to retain control of your circumstances or surroundings. However, your strong-willed and defensive approach to solving issues, may cause you to come up against a stronger resistance from perceived adversaries.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When you let go of your need to be in control and engage in a collaborative strategy that will help you work in tandem with others, rather than against, others you will notice that together you can create powerful solutions that allow you each to have your needs and desires fulfilled. You will feel your defensiveness disappear as you seek out a fair and balanced workable solution.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When you cease pushing against those with whom you are involved in struggles for dominance, the conflict dividing you from one another, eases, and you can begin working on an equitable solution to your differences. Hostility only engenders more hostility, blinding you to the cooperative and fair strategy you can use to diffuse aggression.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;By avoiding to provide any more resistance, you create a situation in which cooperative energy can flow. Once the blockages that existed between you have been eradicated through the channel of your openness, you can begin communicating with your adversaries. As you gain a new understanding of one another, you are each empowered to devise a universally beneficial resolution. You will gain the power to dispel conflict when you recognize that letting go is the ultimate antidote to anger and conflict.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, PhD, Life Coach, Hypnotherapist, Author, "101 Great Ways To Improve Your Life." Dr. Dorothy has the unique gift of connecting people with a broad range of profound principles that resonate in the deepest part of their being. She brings awareness to concepts not typically obvious to one's daily thoughts and feelings. &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.drdorothy.net"&gt;http://www.drdorothy.net&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-8188970273357828802?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/8188970273357828802/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=8188970273357828802' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8188970273357828802'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8188970273357828802'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/collaboration-creates-harmony.html' title='Collaboration Creates Harmony'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-4274313863637006845</id><published>2009-08-29T14:50:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-29T14:50:46.832-07:00</updated><title type='text'>New Home Buyers Beware</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Ican't believe how many homebuyers purchase a house, with very little information and a Lotta hope. I'm a general contractor and often work on these homes, after they have been purchased and a homeowner has their money, the real estate professional is no longer involved in the transaction and the new homeowner is starting to experience the pitfalls from buying the home, that they sincerely believe was in good condition.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It's usually somebody like me that gets involved with the new homeowners after everyone else is out of the picture and chooses not to return their phone calls or explains to them quite simply, it's not our responsibility, you're the new homeowner and we really feel sorry for you, please call us again if we can help you with anything.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You couldn't even help me with that, why would I want to call you again if I had a problem. I never could understand this thinking but have ran into it often. It sounds like an oxymoron when someone refuses to help you but offers you help in the future. What ever!!!.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If homebuyers had something else to rely on besides their real estate salesperson, home inspection service, mortgage or insurance professional, I believe they can eliminate some of these problems. Where do you start and how do you get the information. You can gather information from reputable people, books, the Internet and so on.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The problem is how do you know these people are reputable and the books on the Internet have good information. This brings us to another problem, but I've got the solution that will help eliminate some of the grief. I'm not going to remove all of the grief from your life but have a suggestion for you that will eliminate some of the pain when buying a home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Arm yourself with a good &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/homebuyersguide/index.htm"&gt;home inspection checklist&lt;/a&gt;. You can search the Internet and they have quite a few good home inspection checklist to work with. These checklist can provide you with things you might not have thought of, and this is where you can eliminate some of the problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you took one of these checklists with you while you were shopping for a home, you would be aware of some of the problems with the home. You might not find all of the problems but these checklist will help you with some of the problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a Home Buyers Guide to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If your looking for some more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/"&gt;home inspection&lt;/a&gt; or home building ideas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/../spiritual_dictionary.htm&gt;Spiritual Dictionary&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-4274313863637006845?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/4274313863637006845/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=4274313863637006845' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4274313863637006845'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4274313863637006845'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/new-home-buyers-beware.html' title='New Home Buyers Beware'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-2539174618919477147</id><published>2009-08-29T08:30:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-29T08:30:55.042-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Myths About Hypnosis</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Hypnosis has been around for centuries, which is probably why a lot of people consider it a sort of magical method to control others. These hearsay or myths about hypnosis has aided in giving this method of healing a bad name. This and the unscrupulous people who use hypnotherapy to swindle and do bad things give hypnosis a bad name.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A Person's State during Hypnosis &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Many people believe that subjects who undergo hypnosis are either asleep or unconscious of what they are doing. Actually, the subjects are not asleep and they are also aware of what they do except that they feel uninhibited and more relaxed thus giving them the opportunity to express themselves and to be more open minded regarding the suggestions of the hypnotist. Some may forget what they have done while they have undergone hypnosis while others say that they were aware of it but did not feel any impropriety at that time.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The myth that people under hypnosis are unaware of their surrounding is not true. These subjects are just so focused on one thing that they do not mind the surroundings but they are peripherally aware of it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Susceptibility to Suggestions &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;People are afraid of hypnosis because they fear that they will be asked to do ridiculous things or even dangerous things. The myth that says you can not say no to a hypnotist is untrue. Although, the individual under hypnosis is uninhibited and very relaxed, any suggestions that may go against the subject's morals or principles can easily be rejected by him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In hypnotherapy, which is quite different from hypnosis for entertainment, experts will not suggest anything underhand or against any moral code. In cases, of medical treatments, there is no illusion of entertainment. People who go under hypnosis during live entertainment are more susceptible to unearthly suggestions because they are left with the impression that this is all fun and games. This is the reason why the suggestions to be silly or ridiculous may be acceptable to some.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Not everybody can be Hypnotized &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This myth about hypnosis is double sided because it depends on the definition of hypnotized. While not everybody can go under a hypnotist's effort to hypnotize, everybody has at some point in their lives, become hypnotized. Watching a riveting movie often lads us to a state that can be called hypnosis. We get so absorbed by the movie that we tune out our surroundings and get so involved in the movie that we cry for the protagonist and get so mad at the antagonist. This is just one example of self hypnosis that can occur to everybody.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Whereas, a hypnotist will have a difficult time hypnotizing someone who is reluctant to be hypnotized or has some unwillingness to take part in hypnosis. Eventually the hypnotist will overcome this situation but the cooperation f the individual is needed. You may have heard of some people being hypnotized by perfect strangers, these are little more than con artists who prey on the weaker minds which can be easily maneuvered just by conversing with them&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;You might get stuck in Hypnosis &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Many people fear being hypnotized because they are afraid they might be left in a hypnotic state. There has been no record of anybody ever being left in a hypnotic state for ever. In some cases, some individuals have succumbed to sleep while being hypnotized due to the very relaxed state they are in. Others may be unwilling to leave the relaxed state they have found and stretch out their hypnosis.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;These myths are some of the beliefs of some people regarding hypnosis. Due to these myths, many are afraid or unwilling to be hypnotized. Debunking the myths can help to bring light to many questions that we have regarding hypnosis.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Check out &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.VoiceHypnosis.com"&gt;http://www.VoiceHypnosis.com&lt;/a&gt; for more hypnosis information.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-2539174618919477147?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/2539174618919477147/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=2539174618919477147' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2539174618919477147'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2539174618919477147'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/myths-about-hypnosis.html' title='Myths About Hypnosis'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-3335871269997553286</id><published>2009-08-29T07:39:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-29T07:39:09.125-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Moisture Against Gravity - Destroying Walls</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Well I'm going to start this article with a little information on a job I did once.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I had been repairing a rental house for one particular homeowner for about three years when all of a sudden I got a phone call from him telling me the rental house was destroyed and he had never seen nothing like this. He sounded so upset over the phone I told him I would meet with him immediately.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;On my way to the house I was trying to get an idea in my head what the house was going to actually look like. Since I have been repairing rental properties for over 20 years at this point of my career, nothing really shocked me. I had pretty much seen everything that could possibly be done to rental property by the tenants that lived there. There is a lot to be said about taking care of it as if it were your own.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;He was waiting for me at the front door and he looked thoroughly disgusted. As I approached him he was shaking his head and yelling at the same time can you believe these people, can you believe what they did to my house. I was expecting to see the front door ripped off and all the windows broken out of the house but this wasn't the case.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As he led me through the home and I could see the usual clothing on the floor, broken cabinets, a few holes in the walls and of course that awful smell of mold and mildew. All of this stuff was nothing new to me because I'm the guy they call to fix it when a renter moves out of the property.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As I entered one of the bedrooms I got my first glimpse of something I had never seen before but heard stories about and could not believe my eyes. Looking at the walls in the bedroom about 3 feet from the floor all the way around the room, the plaster was soft. It actually looks like someone shoved popcorn into the wall somehow.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The homeowner wasn't even looking at this because of the rest of the damage in the home. I started to explain to him I'd never seen nothing like this but I could guess it was water damage somehow since the plaster was soft. I could actually stick my finger into the wall, that's how soft the plaster was.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My first thought was to examine the carpeting a little closer to see if it was wet. Well it was damp but it wasn't as wet as I would've expected it to be with the amount of water in the walls. With a little more home inspecting I had found the culprit, it was a broken water bed. The water bed was now in the backyard looking innocent.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I couldn't believe a broken water bed could do this much damage so I looked around for broken or leaking water pipes and could not find any. The other bad news I had to inform the homeowner was that the water had damage the bathroom and closet walls also. These walls of course were on the other side of the bathroom walls that were damaged.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Well the point of this story is that water will actually wick its way up or worked its way up into a wall. I had to remove 4 feet of drywall all the way around the room. The plaster or drywall actually acts like a sponge pulling the water into the walls. Hard to imagine that gravity in this case seems to reverse. I would've never thought that water would've traveled so far up the walls creating that much damage.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;To repair the rental property I had to remove the damaged drywall, remove the carpeting, dry the wood framing out and put the whole thing back together.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I'm still amazed and will remember that project for as long as I live.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He is currently working on more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/library.htm"&gt;Building and Remodeling Library&lt;/a&gt; and adding useful content to help solve problems created by the lack of construction knowledge in the building industry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit us and get more information on &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/structural/water_damage.htm"&gt;House Water Damage&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/nothing_will_be_impossible.htm&gt;Nothing Will Be Impossible&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-3335871269997553286?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/3335871269997553286/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=3335871269997553286' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3335871269997553286'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3335871269997553286'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/moisture-against-gravity-destroying.html' title='Moisture Against Gravity - Destroying Walls'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-6088050654332589176</id><published>2009-08-29T01:04:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-29T01:04:10.920-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Reduce Workplace Stress</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;So you want to reduce workplace stress, increase your job satisfaction, achieve greater productivity and, maybe, get promoted. These are great goals and something that we should all be proud to support. But what if none of this is working for you? What are the answers and how do you relieve the stress and get the sort of job you want?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you are going to go to work, you should be happy. You will spend a lot of time at work, 2000 work hours per year for 40 years - 80,000 hours altogether. You do not want to join the 20 million American adults who have some form of mental disorder annually (includes depression, anxiety, phobias etc). you DO NOT want to be one of the 18.1 million adults who experience either dysthymia (mild, chronic depression) or a major depressive disorder. So what are some of the secrets for being happy and effective at work?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My number one solution is to know yourself. Being self-aware, understanding your skill set, knowing where you are good and where you are not so good all help you to fit in to the workplace culture and expectations. I have talked before about person-environment fit and I firmly believe that if people have a poor fit that they will be unhappy. Being unhappy for 40 hours a week leads to some nasty consequences - not only mood disorders but alcoholism, thrill seeking (perhaps through affairs, adrenaline charged outdoor activities), and de-stabilized relationships.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So coming to grips with yourself in the workplace in a realistic and not negative way is a very important part of how we deal with work or workplace stress. A half an hour ago I declared to my wife, after returning from work at the end of a long week, that while I am good at large scale conceptualization, creating research cultures, building strategic visions etc, when it gets down to supervising administrative staff to make sure that they have attended to all the necessary details and minutiae of my work place - I am definitely not very good. So I have to find a way to work around this so my colleagues and my supervisors do not suffer from my big picture view of the world.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I enjoy the research from Harvard and the work of people like Daniel Goleman. I am very supportive of the research that suggests that self-awareness and emotional intelligence are two of the major performance characteristics that predict successful outcomes. I generally look at five performance factors in an organization: productivity (not easy to measure in some organizations); punctuality (and time on task); absenteeism (sickies etc); presenteeism (at work but doing virtually nothing); and staff turnover. All of these variables impact job output and job satisfaction.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;People, especially leaders and managers who are low on self-awareness and emotional intelligence will not be successful in their workplace. They will add to work stress, not reduce it. The productivity of their organizational units will be lower. They will have higher absenteeism, presenteeism, turnover, and lower productivity. Those who work but do not supervise who are unaware and emotionally dull create upward problems just as effectively as managers create downwards problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What does it mean if one has a high or very high emotional intelligence (EI)? I will draw upon some material from an earlier article as it sums up nicely why self-awareness and emotional intelligence is important. If you have high levels of EI, you probably have a fairly positive self-esteem, you are probably very happy, you probably maintain good relationships and understand people quite well, you manage life's stressful events and challenges well and you are probably handling virtually all aspects of your life very comfortably.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So you want to improve your lot in organizational life? Start with yourself. Reduce your stress, lower the stress levels of your partners, and minimize workplace stress for your colleagues by sitting down and doing an audit of your personal and inter-personal style. Ask a good but frank and honest friend to give you advice. And, to reduce the stress issues that seem to surround you, work on a personal improvement plan as outlined by your friend.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Dr Jeff, a psychologist, writes about stress. In this article he provides additional insights into the concept of self-awareness and emotional intelligence in terms of their effect on workplace stress. People need to learn how to manage stress and they need help to relieve stress. Dr Bailey integrates sound research with extensive clinical knowledge from his therapy with his patients. He works hard to make his articles practical and helpful but all of his articles are based on sound research evidence. To find out more about how he helps people with stress relief and to learn effective ways to manage and reduce stress, visit his website &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.drjeffbailey.com/free_stress_book.html"&gt;http://www.drjeffbailey.com/free_stress_book.html&lt;/a&gt; to get a free book that will introduce you to effective stress management.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-6088050654332589176?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/6088050654332589176/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=6088050654332589176' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6088050654332589176'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6088050654332589176'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/reduce-workplace-stress.html' title='Reduce Workplace Stress'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-1685236572316108186</id><published>2009-08-29T00:13:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-29T00:13:33.182-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Success Starting in Your 40s</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;You're going to find it hard to believe, but very seldom does an individual peak with creativity until they reach the age of 40. The average individual usually makes the most money between the age of 40 and 60. This doesn't have anything to do with retirement. Most highly creative people keep producing until they die.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you're 55 years old and looking for a new career or can't seem to find a job in the profession you have worked at your whole life, don't be alarmed or fearful. Do you think you could start your own business? Is there something, you have always wanted to do but have put it off until retirement, or until you had enough time to do it?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Why wait, if you can't find a job in a business you never truly enjoyed, maybe you can find a new job doing something you love.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have worked in construction for 30 years and at 44 years old started to pursue a career in writing and plan to create award winning websites and best selling books, for the rest of my life. This doesn't mean, I won't work in construction ever again, but I will become a best selling author within the next 20 years.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most people don't take the time required to learn a new profession. If you're sincerely interested in another career, and you're 50 years old, there is plenty of people out there to give you hope and inspiration.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you would like some proof, here's a couple successful American businessman who succeeded after the age of 40. Henry Ford is probably one of the most popular and became extremely successful after the age of 40. Andrew Carnegie, an American industrialists who transformed the steel business and did not start reaping the rewards of his efforts until he was well past the age of 40.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I gathered this information from the book "&lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.spiritualbooks4u.com/napoleon_hill.htm"&gt;Think and Grow Rich&lt;/a&gt;" by Napoleon Hill. There is a section in the book where he talks about people after the age of 40 with phenomenal success. Anyone who's interested in gaining wealth through spirituality or finances should read this book.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I've often heard the statement, "People Often Over Estimate What They Can Do in a Year and Often Underestimate What They Can Do in a Decade." If you want to accomplish something after the age of 40, I would advise you to start with a plan and then put that plan and the action. Your plan could take five to 15 years to achieve or longer but think about the rewards, whether spiritual or financial.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/"&gt;Gregory Vanden Berge&lt;/a&gt; is working to promote personal development ideas and spiritual reform. He has started a web site for videos and articles based on current information about subject he is very familiar with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"Education has freed me, to pursue other ideas and release me from the bondage and fear of organized religion."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Gregory Vanden Berge&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/are_christians_really_interested.htm&gt;Are Christians Really Interested&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-1685236572316108186?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/1685236572316108186/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=1685236572316108186' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1685236572316108186'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1685236572316108186'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/success-starting-in-your-40s.html' title='Success Starting in Your 40s'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-5747618128207067812</id><published>2009-08-28T17:28:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-28T17:28:21.856-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Truth About Jealousy</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;This article will not take up too much of your time, but will be very helpful in your daily life. What you are going to read is important in regards to the very controlling and confusing issue that so many women are challenged with every day, for some every single minute of their day. In this particular part of the jealousy series, you will learn what jealousy feels like and just how serious and captivating an emotion it can be. The next article will talk more about dealing with jealousy and how one can actually get control of it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In the next few minutes you will learn what and how a woman feels when she is stuck in this very real and controlling jealous emotion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It has been proven that many women are not even able to identify this confusion of thoughts that they are suffering from. A very big part of healing and winning these battles of jealousy is in identifying your enemy. In this situation the enemy is the jealous emotion that results from a much deeper issue that may or may not be obvious to its victim. You will hear more about that in a bit.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Through research and in speaking with many women every day through the womensselfesteem.com, jealousy seems to be a very big issue that has them in such a downward spiral that they cannot find a way to get hold of it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;One of the main causes for this negative emotion, "jealousy" stems from a time in a persons life when an emotional wound is created, which severely attacks their safe world or in other words their feelings of inner securities. These insecurities will seriously affect a woman's self-esteem, which will in turn result in feelings of low self-worth, lack of a self-respect, and mistrust. These emotional wounds can be caused from several types of abuse or trauma such as, physical, psychological or an over-restrictive/dominated childhood. If a child is sexually abused, then that child's security is threatened through the fact that she trusted the abuser and almost always grows up feeling that they were at fault for the abuse. This also rings true in an adult life, especially if the victim truly trusts and sees her abuser as almost," God" like. When a child is psychologically abused, they usually live a life of demeaning name calling or belittling, again this does happen to adults in a trusting relationship. The over-restrictive or dominating upbringing begins at an early childhood and then follows through into adulthood. Each and every one of these abuses that you have just have just heard about are definite cuts that eventually turn into deep emotional wounds.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;These wounds will send a person into a prison, a prison of fear and weakness that they will carry throughout their lives if they do not learn to identify them and deal with them and strengthen their inner self. So many women search for answers to solve this scrambled up problem that they can feel inside of themselves, always coming up with a 0. They tend to look outside of themselves and that is the mistake that they are making. So many jealousy issues come from within.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The human brain is set up of two minds, which allows two ways of thinking, one being positive and one being negative. Unfortunately if a person is somehow mistreated or loses a trust as you have heard about earlier through my thoughts, at any time in their lives, it tends to weaken their ability to maintain a balance between the two. This is when they will fall prey to certain triggers that will ignite the fuse that leads to jealousy. You may be wondering what triggers are, they can be anything from a memory of your past, a smell, a persons laughter, a picture, another women, a feeling of being left alone, or even a look from a partner. There are many different types of triggers that will set off negative emotions. In this series of articles you will learn about relationship triggers and how they set off your jealous emotions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Negative relationship triggers are definite causes, which happen when a relationship fails due to mistrust issues caused by infidelities or pornography addictions by a present or past partner, and are left unresolved, which unfortunately will follow them into every relationship, if she does not stop and take hold of her issues.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Jealousy is not just a word that can be ignored or excused. It is a word to be feared because it is fear that creates this negative feeling. Have you ever noticed how jealousy changes your relationship from happy to devastate in just seconds? It will feel like something that you would not wish on your worst enemy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The negative emotions that are hidden behind this word jealousy will tear your trust apart letter by letter, and rearrange it until it spells deception, betrayal, even hate. Theses words will turn you into a paranoid living creature, hiding from reality. Reality is truly jealousy's enemy. It avoids its enemy as quickly as it replaces the positive thoughts that you once had in its place. It is strong enough to take control of your mind and direct it into thinking that someone you dearly trust and love has turned into another being, a being that is cheating on you, lusting for another, watching pornography behind your back, lying to you when you ask a direct question, twisting everything you say so that you come out looking like you are delirious and they will laugh at you when you cry out for help. It will tear your guts apart until you feel like you are going to vomit and it will make your head swirl with uncertainty. Jealousy can speed up your breathing quicker than a exercise machine, which in turn will send your heart racing into turmoil. It is a total body trauma. It can make your body break out into a sweat so fast that it will make rain look slow. If you have ever had even one minute of these threatening feelings, you know exactly what I am trying to explain here.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This negative emotion will make your mind fear abandonment, ones biggest fear in a relationship are to be replaced or abandoned. This fear alone is a very strong trigger of jealousy. This fear will imprison you and force you to suffocate or guard what's yours, until that person can no longer be a victim to your jealousy. It will drive you to feel a deep need to control another's thoughts and actions. To allow jealousy in your mind to the point of this kind of control, is to fall victim to an," attachment prison" or an addiction. In this attachment prison you are the weaker element of the partnership or relationship, your need to feel attached will ruin your sense of security and your self-esteem. A very good example of an attachment prison is when you fear with all of your senses to let your partner out of your site, not even to go to the corner store or to work for fear he may see someone that you would deem as a total threat.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Jealousy is like a drug. Once it gets into your veins, you are no longer coherent or independent in your thinking. You have now just become a dependent thinker, dependent on jealousy and its power. To have such a need is also equivalent to an addict needing a drug. Your addiction is your jealousy, your high is the adrenalin that your body creates through its fears, only this is not positive adrenalin; it is a pure negative adrenalin rush. The only antidote to combat this addiction is through positive steps that will strengthen your ability to take back your control and find a freedom from that attachment prison.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Jealousy will not rest until through you, it has created a frustrating and unbearable environment that puts you in the position in your relationship as your own worst enemy. In effect you become the attacker that you have been trying to run from. You are now jealousy! You are the cause of this turmoil that is being thrown to your outside world; an outside world that cannot possibly feel your pain; nor can they help you escape it. But they will look down on you in their confusion. You are all alone in this prison. You are the only one that can feel this pain, the only one that feels this need to control and hide from the world. You will find yourself being driven by negative thoughts every turn you make.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Have you ever been on a negative thought rollercoaster? If you ever have, you will understand what I mean when I say negative thoughts; negative thoughts that will not let you think rationally. If anything, they will work very hard at confusing your positive thinking. You will spend countless hours talking to yourself trying to get out of insecure feelings and you will end up right back feeling the same negative control that jealousy has over you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Jealousy will rob you of sleep hour after hour. When your mind cannot sleep, it becomes weak and that is exactly what strengthens the negative thoughts that will feed jealousy and keep it controlling you. These thoughts will turn over in your head until they are locked into a place of negative non realities. This is when you begin to believe in things which seem surreal. An example of this non reality is, let's say, you're walking past your partner as he is watching television. A commercial is on. There is a young scantily dressed woman on the commercial. Your immediate reaction is fear. You fear that at that very minute he is lusting her or worse, wishing you were her. As I said non- real negative thoughts = jealousy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This negative emotion is extremely careful to not allow your self-esteem to strengthen. It will turn your thoughts into a comparison mode instantly when it feels threatened. When it can put your mind into doubt of it's worth, it has total control. It will continue to control and force thoughts of being undeserving, not worthy, unintelligent, boring, self-less, non-appealing, even just plain ugly. It is a true negative powerful and destructive emotion that will not only control your thoughts but will also alter your desire to love. It will make you hide in safe, loveless corners and never allow another person into your heart. To allow a person into your heart would mean that you would be putting yourself at risk of falling victim to jealousy and all the horror that it creates and feeds on. So, you at this stage begin to set up protective walls, separating you from ever being hurt, but also putting a wedge in between you and your partner. Your choice, if you choose to stay in negative thinking, is to live a life alone.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When you have allowed it to weaken your thoughts to the point of delusional thinking, your mind will only see what will feed this negative emotion. All of your rational characteristics will be taken over by irrational thoughts and reactions. Everything that you thought you could control is now uncontrollable. Nothing is what it seems, while this jealousy emotion has you imprisoned behind its bars of negative and low self-worth thoughts.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I truly believe that being controlled by jealousy is similar to being in captivity. Your mind will get so conformed to that space that you're allowing, that you will learn to depend on it. You will feel safe only in that space. All of your knowledge of what's outside of that captive space has been hidden away into a very dark deep place in your mind. It is all you feel that you can control, not even realizing how little control you do have; again equivalent to an addiction.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What captivity and jealousy have in common is that once you allow your mind to be controlled or captivated by the overpowering emotion: jealousy, your mind will react as it would in a captive situation. Both jealousy and captivity hold your mind and reshape it to conform to its negative demands. A person in captivity eventually starts to depend on the person that's holding them captive. You start to depend on the feelings that you're getting from being captive by your jealous emotion. Jealousy becomes you, and you become jealousy. Together the duo team that you have allowed to control your thoughts will now destroy anything that is real. You will now live together in an unreal negative world of deception.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You will live and breathe the feelings of fear, worry and deception. You will not rest one single minute. Your mind will constantly be filled with disorder and accusations and," what ifs". At this point your ability to trust and feel secure with your partner will no longer be available to your mind, to your negative mind that is; the negative mind that you have allowed to take place of your once positive mind. Your innate desire to protect you and your reason for being are now at risk in your mind. You need to control everything and everything about your partner, right down to his every move. You need to take ownership in order to feel safe. With this control, then and only then can you feel safe from jealousy? Again the," attachment prison" takes over. This prison created by jealousy to keep you in its power and control. You're first breathing thoughts are livelihood and your future are based on attachment and acceptance. To lose that would be like dying a very slow death. Under the control of jealousy and its attachment prison you will fight to survive at any cost. You will be on guard even in your sleep, to notice even the simplest sign of abandonment or loss. Hence, the sleepless nights, haunted by the enemy: jealousy, captivated by the attachment prison again.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is what you already know of jealousy. It is not fun. It is not a happy place. It is however very destructive and it will destroy your life if you continue to allow it to control your thoughts. As I mentioned earlier in this article, your mind has two sides, one being negative and one being positive. You have the ability to choose.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have brought this part of the jealousy series to you because of how important it is to identify with the truth of jealousy. It is as real as you are sitting there listening to this. There is a way out and a way to free your mind of this prison of negative thoughts. Through my next article on "The Truth of Jealousy", you will learn steps and strategies that will help to strengthen your mind so that you may win the battle of negative thinking.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="mailto:dorothyl@womensselfesteem.com"&gt;dorothyl@womensselfesteem.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-5747618128207067812?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/5747618128207067812/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=5747618128207067812' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5747618128207067812'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5747618128207067812'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/truth-about-jealousy.html' title='The Truth About Jealousy'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-4927722375526738179</id><published>2009-08-28T16:31:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-28T16:31:26.075-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Repairing a Leaking Toilet</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Let me explain how a toilet works. First when you go to flush the toilet a little arm pulls a rubber flapper up and lets the water drain into the toilet bowl. The water draining into the toilet bowl forces the old water out along with the number two or number one waste and extremities.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If the toilet sounds like it is running there is a good chance that the seal between the rubber flapper and the plastic rain at the bottom of the toilet is broken somehow. The sound you are hearing is water running around this ring and in to the toilet bowl.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This leak is actually causing no damage to the toilet itself but is wasting water. Hence the water bill will be a little higher if you don't fix the leaking toilet. The best way to find out if this is actually your problem is to take the toilet tank lid off. Then stick your hand down into the toilet bowl and press gently on the rubber flap.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If the water stops leaking or starts running faster this is your problem. Turn the water off to the toilet. There will be a shut off valve on the wall under your toilet bowl in the bathroom. After you turn the water off removed the plastic flap and examine it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You will be looking for a warped toilet flap or of some sort or grooves on the flapper itself. Take the toilet flapper down to your local home improvement store and buy a new one. Go home and replace the new toilet flapper and this should solve 90% of your leaking toilet problems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There is one more thing it could be. With the toilet tank lid off, check to see if water is overflowing into the little round plastic pipe. This plastic pipe should have a small hose running from the float valve assembly into it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If the water is over flowing from the toilet tank into this little plastic pipe you will need to adjust the float.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;First thing you will need to do is while the toilet is running lift up on the float lever arm. If the water stops you can simply bend the metal arm of the float lever. The purpose of bending the arm will force the float deeper into the water there for stopping the water from rising over the small tube in the center of your toilet.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are few parts to a toilet and most parts can be purchased at your local hardware or home improvement centers. Toilet repairs like this can be made simple and the parts used to replace are inexpensive.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Happy Toilet Repairing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He is currently working on more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/library.htm"&gt;House Building and Remodeling Library&lt;/a&gt; and adding useful content to help solve problems created by the lack of construction knowledge in the building industry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit us and get more information on building and remodeling your homes and Some Great &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/ideas/plumbing_ideas.htm"&gt;Plumbing Ideas&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/effects_of_false_prophets.htm&gt;Effects Of False Prophets&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-4927722375526738179?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/4927722375526738179/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=4927722375526738179' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4927722375526738179'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4927722375526738179'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/repairing-leaking-toilet.html' title='Repairing a Leaking Toilet'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-6425479396819380255</id><published>2009-08-28T09:51:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-28T09:51:09.413-07:00</updated><title type='text'>A Simple Cure For Anxiety And Depression</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Our innate desire is to be happy, and when we move away from it, we experience fear.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This fear is actually millions of years old, for it arises from the biological programming of our species.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;While we may not have to contend with a sabre-toothed tiger on any given day, we still use those very reactions to deal with events looming ahead.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We think, Will I be fired for making that mistake at work? or Will I be able to meet the mortgage after I fix the car? or Will my health continue to decline? or Will my relationship fall apart after that argument we just fell into?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Running questions with this type of urgency and helplessness trains our brains to prepare now for future danger by loading our bodies up with the stress hormone cortisol.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Anxiety is our anticipation of a dangerous future. We imagine having even less of the little that we have today.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This anxiety does not help us in any way to meet the future any better. In fact, it weakens and exhausts us. We usually worry most about things that we can't even control. Worrying about your dental visit, for example, will not make the visit better.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Anxiety, in fact, is a silent killer. It is enervating, and it drains you of purpose and hope, faith and initiative. It fogs up your thinking. And it makes the body susceptible to illness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When anxiety--a fear of an event in the future--is high enough then you feel a deep sense of helplessness. This, in turn, translates into depression. You even begin to view the past as disappointing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Caught between a miserable past and a frightening future you create a pattern of emotions that can lead to a variety of mood disorders, including manic-depression.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;How do we escape from this vicious cycle?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here is what I did 20 years ago and I have never since suffered from any serious mood disorder.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I started to cultivate my awareness of my mood swings--from elation to black despair.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I did this by basically watching myself when I was manic, and watching myself when I was depressed, and watching what I did to turn on these states. For example to get depressed, I used my love of literature to focus on dark, morbid, and unhappy stories about life. And to get elated, I would talk a lot, move very quickly, and do things in a dramatic way.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;An interesting thing happened when I made my unconscious behavior conscious. I could not take my mood shifts seriously.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is what I learned from that experience: when you are able to observe yourself over the course of a few weeks, you develop a curious detachment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A paradoxical situation developed for me: I found it difficult to stay anxious and depressed when I was observing myself feeling anxious and depressed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ultimately, anxiety and depression are culturally-induced patterns of thinking that can be overcome through a deliberate cultivation of awareness. When you become your own observer, you weed out the unconscious habits that afflict you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Despite the billions of dollars spent to heal anxiety and depression, and all the mood disorders and behavioral anomalies that arise from them, the cure is simple, quick, and free.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Resource Box&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Saleem Rana got his masters in psychotherapy from California Lutheran University, Thousand Oaks, Ca., 15 years ago and now resides in Denver, Colorado. His articles on the internet have inspired over ten thousand people from around the world. &lt;a target="_new" href="http://theempoweredsoul.com/enter.html"&gt;Discover how to create a remarkable life&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Copyright 2005 Saleem Rana. Please feel free to pass this article on to your friends, or use it in your ezine or newsletter. It's a shareware article.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-6425479396819380255?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/6425479396819380255/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=6425479396819380255' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6425479396819380255'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/6425479396819380255'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/simple-cure-for-anxiety-and-depression.html' title='A Simple Cure For Anxiety And Depression'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-7122030223061955858</id><published>2009-08-28T09:01:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-28T09:01:35.567-07:00</updated><title type='text'>New Versus Old Lumber - Structural Failure</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;During my 30 years of remodeling and building new homes. I have ran across quite a bit of structural framing failures. I find myself answering this question a lot when explaining to a homeowner about the structural failure I am repairing on their home, "Why Didn't They Use Better Lumber" or " Why Didn't They Use Larger Lumber." I really have a hard time answering these questions because I honestly don't know the answer.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;However I can try to use some logic and reason to give these people an answer that seems to make sense to both of us. Why didn't they use better lumber, quite simply because, with most older homes that were built before the 1970s they actually do have better lumber. Now you're probably thinking how can these homes have better lumber when the lumber is old versus the new lumber used in a brand new house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most of the structural repairs I have made over the years has nothing to do with the lumber and whether it was new or old. A large number of these repairs were caused by neglect and poor maintenance.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The lumber in most older houses are from older growth trees. Some of these trees were extremely large and only the premium parts of the trees were used. The premium lumber is cut farthest away from the center of the tree. Now the larger the tree it makes sense that there will be more premium lumber.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A large majority of the newer lumber used in home construction comes from trees about 6 inches in diameter. Now you're probably wondering how can they cut a 2 x 8 piece of lumber out of a 6 inch tree. Of course they cannot, the larger lumber comes from larger trees.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most 2 x 4's that are less than 8 foot long can be cut from these trees. This scrap or waste that comes from cutting these two by fours will now go into engineered building materials like particleboard, oriented strand board and engineered beams. Another name for an engineered been would be a paralam.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I hope you're starting to get the picture now when it comes to using new or old lumber. There are companies that are going into old logging rivers and retrieving old growth lumber. These were logs that sank to the bottom of the river's and were never retrieved because it was too costly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The old growth lumber is quite expensive. Who's to say what problems we will happen in the future from the newer products created with modern day technology. When it comes to building houses it is not an exact science and as contractors we have been repairing the damage from poor engineering for years.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When I use the word poor engineering I am not pointing fingers at engineers. We now have more knowledge about home construction then we had years ago.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;New versus old lumber, who wins the battle. Only time will tell.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He is currently working on more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/library.htm"&gt;building and Remodeling Library&lt;/a&gt; and adding useful content to help solve problems created by the lack of construction knowledge in the building industry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit us and get more information on building and remodeling your homes and &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/structural_repair.htm"&gt;Structural Repairs&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/christian/if_i_hate_my_brother.htm&gt;If I Hate My Brother&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-7122030223061955858?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/7122030223061955858/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=7122030223061955858' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7122030223061955858'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7122030223061955858'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/new-versus-old-lumber-structural_28.html' title='New Versus Old Lumber - Structural Failure'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-2231448560877381171</id><published>2009-08-28T02:18:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-28T02:18:23.271-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Are You Aligned - Self Help Tips</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Recently, when I was living a "less than perfect" period in my life, I began to question what this whole alignment thing was all about. I wanted to know how to get what I wanted and how to stay there. I wanted to quit the roller coaster, and get the information I needed to create my perfect life. Have you ever felt the same?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;More and more we hear about how important it is to be in alignment with what we want to create in our lives. There are books, movies and techniques designed to help us reach our goals and create the life we desire. They all talk about getting aligned with our intentions. But what does being in alignment really mean? Maybe you have a general idea, but do you really understand how being in alignment can help you? I know I didn't, until I spent some time boiling the water out of a lot of complicated information, and found a simple way to understand the concept.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Being in alignment is simply a period when all of your thoughts, intentions, and actions are focused on the same thing. &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When you are in alignment, things move forward effortlessly. Everything seems to "click", you meet the perfect people, find the perfect resources, good things happen, and you know that you are getting closer to your goals.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sounds perfect right? The problem comes when you aren't getting what you want, and you don't know why. Without exception, if things aren't "clicking", you can be sure that you are out of alignment in some way. But how do you know for sure?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A simple test to determine if you are in alignment is to ask yourself if your thoughts, interactions and activities move you forward or hold you back? If they are holding you back, you aren't in alignment. If you are moving effortlessly toward your goals, then you. It's really that simple.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Think about it like this, each and every day we make choices as to what we think about, who we hang around with and what we do. But did you know that even these little choices can really change the direction that your life is headed. So the next time you are "off", and in need of an "adjustment", I suggest that you do the following:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Focus your energy in a positive way&lt;br&gt;Take a moment and concentrate on what it is that you want to create in your life&lt;br&gt; Ask yourself if your feelings support your dreams&lt;br&gt; Evaluate your thoughts and actions; determine what is working, and what isn't&lt;br&gt; Shift your focus from what isn't working to what you want to happen&lt;br&gt; Choose to take the necessary actions to get back on track and moving forward again&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Remember, that we become what we think about, and mirror the actions of those around us. To be in alignment, we have to choose actions that feel right, and be committed to executing them consistently.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So the next time you are frustrated with life, and not enjoying what is happening, look around and ask yourself if what you are doing is in alignment with who you are and what you want out of life, or if it is taking you to a place you don't want to be.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Judy Davis a.k.a "The Direction Diva" is an entrepreneur, motivational speaker, published author and business owner. Her laid back, personal style incorporates humor and real life experience into everything that she does, while creating an atmosphere of trust and sincerity that people embrace. To learn more about Judy visit &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.JudyDavisInc.com"&gt;http://www.JudyDavisInc.com&lt;/a&gt; and to access resources that move you forward visit &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.ReclaimU.com"&gt;http://www.ReclaimU.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-2231448560877381171?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/2231448560877381171/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=2231448560877381171' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2231448560877381171'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2231448560877381171'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/are-you-aligned-self-help-tips.html' title='Are You Aligned - Self Help Tips'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-4320645740782341902</id><published>2009-08-27T17:11:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-27T17:11:47.269-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Changes and Challenges of Being a GRG - Grandparent Raising Grandchildren</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Recent government studies indicate that a million American kids are being raised by their grandparents, with no parents present. Jim Fay and Foster W. Cline, MD, detail the trend in their book, "Grandparenting With Love and Logic." The one million statistic doesn't include grandparents who are providing full-time day care for their grandkids, according to the authors.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The GRG trend is sweeping the country and spans all races, all ethnicities, all geographic, and all economic levels.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I became a GRG when my twin grandkids lost both parents in separate car crashes. The twins never thought they would live with us. Similarly, we never thought we would be parenting teens again. "No offense, Grandma," my granddaughter said, "but living with you and grandpa will be weird." I agreed with her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;All of us are trying to adjust to a new family structure. It isn't easy. Judith L. Warren, PhD, Professor and Gerontology Specialist with the Texas Cooperative Extension, and Janis Thompson, Director of the Texomoa Area Agency on Aging, think society needs to understand the issues that GRGs face. Communities need to gain skills to work with GRGs, they say, and develop an action plan.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My personal action plan includes reading articles about GRGs on the Internet. One issue comes up again and again. GRGs are caught between parenting and grandparenting. Very young children may call their grandmother "mommy" and their grandfather "daddy." This can be confusing for young kids.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Fortunately, my grandkids see me as their grandmother.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;While my grandkids question some of the things I do, they are beginning to see the role I play in their lives I will never be the twins' mother. Still, I can be the best possible grandmother and take care of them. How do I see my role?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;PROVIDE BALANCED, NUTRITIOUS MEALS. The kids don't like all of the meals I fix and that's OK. My job is to make sure the kids eat right and eat a balanced diet. This includes introducing them to new foods. The kids are busy with school now, but I hope to teach them how to cook this summer.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;SHUTTLE SERVICE FOR TWINS AND FRIENDS. My husband and I take turns with the shuttle service. It includes transportation to and from school, after school activities, and driving them to stores, movies, and friends' homes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;LAUNDRY ASSISTANCE. I'm trying to get the kids to wash their sheets each week and to wash them in hot water. The twins wash their sheets if I remind them and, according to friends, this is normal. One friend said her daughter, a PhD candidate, rarely washes her sheets. Why do I insist on weekly washing? I'm concerned about microscopic dust mites, which can cause asthma. Hot water kills the mites.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;SUPPORT ACTIVITIES. Our grandson is in the high school band and we attend his concerts. Our granddaughter is on the gymnastics team and we attend as many meets as possible. "You have to come to parents' night," she insisted. "We give parents flowers." Our granddaughter gave her GRGs flowers.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ACT AS A ROLE MODEL. I'm trying to be a nurturing grandparent. To give the kids a sense of the future, I continue to write and model self-care. This is important, according to the Forever Families Web site. "Grandparents Raising Grandchildren," an article on this site, says GRGs often have poorer health than grandparents who aren't caring for grandkids. "You need to preserve your health to provide the best care for your grandchildren," the article says.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I take my GRG role seriously and joyously. There is nothing I would rather do.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Copyright 2007 by Harriet Hodgson&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.harriethodgson.com"&gt;http://www.harriethodgson.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Harriet Hodgson has been a freelance nonfiction writer for 29 years. She is a member of the Association of Health Care Journalists and the Association for Death Education and Counseling. Her 24th book, "Smiling Through Your Tears: Anticipating Grief," written with Lois Krahn, MD, is available from &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.amazon.com"&gt;http://www.amazon.com&lt;/a&gt; - A five-star review of the book is posted on Amazon. You will find other reviews on the American Hospice Foundation Web site and the Health Ministries Association Web site.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Please visit Harriet Hodgson's Web site and learn more about this busy author and grandmother.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-4320645740782341902?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/4320645740782341902/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=4320645740782341902' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4320645740782341902'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4320645740782341902'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/changes-and-challenges-of-being-grg.html' title='The Changes and Challenges of Being a GRG - Grandparent Raising Grandchildren'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-3173049312739852863</id><published>2009-08-27T16:19:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-27T16:19:05.435-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Aum Mantra Mediation - Spiritual Video</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Ahhhhh is the sound of God and can be used for meditation.  Listen to this wonderful sound and try to find God in it.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/lZn6vme2FDU&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/lZn6vme2FDU&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/video/always_question_your_religion.htm"&gt;Question Your Religion&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is a published author, internet marketing expert, motivational inspiration to millions of people all over the world and is sharing some of his wisdom with experts in the fields of writing,marketing, and personal development.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg is currently working on a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/articles.htm"&gt;religious help library&lt;/a&gt; filled with great subjects on a wide array of topics, like religion, self help and spiritual changes in the world. His views on religious freedom are slowly changing the way people think about institutional religion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/video/mental_and_physical_abuse.htm&gt;Mental And Physical Abuse&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-3173049312739852863?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/3173049312739852863/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=3173049312739852863' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3173049312739852863'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/3173049312739852863'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/aum-mantra-mediation-spiritual-video.html' title='Aum Mantra Mediation - Spiritual Video'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-5691232608730979910</id><published>2009-08-27T06:15:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-27T06:15:17.386-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Where's the Beef? - It's in the Recipe For Wendy's Hamburgers - So What's the Secret?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;The real question in everyone's mind isn't "where's the beef?"; it's what is the recipe for Wendy's hamburgers? Well, until recently, I could tell you the answer to "where's the beef," and I could tell you that if you make a square burger that you "don't believe in cutting corners," and I could probably tell you every theory on why Wendy's burgers are square. What I couldn't tell you was the recipe for the delicious burgers.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Wendy's burgers have long been a favorite in my family. I ate one for the first time, because my sons wanted to try the square burger. They were saying, "oh boy, this is cool looking;" and I was saying, "boy, does this taste good." Of course, I immediately wanted the ingredients. I had three young boys who were about ready to go threw a growth spirt, so I needed to make affordable meals that they liked at home, more now then ever. I knew I could manage to make a cool looking, square burger, but I wanted it to taste just as good, too.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Need I say, it became a tradition to go to Wendy's, but I never got my hands on that recipe. My sons are now engaged to be married, so I figure grandchildren are next. This little revelation gave me cause to think back to those days when that unique burger from a favorite fast food restaurant could make the day special. That's when I decided it was time to search for the recipe on the internet to see if it could be found. After all, I could still make them for my growing family. Amazingly enough, after all these years, I found the recipe for Wendy's hamburgers, and countless other recipes I never thought I could find, all in one recipe book. One book - hundreds of sought after recipes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The best part of finding this recipe book is still to come, because as days pass, should some of these famous, wonderful, recipes be lost over time, my family will always have access to them and their flavorful memories.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;How would you like to recreate the most famous popular recipes at home? &lt;a target="_new" href="http://topsecretrestaurantrecipesrevealed.com/product2.html"&gt;This famous cookbook&lt;/a&gt; exposes all of the most famous and most delicious secret recipes on the planet including restaurants such as Wendy's. Don't waste your time like I did!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://topsecretrestaurantrecipesrevealed.com/product2.html"&gt;Click here to check it out&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-5691232608730979910?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/5691232608730979910/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=5691232608730979910' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5691232608730979910'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/5691232608730979910'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/wheres-beef-its-in-recipe-for-wendys.html' title='Where&apos;s the Beef? - It&apos;s in the Recipe For Wendy&apos;s Hamburgers - So What&apos;s the Secret?'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-408278943432901095</id><published>2009-08-27T05:01:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-27T05:01:25.280-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Ultimate Illumination on Mary Magdalene</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt; This video has more information on Mary Magdalene, great video on advanced spiritual thinking.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/FJQWgh5yr7w&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/FJQWgh5yr7w&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you're really seeking the kingdom of heaven, the glory of God and the true vision that Jesus had, check out some &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/christian_articles.htm"&gt; great Christian articles &lt;/a&gt; .  These articles are designed to teach and educate Christians.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/video/let_god_handle_it.htm&gt;Let God Handle It&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-408278943432901095?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/408278943432901095/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=408278943432901095' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/408278943432901095'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/408278943432901095'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/ultimate-illumination-on-mary-magdalene.html' title='The Ultimate Illumination on Mary Magdalene'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-8512637400425203153</id><published>2009-08-26T19:30:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-26T19:30:07.111-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Black Pepper -- Benefits and Possible Risks</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Is black pepper good for you? In truth, there is no simple answer to this question. There have not been enough studies on black pepper to verify if it is overall healthful and beneficial, detrimental, or neither. There are, however, plenty of suggestions as to the benefits (and negatives) associated with black pepper. Here are a few of them:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Possible Benefits of Black Pepper:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Alleviates hemorrhoids&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Alleviates gas&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Alleviates constipation&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Improves digestion  just think, by grinding or shaking black pepper onto your meal, you may actually be aiding yourself in the digestion of that meal. How? Black pepper stimulates the taste buds, alerting your stomach to increase its hydrochloric acid secretion which aids in digestion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Alleviates loss of appetite  again, black pepper wakes up and stimulates your taste buds.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Promotes sweating&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Promotes urination&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Anti-bacterial effect&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Anti-oxidant effect&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Stimulates the breakdown of fat cells&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Inhaling vapor from black pepper extract may reduce withdrawal symptoms associated with quitting smoking  this theory is still being tested&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Piperine  an alkaloid found in black pepper  could enhance the bioavailability of some nutritional substances and drugs. It also may have anti-carcinogenic properties and anticonvulsant&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Possible Negative Effects of Black Pepper&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; According to at least one study, black pepper may cause an increase in parietal secretion (of hydrochloric acid  the acid abovementioned as an aid to digestion) and pepsin secretion and a loss in potassium.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Also, there is a chance of mucosal mircrobleeding and even gastric bleeding due black pepper (due, at least in part, to the above-stated secretions).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Piperine may actually be carcinogenic (although some studies show that it is anti-carcinogenic) and it might even have negative effects on sperm and interfere with reproductive processes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;All in all, it seems that more likely than not, black pepper has positive health benefits. But before you start loading black pepper onto every single meal, realize that there are possible negatives, as well (which can practically be said about most any food!)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Anne Clarke writes numerous articles for websites on gardening, parenting, fashion, and home decor. Her background includes teaching and gardening. For more of her articles on fur boots and fashion please visit &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.saltandpeppershakers.net"&gt;Salt and Pepper Shakers&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-8512637400425203153?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/8512637400425203153/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=8512637400425203153' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8512637400425203153'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8512637400425203153'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/black-pepper-benefits-and-possible.html' title='Black Pepper -- Benefits and Possible Risks'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-231637978357237403</id><published>2009-08-26T17:33:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-26T17:33:33.742-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Doreen Virtue appeared discusses the Crystal Children part two</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Doreen Virtue appeared discusses the Crystal Children, a type of child born since 1995 that has unusual attributes such as very large eyes, telepathy, and fearlessness. Virtue had previously studie&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/eGpx4X8I_4E&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/eGpx4X8I_4E&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/video/missing_years_of_jesus.htm"&gt;Life of Jesus&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You are free to copy this article to your site as long as you include the following resource information with an active link to my site:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is a published author, internet marketing expert, motivational inspiration to millions of people all over the world and is sharing some of his wisdom with experts in the fields of writing,marketing, and personal development.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg is currently working on a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/articles.htm"&gt; spiritual help library&lt;/a&gt; filled with great subjects on a wide array of topics, like religion, self help and spiritual changes in the world. His views on religious freedom are slowly changing the way people think about institutional religion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/video/visualization_and_affirmations.htm&gt;Visualization And Affirmations&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-231637978357237403?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/231637978357237403/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=231637978357237403' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/231637978357237403'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/231637978357237403'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/doreen-virtue-appeared-discusses.html' title='Doreen Virtue appeared discusses the Crystal Children part two'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-751702025715076452</id><published>2009-08-26T07:51:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-26T07:51:17.132-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Serendipity And How Could You Make It Work For You</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Serendipity means to make discoveries, by accident and sagacity, of things not in quest of.&lt;br&gt;Serendipity means, The joy and reward found in unexpected happenings.&lt;br&gt;Serendipity is discovering the miracle of the unexpected&lt;br&gt;Serendipity is the facility for encountering unexpected good luck, as the result of accident, sagacity, or general exploratory behavior. But chance has a fourth element in it and the principle underlying all its elements bear closer scrutiny.&lt;br&gt;The word serendipity has come from an Old Persian fairy tale and was coined by Horace Walpole.&lt;br&gt;In a letter dated 28th January 1754, he wrote to his friend, Horace Mann, the English resident in Florence: "I once read a silly fairy tale, called The Three Princes of Serendip: as their highnesses traveled, they were always making discoveries, by accidents and sagacity, of things which they were not in quest of: for instance, one of them discovered that a mule blind of the right eye had traveled the same road lately, because the grass was eaten only on the left side, where it was worse than on the rightnow do you understand serendipity? One of the most remarkable instances of this accidental sagacity (for you must observe that no discovery of a thing you are looking for, comes under this description) was of my Lord shaftsbury, who happening to dine at Lord Chancellor Clarendon's, found out the marriage of the Duke of York and Mrs. Hyde, by the respect with which her mother treated her at table."&lt;br&gt;Serendip is the old Arabic name for Sri Lanka. In order to understand the correct meaning of serendipity one should read the story, The three princes of Serendip&lt;br&gt;Mr Marcus Bach suggests the following three progressive steps to get serendipity to work for you, whatever your business or profession may be. By these three steps you can find it, channel it, use it and let it use you.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;1) Be insightful beyond the use of your five senses: Do not limit yourself or excuse yourself by saying, All I am going to use is common sense. Of course, you want to use common sense, but you are living in an uncommon world. Use your intuition.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;2) Be philosophical on a universal scale: The Princes of Serendip discovered that their life encounters did not always pay off immediately; but in the long run, by virtue of their inter-cultural travel, they realized that the world is not only a market for anything of value, but also a bazaar for everything of interest. Every event had meaning, even though the meaning was not immediately clear.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;3) Trust your guidance to the very limit of capabilities. Many people trust their guidance only to the point of competency. Yet there are times in our personal lives, as there are in the business, when we must take inventory of what we have done with our lives, and evaluate our capabilities in the light of our competencies and vice versa. Take stock of yourself and balance your competency against a yet-to-be discovered potential capability.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In the next article we will see some of the accidental discoveries in science.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;S. Nagarajan is a vehicle body engineer by profession. He has written more than 1300 articles in 16 magazines and published 18 books. He is revealing Eastern Secret Wisdom through T.V. Programmes, magazine articles, seminars, courses. His email address is: &lt;a href="mailto:snagarajans@gmail.com"&gt;snagarajans@gmail.com&lt;/a&gt;. His articles on Yoga, laughter, efficacy of mantras and sound, Hypnotism, Tele Kinesis, Power of Prayer, Vastu and Feng Shui, Auto suggestion, Success Formula, Out of Body Experience etc are regularly appearing in ezinearticles.com. So far seventy five articles have been published in ezinearticles.com.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-751702025715076452?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/751702025715076452/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=751702025715076452' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/751702025715076452'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/751702025715076452'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/serendipity-and-how-could-you-make-it.html' title='Serendipity And How Could You Make It Work For You'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-8475981353947565070</id><published>2009-08-26T06:03:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-26T06:03:57.220-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Is Mary Magdalene and More Than a Christian Legend - Movie Video</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt; This video has more information on Mary Magdalene, great video on advanced spiritual thinking.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/FJQWgh5yr7w&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/FJQWgh5yr7w&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you're really seeking the kingdom of heaven, the glory of God and the true vision that Jesus had, check out some &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/christian_articles.htm"&gt; great Christian articles &lt;/a&gt; .  These articles are designed to teach and educate Christians.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/video/do_i_go_to_college.htm&gt;Do I Go To College&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-8475981353947565070?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/8475981353947565070/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=8475981353947565070' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8475981353947565070'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8475981353947565070'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/is-mary-magdalene-and-more-than.html' title='Is Mary Magdalene and More Than a Christian Legend - Movie Video'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-8550148239908589785</id><published>2009-08-25T17:27:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-25T17:27:38.181-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Choices Available in Decorative Pots For Houseplants</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Indoor plants in interesting pots can be a beautiful addition to your home. Many people buy plants, only to leave them in their original nursery containers! These plastic containers are not only ugly, but they also make it hard for your plants to thrive. Most houseplants need special plants to allow their roots room to grow. When you are searching for new pots for your houseplants, there are several types of materials that you can consider.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Terra cotta pots are very popular for indoor plants. These plants have a warm, orange-tan color when unpainted. These porous clay pots usually come with one hole at the bottom with drainage. For most plants, you should also purchase a terra cotta saucer to catch drainage water. You can also find unique terra cotta plants which are glazed, or paint your own.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Another popular choice for re-potting houseplants is a ceramic pot. These are very attractive, and they come in a variety of colors and styles to fit your dcor. Ceramic pots come glazed, and are made in a variety of sizes. Make sure to notice whether there are drainage holes in the bottom of the pot. Some ceramic pots do not come with drainage holes, so you'll have to choose suitable plants for these pots.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Resin pots are a good choice if you are concerned about terra cotta or ceramic pots breaking. Resin is a type of plastic, and it comes molded into pots with a wide variety of colors, shapes, and sizes. There are resin pots available to fit any style. Most come with pre-drilled drainage holes, but if not, you can drill your own. If your pot does have drainage holes, of course, you'll need to select an appropriate tray to catch the draining water.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Galvanized metal plant containers are a unique choice, which can lend a casual, country mood to your home. Galvanized metal containers are usually bucket or tub-shaped. Galvanized metal is a special kind of metal treated to prevent rust, making it an ideal material for many plants such as &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.plant-care.com/ficus_benjamina.html"&gt;ficus benjamina&lt;/a&gt;. While many garden centers keep a variety of galvanized pots on hand, you may find a larger selection at a feed and tack store. Although many do not come with drainage holes, you can drill your own in the metal. If you do use it for a plant which requires drainage holes, be sure to place a tray underneath it to catch drainage water.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When choosing an indoor plant pot, no matter what material you select you will be able to find a style and color to fit your dcor. All of these types of plant containers are made in a variety of sizes, so you will be able to find one that is suitable for your space. You should purchase your plants at the same time you choose pots, so that you can match plants to appropriate pots. Plus, you will have more reason to transplant your new plants into their new pots right away.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can't always get what you want but you can find what you need on the subject of &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.plant-care.com/ficus_benjamina.html"&gt;ficus benjamina tree&lt;/a&gt;. Click today for a visit us at plant-care.com.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-8550148239908589785?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/8550148239908589785/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=8550148239908589785' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8550148239908589785'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/8550148239908589785'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/choices-available-in-decorative-pots.html' title='Choices Available in Decorative Pots For Houseplants'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-819579814060705627</id><published>2009-08-25T16:27:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-25T16:27:59.291-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Unlocking Your Spiritual Mind - Spiritual Video</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Ahhhhh is the sound of God and can be used for meditation.  Listen to this wonderful sound and try to find God in it.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/dB5NHgVfQVg&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/dB5NHgVfQVg&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/video/always_question_your_religion.htm"&gt;Question Your Religion&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is a published author, internet marketing expert, motivational inspiration to millions of people all over the world and is sharing some of his wisdom with experts in the fields of writing,marketing, and personal development.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg is currently working on a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/articles.htm"&gt;religious help library&lt;/a&gt; filled with great subjects on a wide array of topics, like religion, self help and spiritual changes in the world. His views on religious freedom are slowly changing the way people think about institutional religion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/video/what_is_aura_energy.htm&gt;What Is Aura Energy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-819579814060705627?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/819579814060705627/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=819579814060705627' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/819579814060705627'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/819579814060705627'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/unlocking-your-spiritual-mind-spiritual.html' title='Unlocking Your Spiritual Mind - Spiritual Video'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-4502476410844131897</id><published>2009-08-20T07:18:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-20T07:18:22.540-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Creating Your Electricity</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Creating your own electricity and generating your own power has always been one of my dreams. Having a self sufficient home, not only a house that takes care of itself by generating its own electricity through windmills or solar panels but the satisfaction knowing that no matter what happens to the electrical companies you will always have electricity at your home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What a wonderful feeling it would be to get a check back from the utility company instead of paying them every single month. I don't know about you but my utility bills are ridiculous and seemed to be going up in price constantly. I can't believe all the fees they have been charging for years to all of their customers. If you add all the fees for every person in the city or county this comes to a large, a very large number and it's getting worse not better.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Generating your own electricity with solar or wind power is definitely green thinking. This is going to be the wave of the future as fuel used to create electricity continues to rise in price. I really can't imagine what the price of electricity is going to be like in 10 years as the mass consumption continues to rise in developing countries.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We have got to start taking care of our own needs through solar or wind power. We have got to start creating our own electricity to become self reliant. The more self reliant we become as a nation the less dependent we will be on major corporations, especially large power conglomerates.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Creating our own electricity can also be used for electrical cars that can be purchased in the future. Think of the money you will say in fuel costs as the price of gasoline continues to increase as well as less pollution into our environment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is definitely the wave of the future and common sense tells us this. I suggest you read this article again if you haven't figured out some of the problems coming our way in the future.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Think green and together we can start saving the planet.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;While searching for new alternatives and trying to get some advice on creating your own electricity I came across a book you can purchase in digital format. This book seems to have quite a bit of information on creating your own electricity for a totally self sufficient home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This book has been created in digital format to reduce the consumption of trees and the waste involved in creating a regular book. What a wonderful idea for helping our environment in quite a few ways.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;While searching for new alternatives and trying to get some advice on creating your own electricity I came across a book you can purchase in digital format. This book seems to have quite a bit of information on creating your own electricity for a totally self sufficient home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This book has been created in digital format to reduce the consumption of trees and the waste involved in creating a regular book. What a wonderful idea for helping our environment in quite a few ways.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For more information visit &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.gregvan.com"&gt;http://www.gregvan.com&lt;/a&gt; and look for &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com"&gt;Get Earth4Energy&lt;/a&gt; Here Create your own electricity! Save 1000's with Earth4Energy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/selfhelp/developing_wealth_building_habit.htm&gt;Developing Wealth Building Habit&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-4502476410844131897?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/4502476410844131897/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=4502476410844131897' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4502476410844131897'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4502476410844131897'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/creating-your-electricity.html' title='Creating Your Electricity'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-4304843977464659258</id><published>2009-08-20T02:41:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-20T02:41:42.986-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Change Your Thinking About Life</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;What do I do when I get down and out. Well that use to happen to me often and I seemed to suffer with some minor depression. It would seem like time would stand still. I would look at the clock and notice the time. Let's say 2:23 in the afternoon. I would look back to see what time it was about fifteen minutes latter and it would be 2:26. Wow what in the heck is going on with this clock.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I just couldn't believe it seemed like the day would never end. I would just sit there and think about all the stuff going on in my life, good and bad of course. This seemed to last until I was in my early twenties. I just didn't want to feel like this any more. I made a Conscious design not to get depressed period. I never wanted to feel like that again.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I read a book on ESP and in the book it described visualizing a rose as you went to sleep. I started doing this every night and while I was doing the exercise it seemed to make me feel relaxed in a way I never had felt before. The reason for the exercise was to teach you to visualize something peaceful. This in turn would put you in a peaceful state of mind.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Then a thought came into my noggin. What if when ever I start to feel bad or seem to be going into a sort of depressive state of mind I change my thoughts. It worked... I would start to visualize something else that made me feel comfortable and give me a peaceful feeling. Man was I surprised with my results.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Keep in mind I didn't think of this all on my own but I did put the pieces of the puzzle I needed to together that I needed to change my life. It seemed like I could use this form of self control in different parts of my life. If I was at work and someone made me mad.... Well this didn't work all the time... I still got mad. Let's pick something else OK.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I would worry about something on the job that wasn't going right. Then I would get irritated over something else that wasn't even related to what I was worrying about. Why did I take it out on the other person when what I was really mad about was something else. We do this all the time in our lives. We seem to get mad, get even or give up. Why do we do this and what can we do to stop it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My main point to all of this is we can change our thinking and change our lives. We can learn new things to change our thinking. We don't need to give up hope that we will always be like this. Change the things you don't like about yourself. Do it today. If you need some help there is a great book that will help you change your life for the better.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can find it at &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.live.spiritualideas.com"&gt;http://www.live.spiritualideas.com&lt;/a&gt; This book has a lot of tools to create the change in your life you want to have a more full filling life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most people give up just when they're about to achieve success. They quit on the one yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game one foot from a winning touchdown. Ross Perot.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://live.spiritualideas.com/"&gt;Start Living Your Dreams Today&lt;/a&gt; and Create a Wonderful Life For Yourself And Your Family. &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/"&gt;Greg Vanden Berge&lt;/a&gt; is one of the best inspirations on the planet. You will be hearing a lot about this guy in the future. You can count on it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/spiritual/dreaming_and_outer_body_experien.htm&gt;Dreaming And Outer Body Experien&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-4304843977464659258?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/4304843977464659258/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=4304843977464659258' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4304843977464659258'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/4304843977464659258'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/change-your-thinking-about-life.html' title='Change Your Thinking About Life'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-7140184574245643414</id><published>2009-08-19T22:00:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-19T22:00:46.440-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Planning Your Bathroom Remodel Budget - Home Improvement Ideas</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;As a bathroom remodeling contractor, I get calls from people, that have no idea what they want or how much anything is going to cost. Here's some simple tips that can be very helpful when planning a bathroom remodel budget.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bathroom Remodeling Investment&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In 2008, the average mid-range bathroom cost around $16,000 and you could recoup around $12,000 of your original investment upon the sale of your home. According to a popular remodeling magazine, larger bathrooms using expensive fixtures, tile, bathtubs, woodworking, toilets and showers had an average of $52,000. Upon the sale of a home, you could recoup around $36,000 of your original investment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Finding out How Much Things Cost&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My first suggestion, would be to visit your local home improvement center, lumber yard or plumbing supply warehouse. Larger stores like Home Depot and Lowe's, seemed to provide you with value pricing but don't have a large selection. While doing some research on the Internet I noticed that some of their pricing is outrageously, outrageous. Some plumbing supply warehouses can provide value but beware others won't.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Create a List of Bathroom Remodeling Parts&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can get a good idea of your bathroom remodel costs for your budget by making a list of bathroom parts with pricing and then adding them up for a grand total. If you're a total bathroom remodel budget is $15,000 and you have a $6,000 bathtub with $4000 worth of tile, you could have a budget problem.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Figuring out the Labor&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You will have to contact a contractor to get an actual cost for the labor. Sometimes you can double the cost of your bathroom remodeling parts to get a rough idea. If you have a list or a couple of lists and a few pictures of some sample bathrooms, this will make the contractor's job easier and often they can give you a labor price within a few days.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Give Yourself a Cushion&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I would suggest leaving yourself a small financial cushion for any additional remodeling items. For example, you could see a different toilet, or instead of painting the walls, you now choose to wallpaper, you could incur additional expenses that you haven't planned for. If you know exactly what you want and stick to the original bathroom remodeling plan, you shouldn't need the cushion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Financial problems often transfer into construction problems, so spend some time figuring out, how much money you want to spend on the bathroom remodel and try not to go overboard on the budget. I hate to see homeowners struggling with home improvement loan payments. Try to create a bathroom remodeling budget that is realistic and will not create a financial burden upon you or your family.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a &lt;a target="_new" href="http://houseinspectionhelp.com/homebuyersguide/index.htm"&gt;home buyers guide&lt;/a&gt; to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If your looking for some more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/ideas/bathroom_ideas.htm"&gt;bathroom remodeling&lt;/a&gt; or home building ideas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/selfhelp/you_have_to_start_somewhere.htm&gt;You Have To Start Somewhere&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-7140184574245643414?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/7140184574245643414/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=7140184574245643414' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7140184574245643414'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/7140184574245643414'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/planning-your-bathroom-remodel-budget.html' title='Planning Your Bathroom Remodel Budget - Home Improvement Ideas'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-239750707995904453</id><published>2009-08-19T17:13:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-19T17:13:20.548-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Need Help Remodeling In Carlsbad</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;What you are thinking about remodeling your house and you live in Carlsbad. Let me give you some advice about some local contractors and some of the people involved. I used a company called Service Magic to find a local heating and air conditioning contractor. All I had to do was go on the internet , type in some information about my self and what I wanted to have done to my home. This didn't seem that bad of a idea at the time. But look what I found out.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I went to their web site, filled in my information and with in minutes I had received the names of at least 4 contractors. Wow this is neat. I didn't even get to start calling any of them when my phone rang. It was one of the contractors secretaries. She introduced herself and asked what would be a good time for someone to come out to look at the work I wanted done.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I was surprised at the speed things were taking place but in a way glad that I had a reputable contractor from one of the largest construction referral services on the internet. I told her 10:00 would be fine. I got a call shortly after that from one of the other companies. He wanted to meet me that mourning at 8:00 if it was Ok with me. I told him of course, let's do this. Then the next one called and I thought great you can come at 1:00. Well you guessed it the next one was coming over at 2:30.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The first contractor showed up as scheduled at 8:00. We talked about what I wanted done and he whips out his note book and starts figuring out a price. This took place around 15 minutes into the meeting. This guys good I thought. Being a General Contractor in Carlsbad myself, for a job like this I would go back to my office and figure out a price and then double check my figures for a accurate estimate. It took this guy less than 5 minutes to create a proposal of around 10,700 dollars for every thing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Well I was thinking to myself, the job should be around 7,000 dollars but what do I know about construction. I informed him that I would think about it and that I was going to meet with a couple of other contractors that day. He ask me who the other contractors were. I proceeded to tell him that I probably shouldn't tell him who they were. Well your not going to believe this. He put on his physic hat and told me who was coming over. The only thing he didn't know was what time they where coming over.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Oh I forgot to mention before he left he told me he would knock ten percent off the job if I signed the contract right now. I pretended like I was excited just to see his reaction. He looked at me like he had won the gold metal in sales. I told him thanks but I bet your new offer with the ten percent discount will be good for the next few day. Right I asked. He wasn't looking that excited any more as he replied with a Yes it will be good for a while. I thanked him and he went on his way.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My 10:00 never showed but his secretary gave me the old, " He had to go do a emergency job and could he reschedule tomorrow at the same time. I said that would be fine. As a contractor myself I have always put the work I had to do first and foremost.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;About 12:30 I get a call from my next heating and air conditioning contractor. He is running late but will be there at 1:30. I appreciate the call and I will see you then. The only problem now is that I have another contractor coming at 2:30. That give the next contractor less than one hour before the next guy shows up. I never liked going over to someone's house and running into another remodeling contractor.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The next contractor was very informative and knew his stuff. I listened and learned. He told me he was going to have to go back to his office and would have a price back in the mourning. Great I told him as I hurried him out the door.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The last contractor of the day shows up and wants to know whose been over to the house, was it these guys or those guys. I told him I wasn't going to tell him who was over. Now this guy was a salesman. He did a little more probing before he let me in on the fact that his company doesn't do complete home installations. He made up some story that his company only replaces the forced air units. I could tell he didn't want to do the job once he found out I knew what I was talking about. So I said my good byes to Mr. Salesman.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The bad part about him was latter on that week his company sent us some mailers. The kind that doesn't have your name on it and everyone in the neighborhood get's one. I couldn't believe my eyes when I started to read this letter. It said we would be glad to give you an estimate on all your heating and air conditioning needs or services. " We Do Complete Installs". I told my wife we could have used this a few weeks ago. Then I recognized the name of the company and now knew that the salesman had lied to me for sure.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;That night I started to think about what was going on here it seemed like I was being set up. Everyone knew what was going on but me. It seemed clear to me that these people knew each other.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Well as time went on we ended up hiring the first guy that came over. He seemed to have the best product at the most reasonable price. His company also did a great job. Keep one thing in mind here out of five contractors that I gave the opportunity to bid the job. Only three showed up and from them I only got two bids. Why didn't I get more bids? Quite frankly I was to busy working at the time and of course the other two guys were always going to show up and that kind of strung me along. My mistake.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here's the kicker to all of this. Service Magic calls me up one day to tell me they would like to start sending me construction leads as a General Contractor.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I listened to what they had to say and was almost ready to sign up with them again. That's right, I was signed up with them when they first started until they changed the rules on me. The salesman that originally contacted me said if I paid them the 100 dollar sign up fee they would let me pick what jobs I wanted to do. That lasted about 5 months before I noticed that they were not sending me siding referrals to pick from. I called them up only to talk to someone who didn't understand the State Of California Contractors Licensing Board.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Well I wasn't about to reinvent the wheel. I simply told them that I should a least get my money back, right. They said they would look into it further as I never heard from them again about my 100 dollars. Well things have changed at Service Magic since I was with them when they started.&lt;br&gt;As a home owner you don't think you are paying Service Magic because all you do is fill out a simple form giving some information about yourself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I found out that Service Magic sent all four of these contractors my original information. Each contractor then had to pay 55 dollars each to Service Magic for a total of 220 dollars. All I have to say is how are they getting away with charging this much money for sending a out a simple referral to these contractors.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The contractor unfortunately passes this expense on to his customers. You as the home owners end up paying these fees as a cost of doing business with them. Some contractors think this is a great way of doing business but you might think differently in the future if you start paying over 100 dollars for a simple construction referral.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvandenberge.com/"&gt;Greg Vanden Berge&lt;/a&gt; has been in the home building and remodeling business for over 30 years. With this knowledge he has created a few websites that provide useful information for home owners as well as contractors. His main goal is to educate professionals in the home related businesses, dealing with problems that can easily be avoided with just a little bit of information.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;His website &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com"&gt;http://gregvan.com&lt;/a&gt; provides all kinds of answers to remodeling and new house building issues that could create major damage as well as possible damage to your pocket book.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit us now for &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/"&gt;Home Improvement Tips&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/selfhelp/learning_meditation_or_watching.htm&gt;Learning Meditation Or Watching&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-239750707995904453?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/239750707995904453/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=239750707995904453' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/239750707995904453'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/239750707995904453'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/need-help-remodeling-in-carlsbad.html' title='Need Help Remodeling In Carlsbad'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-1486510209953982011</id><published>2009-08-19T06:57:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-19T06:57:59.365-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Stair Lighting Problems</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Walking up and down the stairs in the dark could become a safety issue. If the stairs in the house are not that old, there should be a light switch at the top and a light switch at the bottom of the stairway. This is a three way switch and is designed to allow you to turn the stair lighting on as you walk up the stairs and then turn the stair lighting off, once you've safely reached the top of the stairway. And vice versa as she walked down the stairs.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you don't have a light switch, there are motion sensor lights that are battery operated and can be installed easily in the stairway. These lights can provide you with peace of mind, while protecting your family from accidents.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Stairway accidents are nothing to joke about, I lived in a two-story house with four other people and was the last one to fall down the stairway. None of us got seriously injured and the stairway was built to meet local building codes and was inspected by a building and safety inspector. The stairs were built correctly and the stair lighting was no problem, but people still fell down the stairway and it always happens in the evening.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;During the day time there were two windows that let plenty of light into the stairway and in the evening the stairway became quite dark, rarely was the &lt;a target="_new" rel="nofollow" href="http://stairs4u.com/stair_lighting.htm"&gt;stair lightning&lt;/a&gt; ever turned on. This could have been outright laziness but nevertheless, it was rarely used and eventually became a safety issue.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Lighting your stairway might not end all of your problems but it can and some of your problems. There are plenty of stair lighting systems available on the market today and some of the battery operated stair lighting systems can be installed by most homeowners.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Think safety always and do your best to solve your stair lighting problems as soon as possible to prevent injuries or accidents.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He has just finished a Home Buyers Guide to take some of the frustration out of home shopping.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If your looking for some more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://stairs4u.com/eimage/howtobuildstraightstairs.htm"&gt;building stairs&lt;/a&gt; or home building ideas.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/selfhelp/developing_wealth_building_habit.htm&gt;Developing Wealth Building Habit&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-1486510209953982011?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/1486510209953982011/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=1486510209953982011' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1486510209953982011'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/1486510209953982011'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/stair-lighting-problems.html' title='Stair Lighting Problems'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6788559136390897430.post-2367667578170724303</id><published>2009-08-18T18:06:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-18T18:06:27.183-07:00</updated><title type='text'>New Versus Old Lumber - Structural Failure</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;During my 30 years of remodeling and building new homes. I have ran across quite a bit of structural framing failures. I find myself answering this question a lot when explaining to a homeowner about the structural failure I am repairing on their home, "Why Didn't They Use Better Lumber" or " Why Didn't They Use Larger Lumber." I really have a hard time answering these questions because I honestly don't know the answer.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;However I can try to use some logic and reason to give these people an answer that seems to make sense to both of us. Why didn't they use better lumber, quite simply because, with most older homes that were built before the 1970s they actually do have better lumber. Now you're probably thinking how can these homes have better lumber when the lumber is old versus the new lumber used in a brand new house.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most of the structural repairs I have made over the years has nothing to do with the lumber and whether it was new or old. A large number of these repairs were caused by neglect and poor maintenance.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The lumber in most older houses are from older growth trees. Some of these trees were extremely large and only the premium parts of the trees were used. The premium lumber is cut farthest away from the center of the tree. Now the larger the tree it makes sense that there will be more premium lumber.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A large majority of the newer lumber used in home construction comes from trees about 6 inches in diameter. Now you're probably wondering how can they cut a 2 x 8 piece of lumber out of a 6 inch tree. Of course they cannot, the larger lumber comes from larger trees.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most 2 x 4's that are less than 8 foot long can be cut from these trees. This scrap or waste that comes from cutting these two by fours will now go into engineered building materials like particleboard, oriented strand board and engineered beams. Another name for an engineered been would be a paralam.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I hope you're starting to get the picture now when it comes to using new or old lumber. There are companies that are going into old logging rivers and retrieving old growth lumber. These were logs that sank to the bottom of the river's and were never retrieved because it was too costly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The old growth lumber is quite expensive. Who's to say what problems we will happen in the future from the newer products created with modern day technology. When it comes to building houses it is not an exact science and as contractors we have been repairing the damage from poor engineering for years.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When I use the word poor engineering I am not pointing fingers at engineers. We now have more knowledge about home construction then we had years ago.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;New versus old lumber, who wins the battle. Only time will tell.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Greg Vanden Berge is working on the internet to promote the education for creating simple to follow guides and home building books to help professional building contractors as well as the weekend warriors. He is currently working on more &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/library.htm"&gt;building and Remodeling Library&lt;/a&gt; and adding useful content to help solve problems created by the lack of construction knowledge in the building industry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visit us and get more information on building and remodeling your homes and &lt;a target="_new" href="http://gregvan.com/structural_repair.htm"&gt;Structural Repairs&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href=http://gregvandenberge.com/selfhelp/getting_up_earlier.htm&gt;Getting Up Earlier&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6788559136390897430-2367667578170724303?l=enlightenment14u.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/feeds/2367667578170724303/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6788559136390897430&amp;postID=2367667578170724303' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2367667578170724303'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6788559136390897430/posts/default/2367667578170724303'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://enlightenment14u.blogspot.com/2009/08/new-versus-old-lumber-structural.html' title='New Versus Old Lumber - Structural Failure'/><author><name>Mark</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
